What was it like to be found out by your family when you were in love in high school?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If it's true love, you don't have to worry about being found out at all, but it's best if you can stick to it. I started falling in love as a sophomore in high school, but we did a good job of keeping secrets, and basically no one knew about it except for a few close friends. In fact, I think that love is not a reason to affect studies at all, two people encourage and support each other to study harder, right?

    Anyway, after I fell in love with her, my grades rose steadily. Really, I've always felt that there is no such thing as "puppy love", when you meet the right person, whether it's morning or night, it's just right, as for whether it's the right person, then you can only ask yourself. I'm a late opener.,I didn't have the idea of falling in love at all before I met her.,I'm also the kind of person who blushes when I talk to girls.ใ€‚

    After the second year of high school, she sat behind me, saw that I had a gray hair, and said if she wanted to help me pull it out. I still remember that scene, her voice was very soft, the roots of my ears were red, and the noise of her classmates seemed to be in the same dimension. Then I started to pursue her, and now I don't think I'm a puppy love, I met the right person at the right time.

    As soon as I graduated from high school, I took her back to meet my parents, and my parents liked her very much. Then I went to college for four years, I got married the year I graduated from college, and my daughter was born the next year, and now my daughter is three years old and my son is three months old. I'm very happy now, and if you think he's the right person for you, I hope you can persevere, and I hope you can get the same happiness as I do.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I was once caught in a relationship in high school. At that time, I really felt my heart pinch. But fortunately, my parents were reasonable, asked me a lot about girls' families, and then told me to talk about it when I was in college.

    Now it's mainly learning. Then I said, we can't be separated. My dad said that if you can both get into the ideal university, let the two of you be together.

    Then we worked hard and worked very hard to achieve our goals. I feel that as long as my parents are generous, maybe high school love will become a kind of motivation.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'm now in love and was caught and then invited home by the head teacher.,I fell in love for the first time.,Talked about it for more than a hundred days.,I was found by the teacher when I kissed in the classroom.,And then of course I was invited to the parents.,I was taught by the teacher boring.,I was ruthlessly asked by the parents to cut off contact with the girl.ใ€‚ But after going back, I really thought about it a lot, high school students really have to fight for their future, how can they be good to her in the future if they don't work hard now? If she can wait for me for a year and a half, get through this high school, and then she and I go to the same city (the same university is not realistic), I think, love can stand the time, I don't want to fall in love with someone else, I am not a person who is easy to change my mind, and it has always been my wish to be with her for a long time, I hope she can study hard, pretend to break up first, and we will be together again in college.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    During my freshman year, I told my mother that I was in love (I actually talked about it in my freshman year of high school), and my mother looked at me and said who was it. Then the mother said that the first year of high school Ban Ren called her ** and said that I was in love, and my family asked if it was with whom, and Ban Ren said, you know, my family said, well, I know. When I was a freshman in high school, I thought I was very strict in secrecy, but I was discovered.

    The feeling of being found is that I finally don't have to hide, and besides, I knew I wouldn't hide anymore.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    My parents always thought I wasn't in a relationship. When I was in high school. Maybe I look more well-behaved, and the love in my student days doesn't count, but mine is.

    Except for the simple like, there is nothing else. I bought a very beautiful book and wrote his name, but I didn't even dare to write my name, for fear that others would know what was on my mind. Sometimes, I can't help but write it down, and I will wipe it off vigorously.

    Anyway, everyone has their own story, one is different and two are wide, and everyone likes it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I was found by my mother once in high school, but my mother is a very open-minded parent, and I was panicked at first, but my mother also told me to keep my bottom line, don't do anything out of the ordinary, and the most important thing is to protect myself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Summary. Hello dear, I'm glad to answer for you! The school focuses on criticism and education, communicates with parents, and actively cooperates with the school work, the teacher patiently persuades the education, so that the students are clear about the stakes, and the work of the students must pay attention to the method, so that the students are easy to accept and willing to correct, so as to achieve the satisfactory results of the school and family.

    Puppy love is understood on the surface as "falling in love too early" and is deeply understood as "establishing a romantic relationship before puberty". The term "puppy love" generally carries the opposition of the elders and is only widely used in China around the world. Puppy love generally refers to falling in love too early.

    There may be defects that need to be addressed: (1) caused by xing impulse and external attraction, lack of ideological and emotional considerations; (2) Mutual admiration is often generated by the advantages of both parties, and the lack of comprehensive evaluation of each other is easy to cause emotional instability; (3) Lack of sense of responsibility and ethical and moral constraints, prone to xing behavior, harming the physical and mental health of both parties.

    Hello dear, I'm glad to answer for you! The school focuses on criticism and education, communicates with parents, and actively cooperates with the school work, the teacher patiently persuades the education, so that the students are clear about the stakes, and the work of the students must pay attention to the method, so that the students are easy to accept and willing to correct, so as to achieve the satisfactory results of the school and family. On the surface, puppy love is understood as "falling in love too early", and in the depths of the situation, it is understood as "establishing a romantic relationship before puberty".

    The term "puppy love" generally carries the opposition of the elders and is only widely used in China around the world. Puppy love generally refers to falling in love too early. There may be defects that need to be addressed:

    1) Produced by xing impulse and external attraction, lack of ideological and emotional considerations and scum; (2) Mutual admiration is often generated by the advantages of both parties, and the lack of comprehensive evaluation of each other is easy to cause emotional instability; (3) Lack of sense of responsibility and ethical and moral constraints, prone to xing behavior, harming the physical and mental health of both parties.

    Kisses can also break up temporarily, two people work silently first, agree to be admitted to the same university, meet again in college, and then continue the relationship.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Summary. Why is it very uncomfortable to be in love and found out by parents.

    Hello? Which character are you?

    Schoolgirl. Where are you in school now?

    Hello? Hello young lady, I don't know if it's a problem with the system, I haven't received it from you, and there is a delay, apologize to you first, it may make you wait for a long time.

    It was posted by the parents in it.,Single.ใ€‚

    Sorry, the system is down and you've been waiting.

    Of course, it will be very uncomfortable, because the reason for being single may be one aspect of the parents' different intentions, now at the age of the year, the two of them just hope that you will study hard and not want to pretend to be his affair.

    Because the matter of falling in love is still very long, you may meet more beautiful people, and your family wants you to be excellent, which is like you choosing his relatives to tease, not them choosing you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hehe, I have encountered a lot of such students, and I often have to deal with this kind of problem.

    First of all, people will be interested in the opposite sex until puberty, every normal person will be like this, you have a boyfriend, it means that you have normal psychological and physical development in all aspects, which is a good thing;

    Second: Although it is normal, however, generally speaking, falling in love is very lethal to girls, the focus of your previous studies has changed to your boyfriend, you will think about how to make him happy, if you care about him, he is not happy, you are not happy, he is happy, you are happier than him, so your study must be greatly reduced, it will not be good for you in the future;

    Third: The success rate of falling in love in high school is very small, and your main task now is not this, it is studying, so there is no need now;

    Fourth, it's hard for a girl to let go of a guy when she falls in love, so the best way now is to talk to your parents (or one of them you can tell him) and ask them to give you some solutions. To be honest, in the same school, and now that communication is so developed, it is so difficult to let go; The best way is to let go of your heart and ask them to help you too, and also ask your boyfriend to be sensible and bother you less. Less contact.

    If you really want to be friends, you can come to college. I have some students who have kept this in their hearts, and they have only only developed in college, and some of them have gotten married.

    The most important thing is: you have to talk to your mother, otherwise, it will affect you for the rest of your life! ยท

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's okay with this, as long as the grades are good. Parents should be more open-minded nowadays. Say it well.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello dear, first of all, at the moment, in front of parents and teachers, you have to promise them to break up, this is a must, otherwise it will be even worse. After promising your parents, you should calm down in your actions for a while. The communication meeting with your BF will be reduced temporarily, and the little ones can't bear to make big plans.

    During this period, you should redouble your efforts to study, on the one hand, let your parents believe that you have broken up and are on the right track and relax your vigilance, and on the other hand, lay the foundation for the teacher to turn a blind eye to you in the future, because the teacher will only care about your grades, good grades, everything, if not, it will kill you. Usually you can't contact in front of your parents, what letters, notes, throw them all away, don't lose a big thing, you can put the things you send to each other, just make up a reason. These things must be absolute, otherwise your parents will easily become suspicious and start investigating.

    The road behind is easy to go, it is indispensable to deceive your parents, and it is also necessary to behave well in front of the teacher, only by eliminating these two aspects, you can have a free emotional life. There will be a lot to pay, because this time is not suitable for patting in the eyes of the public, so I say, if you decide to pat, then you have to go on seriously and don't regret it.

    Questions. I'm a man, what should I do if I am caught by the woman's father.

    Can patiently explain dear, elaborate on your situation, you are just ordinary friends.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Then let's be honest, and thank you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It is agreed that before the college entrance examination, we will only talk about learning, and at the end ......of the college entrance examination, we will talk about feelings, so that there is a motivation for each other, and the parents of both sides are also at ease

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If this matter is placed abroad, your parents will not care, but if you were born in China, it is called early love, and it is not too late to have a girlfriend when you are admitted to college.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    What you do now will make you regret it in the future. How many people are distressed because they don't study well. You are ruining your own learning because you want to be "together".

    Together, the main thing is that the soul is together, then they are always together, even if they are far away, the soul is still close. It's love, maybe you already understand it, maybe you don't understand it yet. But it's definitely not formally together just together.

    You go and see, there are several great loves that men and women are together every day. Can you still be together at work? Isn't your so-called love withering immediately if you don't stay together?

    That's too much to test.

    Think about it, if you have a future, if you want a future, life should always be better. Going to a bad school does not necessarily mean that life is bad, but this in itself has nothing to do with the quality of the school. Don't you want your life to be better except for love?

    Study hard. If you do what a mature person should do, then your parents will be proud of you. At least worry about it less.

    No wonder parents are against puppy love. Because puppy love comes at the expense of studies and futures. They were supposed to support you.

    After all, love is in nature and there is nothing to oppose. But what you are doing now is tantamount to telling them that you have been carried away by love and have no reason to speak of. Tell them how to believe in you and support you.

    You've got to think about it. There is still a long way to go. Don't let your parents worry about you. Pity the hearts of parents all over the world.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I was disciplined by my parents for a few days in a row, my pocket money for a month was deducted, and my parents checked your homework every day.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Not giving food, locking up the black room, torture, watering, palace punishment...You've got it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Love does make people involuntarily, but you are still young, many things you don't know, you have to understand what the goal is now, is it not to be admitted to a good school, if you really love each other, even if you are not together, you can also have the same mind, people will change all the time, what you like now does not mean that you will like it in the future, that's it, besides, in life, in addition to your parents, your family is the most important, alas, I hope you can understand what I mean.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Now, you still don't know how to love, love is not dependence, since your parents are very sad, just break up with him, after all, it is your parents who give you life.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Both of you study hard, even if you are admitted to different schools, it is fine, the most important thing is to be worthy of yourself, you are now deliberately poor for him, and you will regret it when you are older, and there will be many regrets left in your life, I hope you don't leave regrets for yourself because of a momentary willfulness.

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