What should I do if my parents are illiterate and can t communicate???

Am I having the same troubles? They often quarrel over trivial matters! If this continues, it will affect their health, and my dad is already obese and often angry

I really want to have a family meeting with them, communicate with them well, and if the communication is good, I believe that this family will not be so discordant.

Give them full respect. But if they do big things, if they don't do it, they will make their own decisions.

There is nothing that cannot be communicated, only those who are unwilling to communicate. A lot of things have nothing to do with literacy. You can also communicate with them in easy-to-understand words and ideas.

After all, it was born to you and raised you, so you can't be angry with them casually, bear with them, and forgive more. I'm so old, and my parents can't help me with many things, so I can solve them by myself, and my friends.

I met such a mother, my father married the wrong mother and ruined our three generations, as a result, my father and eldest brother died because of her illiteracy, selfishness, and inability to distinguish between right and wrong, the eldest son died at the age of 28, she didn't even go to see each other for the last time, and two pillars of the family died, but she didn't wake up at all, and the eldest daughter-in-law and grandson sued her for the house. In the past ten years, he has still had a dispute with me. No matter how good I am to her, I still scold me for being unfilial and dying early, I really can't do anything in the face of her, the moral kidnapping of the world crushes me and I often commit suicide and want to see my father and brother.

Alas! If it weren't for the fact that my son was still young and suffering from severe depression, I really wanted to change people like her by dying. My son and her little grandson are disgusted with her, not to mention the two daughters-in-law.

Alas! I live so helplessly, helplessly, and lonely, and it is too difficult for me to improve this family and put the family members on the right track. Time and time again, I have lost sight of the hope of family harmony.

First of all, in daily life and work, we must not let my father realize that he is "uninformed", "uneducated", and "scumbag of soil", and at the same time, you also give negative words, encourage and praise first! In fact, there are many typical examples in life First, an ordinary old man working in Wenzhou, Henan, in the last 19 years of his life, he saved nearly 350,000 yuan in the streets in the wind and rain, and funded nearly 300 poor students with nearly 350,000 yuan accumulated by pedaling a tricycle, and his private property bill was a zero. These people are only illiterate.

These examples are also critical of today's bureaucracy! In fact, the truth of culture is also the Tao, and walking on the ground with two feet is also the Tao. People have spiritual bodies, and people's thinking runs through culture, so isn't it the Tao?

Therefore, illiteracy should refer to the ignorance of human affairs, and those who have no wisdom are called illiterate!

Of course, the most important thing is to talk and chat about the care and companionship of family members, and increase the relationship between father and son. If you encounter special circumstances, such as you miss your hometown in a foreign country, and your father doesn't know how to read, you can use ** instead! Since you have asked such a question, it shows that you are also very filial!

I'm rooting for you!

With heart, love, and action to filial piety to him, it is not easy for your father to raise you.

Communication – Father's love is wordless ——— understanding.