Relationship problems, it is difficult to choose, and I can t judge whether my boyfriend is sincere

If you are soft-hearted again and again, let him get used to it, and simply be ruthless, you can know whether his party is perfunctory or sincere, if it is perfunctory, then forget it, if it is sincere, you might as well make three chapters of the law!

I feel that he loves you very much, many boys are so informal, but it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you. There are many kinds of boys, and since they are afraid of losing you, it means that they care about you! Hope you are happy!

The road knows the horsepower, and the people will see it for a long time.

This should be done from all aspects, for example, accidentally hurting your hands when cooking and chopping vegetables.

Playing outside with friends or not coming back to work, did you call ** to ask you when you come back, where do you want to play, do you accompany you?

Being wronged on the outside and coming back cares about you and doesn't care about you.

After work, I can eat the food cooked by my beloved.

There are other self-evaluation feelings! Thank you.

Caring about you everywhere for your sake, the most important thing is that no matter who is right or wrong in a fight, he will not apologize to you first.

Clause.

1. If a man doesn't care about you, he needs you to observe carefully, and there is no unified standard for this.

Clause. Second, sometimes after two people get along for a long time, there is no question of who doesn't care about whom, and there is just a question of who cares about who is more, and who cares about who is less.

Clause. 3. If you have to have a standard, then I'll give you a few questions, think about it, and then compare it with mine.

The red flag does not fall at home, and the colorful flags flutter outside. Not good, think carefully and choose the right one for you.

Follow your heart! Go with the flow! Wishing you happiness!

Think about it yourself, others can't say it, it's hard to say... Individuals have different personal thoughts...

Then keep it up with your ex-girlfriend and let it be.

Go with your heart. The result of swaying from side to side is that the bamboo basket is empty.

You're all tempted, and you're still asking?

Why are they separated and reunited?

The literal meaning of the whole sentence.

That is, the party is splitting his legs, and he is still undecided about which person to choose, and he can't make a choice.

It's just that the feelings are not grasped, and the control is particularly good, so it is difficult to judge which one you want or which one you don't want.

One: There are two or more different choices, each of which seems to have feelings, has fallen into emotional chaos, and does not know what exactly he should choose; 2. I am a person with difficulty in choosing, and I am entangled in problems; Three:

Even I don't know my heart, I seem to like it, but I don't seem to love it.

It doesn't matter what you choose, what matters is what you want to choose and what your heart wants.

I wrote a passage for your wife:

You can not care about me, can you give up your child? Do you dare to face Mom and Dad? Do you dare to bear the gossip?

Do you want your boss and colleagues to look at you differently? You are not a child anymore, you should understand that life is not a movie, and love is not everything. You said that you love her, just think about her, you are reluctant to break it, and it only hurts her.

It also harmed himself and everyone. ”

Age is not a distance, and the difference between you is the entanglement of your inner world, and there is distance, girls, they all like each other to coax her a little, in fact, it is also, this is the advantage of a girl, but also her disadvantage, what she is afraid of is that you will break up with her one day, although she said that she wants to break up with you, in fact, if it really comes to this point, she will be very traumatized, because she was just talking at the time, what she didn't expect was that this day would really happen, people often say, There is no fragrance of wild flowers in the house, please imagine, it is because she cares about you too much, it is because she is afraid of losing you, so she has to know your behavior in everything, and there is the second one, although he is younger than you, his personality is lively and cheerful, but if you think about it, the future life tends to be stable. And not flashy.

It is advisable to wait for someone to abandon you, rather than to abandon someone else.

Two birds in the forest are not as good as one bird in hand, donor, you are distracted.

As mentioned in the article, many of them are just excuses, no matter how much advice you give you, the decision is still in your own hands, and you naturally have a scale in your own heart. I know best which is more important. Don't stand on this mountain and look at that mountain, maybe it's worse to get to that mountain ...

Hee-hee......

Think about how to make a trade-off!! Your tangle is self-inflicted ...

Well, no more ado! If you talk too much, you won't have anything good to say... Bow.

From your tone, it shows that you have a preference for the current small girlfriend, and you can't let go of the big girlfriend, which shows that your conscience is condemning. My advice is that men better find someone who loves themselves, not someone you love. Now that both women love you, then you should find one of the ones you love the most.

Even if you regret it in the future, it is your choice, and breaking up as soon as possible is only a temporary pain, don't cause a lifetime of pain, whether it is for a man or a woman.

The next one doesn't have to be the best! Cherish what you have now! Your first girlfriend is your best bet!

If you accept the second girl who is five years younger than you, you will find out that she has the same disease as your first girlfriend at a certain time, and you will be annoyed with her at that time! Sometimes people don't just live for yourself! I know you'll also choose the first girl because this question you're asking is all nonsense!

You ask your conscience! Have you ever had a heartache? If you want to try heartache, go and choose the second !!

Loving marriage is two different things! One day, Plato asked the teacher Socrates what love was. The teacher told him to go to the wheat field first, and pick the largest and most golden ear of wheat in the whole wheat field, during which he could only pick it once, and he could only walk forward, not turn back.

Plato did as his teacher said. As a result, he walked out of the field empty-handed. The teacher asked him why he couldn't pick it.

He said: Because I can only pick it once, and I can't go back, even if I see the biggest and most golden one during the period, I don't know if there is a better one in front of me, so I don't pick it; When I went to the front, I was never as good as I had seen before, and the largest and most golden ears of wheat had long been missed; So I didn't pick anything.

The teacher said: This is "love".

Then one day, Plato asked his teacher what marriage was, and his teacher told him to go into the woods and cut down the largest and most luxuriant tree in the woods, which was the most suitable for a Christmas tree at home. Again, you can only cut it once, and you can only go forward without looking back.

Plato did as his teacher said. This time, he came back with an ordinary, not very lush, not too bad tree. The teacher asked him how he brought this ordinary tree back, and he said

With my last experience, when I was halfway to the distance and empty-handed, I saw that the tree was not too bad, so I cut it down, so as not to miss it and end up with nothing. ”

The teacher said, "This is marriage!" ”

So emotional things are easy to entangle, and it's hard to find perfection, if you meet someone who likes you, if you can have a little feeling for each other, just accept it, don't miss it and regret it...

Break up with your current boyfriend and go crazy about your love for once, so as not to regret it later

I can understand your dilemma, I have experienced that one side is family affection, and the other side is friendship, and it is difficult to choose

But you have to understand that love is ours, suitable or inappropriate, only we know, just like shoes are big or small, only when you wear them on your feet

That's all I have to say, I hope you can be happy

Dilemma: Choose to love yourself? Or do you love it?

Marriage and love are different, and you have to find someone you love when you fall in love, and you have more feelings. But if you want to get married, you have to find someone who can take care of you like your brother. Now that you have a family to take care of you, you still can't feel it, but once you start a family by yourself, you will slowly realize that love will become weaker and weaker, and feelings are the most important thing.

From the perspective of someone who has come before, I will choose the first one.

Think carefully, if you don't love someone, marrying him is easy to marry! (Lose-lose).

Bland, best.

Love will eventually translate into affection. Online dating is not supported. I think my boyfriend is good now, are you willing to break off your three-year relationship?

People always have a sense of freshness, but we all need time to prove that maybe it would be better for women to find someone who loves them!

I think you still have to get along with the person you love for a while, and if you don't get along, you don't know if it's really suitable or inappropriate The original one, if you really don't love him, there's no need to entangle anymore, otherwise you will hurt yourself and hurt others in the end, don't you say?

Communicate well with your parents, parents who have not won their children, talk to your current boyfriend about your feelings for him, deal with the relationship, show determination, and don't step on two boats.

It is a bit sloppy to set the feeling on the side, and it is recommended that you deepen your understanding of the latter; As for the former, if you really don't like it and don't feel it, then make it clear as soon as possible, the longer it drags on, the more it hurts him. Whether the latter exists or not, you should think about whether you really love the former, whether you can marry him, and then live happily for a lifetime. If you can't, then it's better to divide it.

The love and dislove you feel now is just a momentary feeling, marriage is a lifelong thing, of course it is not suitable to divorce, but I believe you don't want to do this. Take a piece of paper out, write down the strengths and weaknesses of two people, and then compare which ones you can accept, which ones you can't, and which ones you can live with for the rest of your life. When you're doing this work, it's a good idea to call a few of your best friends to help you analyze it, so that you don't have favoritism.

I think you should think about your parents' feelings again, because the old man will not hurt and deceive his children, the old man is also very accurate, a person can not just look at the present, there are many things that pass by, of course, including love, after a long time, the freshness will pass, don't blindly choose, maybe one day you will lose the feeling of love for this person, what will you do? Whoever you live with is for a lifetime, but you have to see who can give you a lifetime of life. Don't let yourself regret it!

The specific situation is not very detailed, because we don't know the two people you said, but I think if you really have no love with your boyfriend for three years, then there is really no need to love together, after marriage, it will be like a family change, but it is a happy upgrade at least when you are old and have infinite memories, now that is not accurate, only get along to witness, I will leave the former to consider the second, you can give him a chance.

Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai will elope for love, not to mention the young people now. Is there anything you can't let go, you have to do it if you want to do it!

Well, it's full of difficulties. If it really doesn't work, let the two of them "pk", let the family be the examiner, and see which one the family prefers. You tell me?

There are two options:

1. Reunite with my classmate's ex-boyfriend of three years.

2. Don't choose either, find another person who is decisive and doesn't cry too much, and can live a down-to-earth life with you.

The ex-boyfriend is not worth nostalgia, because it is really not suitable, if it is suitable, the two-year run-in has already achieved positive results, it is recommended to treat the current boyfriend with heart, don't miss it again, the past is over, don't be obsessed with the current and lose the present, the relationship is to be cared for by two people.

If you feel guilty in your heart, treat him well, and being good does not necessarily mean that you have to make up for it with love. First of all, if you are not suitable, you should not continue to be together. You should look for your most suitable partner and don't waste your energy on the useless past.

In addition, you should help your boyfriend get out of the illusion of being in love and stop being obsessed. As for your ex-boyfriend, he can do whatever he likes.

Trust is also key, can you guarantee that your ex-boyfriend will trust you a lot? "He listened to the slander of outsiders and thought that I was not clean with my current boyfriend, which led to a deeper and deeper misunderstanding" Will it leave a shadow in his heart? Pimples?

If you had chosen him, would he have said things all at once in the future? Thus creating a situation of inequality?

But after a long time, many problems have been exposed, his personality is incompatible, and he often has disputes, but he is reluctant to break up every time. "He is reluctant, are you willing? Ask yourself if it hurts to break up with him?

Will there be a little bit of joy, not to worry about the situation of being caught between the two sides, (which is probably what it means), will you love him a little more or be grateful a little more?

I've never been in a relationship and don't know what to choose? Just to say what you think? Or if you go out for a month, don't change any of them, see which one you want most, make a quick decision, don't be indecisive, hurt others and yourself!!

Seeing that you have written so much, you can see that you are really struggling and sad. I think you need to isolate yourself now, don't think about anything, go out and relax on a trip, you will make yourself sick with such a lot of psychological pressure. When traveling, you will find that in fact, some contradictions are not as difficult to solve as you think, in fact, there will be contradictions whether they are substitutes or true love, and they cannot give up because of tangled or something, there will be a run-in between couples and friends, and taking a step back is a long-term solution.