A troublesome thing, a troublesome person, a troublesome thing

I've experienced this kind of thing before, and now I look back and think it's really nothing, the most important thing is to calm down your mentality, don't care too much about what others think, the key is yourself, as a tablemate, what's not to do with chatting? Try to have a few words with him first, of course not you take the initiative, you can talk to him while he is talking to you, don't be too stubborn. Communication is one of the most basic skills, and you will never stop talking to the opposite sex in the future, right?

Of course, you can explain to him that don't get old and talk about the two of you. Because there's nothing to say about it at all. I've always been very introverted, and until now I'm a junior in college, I'm still the most introverted among my friends, but I've been trying to change myself, and it's not good to be too introverted in today's society.

To put it simply, he may be very interested in you.

It's not necessarily the kind you like, it's just the kind of interest.

So you just have to talk to him about the basics while he's talking to you.

lest he feel that you are special to him

Continue to ignore him, what's wrong, just say it if you like to talk, if you care about what others think, you should change yourself, if you don't want to change yourself, you have to accept the strangeness of others to you.

Accept their gossip.

Accept that clown-like self.

Alas! Very simple! Take the initiative to ask him! Find something to talk about! I came in the morning to say hello, and then I didn't have anything to eat... Mess around, and slowly you'll have a conversation with the guy!

High school boys are always like this, they love to play. Actually, you don't have to care too much.

I want to ask you what is the reason why you don't like to talk, don't say it's innate, no matter how much advice we make, it's useless, the key is that you have to learn to change.

What is Trouble?

When your behavior causes inconvenience to others, you are causing trouble to others.

When you put someone in a dilemma, you're adding trouble to them.

These troubles in life are inevitable. Some people will choose to refuse directly when they encounter trouble, cut off the trouble, and reduce their troubles. Some people will choose to compromise when they encounter trouble, accept the trouble, and wronged themselves.

Of course, there are also people who politely refuse, anyway, it is all troublesome to refuse, but it takes more words than direct refusal.

It cannot be said that one choice is absolutely right or wrong. It's understandable to refuse, but it's understandable to accept, after all, there aren't many people who know how to say no reasonably. However, the original problem of this trouble is not the person who is forced to accept or reject it.

It's the ones who make trouble.

Some people always take it for granted to trouble others, but in their hearts they don't feel that they are bothering others, but think that this is what others should do. He didn't understand that it was necessary and obligatory for no one to do anything for him. It's just that others are willing or not.

Therefore, when you reject him, he may still think that you are a very bad person.

Some people are looking for faults, to put it bluntly, they just want to rectify you, they just want to trouble you on purpose. And what she wants to find fault with is often those who don't know how to refuse, the one who compromises. Because she knows that if others don't want to do this, you will definitely be willing, because you are embarrassed to refuse.

So, sometimes learning to say no is not necessarily a bad thing, you learn to say it once, maybe the object of finding fault in the future will no longer be you.

There is another kind of person, who is troublesome to others, and they do not realize that it has caused inconvenience to others. Such a person can only be said to have no heart, he is not thoughtful when he encounters problems, and he is unconscious when he is troubled by the dry oak banquet. In the same way, you must learn to say no to them.

He won't bother you anymore when he understands it.

In life, learn to trouble people less, and learn to solve what you can solve as much as possible. When you are in trouble, learn to look at people, look at things, if people are worthy, if you can settle things, you can choose to do it. Otherwise, resolutely don't wronged yourself when you should refuse.

"Smack! "Smack! "Smack! "Beautiful fireworks splashed in the sky, yellow, red, green ......The sound of firecrackers was deafening, and the "crackling" sound of firecrackers brought a disappointing and troublesome thing.

On Chinese New Year's Eve, our family closed the door to rest, returned home, parked the car on a path between the two houses, and then stopped for a day to stay at home to eat, drink and have fun, until the first day of the new year, the car "moved", because there was no time to start the car, the car in these two or three days, the worst - the sound of firecrackers, the sound of firecrackers used up the car's electricity. You probably don't know what that means, do you? It's here, the sound of firecrackers is very loud, and the car is affected by the sound of firecrackers, and it has been all the time of the day, "Tick!

Tick! Tick! "There is no electricity, so it can't be started, and a certain amount of electricity is also needed to start, and if there is no electricity, it can't be started.

What to do? Looking for help with the maintenance of the marine car, I called a **, the people from the ocean came, and charged the car with the battery, but what was even more depressing was that the battery of the ocean was out of power, hey! I happened to run into my father's good friend, and my good friend was also from an auto repair company, and there happened to be a battery in the car, so I escaped.

No way! It's half past eleven" Mom looked at her phone and screamed in surprise, and the three of us had just started to drive towards Grandma's house.

Ay! The troubles in the New Year are really disappointing, depressed, and troublesome!

The trouble around me is that I can't find the good man around me, and I don't believe I don't have that luck. I just feel like I haven't found a way yet. These are digressions, but I still want to tell you that you should find out on your own, because you found out for yourself.

Only then can I have a deep experience, and what I invent is more emotional.

good luck

This question is more vague, but there are a lot of troublesome things in life, as long as you classify them, separate the important things from the unimportant, separate the more urgent from the non-urgent, separate the big things from the small things, and the one that is important to you, you deal with that thing first, and then you will have a clue about the troublesome things.

In fact, there will be some trivial things in everyone's life, you can use them as a spice in life, if there are only major events related to life and death in life, you will feel a lot of pressure, but there are some small things that can make you relax your nerves. You don't have to work these little things, you can solve them with a little brain, and sometimes there are unexpected gains. So, don't think of them as annoying, it's more fun to do them for fun.

Can anything be invented? Then my trouble is. A lot, such as the Internet can not find the starring information of a Disney movie, etcHehe.

There are always unsatisfactory things in life! Who is smooth sailing? If you have troubles, you have to deal with them! People always grow up in troubles.

Because if you are in love, everything will be great, and if the other party is not polite to you, you will be troubled, and you will think about everything