I m going to marry him, and my mom thinks he s too smart, what should I do, isn t it good to be smar

There are many kinds of cleverness, some are great wisdom, and some are small clever. Some are used for self-interest, and some are used to harm others.

If you know him well enough and have enough faith in him, then stick to your opinion.

Of course, you must also let your mother know more about him. After all, it's better to be smart than stupid.

Alas, which one of mine is stupid! I envy you

Maybe sometimes, if you are smart, you think more, and you feel that the city is deeper.

Your mother may be afraid that you will suffer. After all, if he is smart, if something happens in the future, he can casually set you up or something.

However, if he is genuinely good to you, being smart doesn't have any negative effect.

Are you a very simple and confused person, so your mother is afraid that you will suffer?

As long as he is clever and not used in any bad way, it is not cunning.

Being clever is generally a good thing, but if you don't use your cleverness on the right path, it's not a good thing. In fact, sometimes marrying a smart person is not necessarily a happy thing.

But don't worry too much, because a person is always controlled by his inner thoughts, no matter how smart he is, he can't get rid of this, so you have to see if the essence of others is bad or not, what kind of personality is there. If he is a good person and has a good personality, then it is a good thing to be smart. Because he is more capable of creating a happy family.

Your time is too short, maybe you have to get along more, if he likes you very much, the old man is also afraid that he will be too slippery.

If you are smart, you can use your smart mind to think about it, how to let others find out that you are not a smart person, and if you are wise, you can understand the word. Of course, being happy is important, but there is no necessary constraint between being happy and being smart!

Let your girlfriend say that you are smart and that you are awesome, that will make you happier.

There are also two sides, not smart and easy to be deceived, there are too many ** in this society, and it is still necessary to be smart, but many things are seen through and not broken, and they are still good friends, at least smart enough to have a certain ability to protect themselves.

Since you are smart, you have to make good use of him to help you the happiest, if you can't do it, you are just playing treasure.

Quit talking too much, self-righteous and smart, it is easy for you to look foreign.

It's good to be smart, don't be clever. Outsmart oneself.

It seems that you are not smart enough, and when you are smart, you will know how to compromise.

Your question still keeps highlighting your cleverness.

You love her in your heart, so you value his every word.

You want you to be the purest in his heart, and you want you to be the most beautiful in his eyes.

So, you care about his every action, every word, you don't even have time to think about whether that sentence is correct, you don't even have time to react how to answer, your heart has already made the answer, and the --- he likes is right...

There is no ego, as long as his approval;

There is no self-confidence, as long as he has an affirmative look;

If you put your value in someone else's heart, then you will never be able to keep up with the standard in his heart.

Maybe he doesn't even know what he's talking about, but the listener knows, maybe he doesn't have his own thoughts of life, and you are at the mercy of his will, so your pathos is already doomed...

You don't need to do anything for him, you just recognize yourself.

When you recognize yourself, you may find that he has already recognized you.

I guess you must care about that boy, right? You care a lot about what you are like in his heart, so you will reveal your inner emotions. In fact, I think that a girl's intelligence lies in how she behaves in the world and how she interacts with people.

We can't confuse "smart" with "scheming". A really smart girl must know how to make herself happy every day and be a positive person.

"They all say that it's not good for women to be too smart", I think when the other party states this point of view to you, he also agrees, because in his heart, he has a little resistance, and this resistance is beyond his control, because he is worried that he or he already knows that he can't surpass that smart woman, so he chose this argument at the beginning.

If that's the case, then there's no need for you to have a deep relationship with such a man. Because we all know that a wise woman knows when to give face to a man, when to take out a woman's charm and advantages to fight, when to satisfy a man's self-esteem and self with a bird's attitude, and when to empty her life and thoughts to make her life better and more comfortable. Maybe as women, we can't really do all of them, but we aspire to these, pursue these, and strive to perfect these, isn't such a woman cute and enterprising?

If at this time, he next to you still thinks that a woman is too smart and not good, it can only mean that he has no eyes, so why should we be obsessed with such unworthiness?

Because women are very emotional in many cases, we will guess what he means by saying this to you, and we will think about whether there are other meanings, so we will have a lot of inexplicable troubles for him, and we who are naturally delicate should also clear our thoughts at the right time, throw them away like garbage, and then look at this problem a little more objectively, so oh, cute you, delicate you, and occasionally give yourself an empty space and opportunity, Don't worry about this kind of person anymore, I believe you will find a better him.

Bless you, o( o

I don't think so, this kind of thing should be a feudal statement, doesn't it say that human beings want to develop, if women are not smart, then can human beings be called development, people are talking about women and men.

A beautiful girl is occasionally stupid and cuter than a girl who is not beautiful and occasionally smarter! I think a woman should be smart all her life and clumsy for a while!

Personal opinion: It's good for women to be smart!

I don't think you like him? If you want to be not an ordinary friend, you should be happy to be smart I think there is nothing wrong with a woman being smart, and smart people will not make too many mistakes! But from this point of view, you are not smart!

Did he misunderstand you somewhere else? But if he really doesn't want to pay attention to you, I think it's better for you to let it go, and then do something to impress him and make him regret it! If you don't cherish your friends, you won't be friends, and friends who can't see your strengths and can't tolerate your shortcomings won't last long.

I don't think it's your fault at all, but that man's belly is really pitiful for Xiao Bai. You probably really thought too much about it at the beginning, and felt that it was a very small thing between you, but it turned out...All you have to do is be silent, you can't run to apologize. If he was still a friend, he would forget about this little thing, and if he hated you for such a small thing, such a friend should not be.

Friends are to be made, but also to see what kind of friends they are. I wish he could be like a man and not care...

Know what is the heaviest thing to chase a girl.

Mentality! These two words are easy to say, but they are not easy to do.

Your biggest problem right now isn't how smart she is.

It's your own state of mind.

I don't have to look at you to know that you are an emotional person, but not very expressive. As a result, it can sometimes be misunderstood or give the impression of being cold.

You don't accept other people's opinions without thinking, you have your own opinions, but sometimes you are stubborn, although you send this post, but in fact you already have your own thoughts in your heart, just want to get some affirmation, or want to try your luck and see what is a good way.

Go after her. I'm telling you, the smarter a person is, the more vulnerable he is, and even though I look confident on the outside, I have a troubled and uneasy side on the inside.

Read that she cares about her, understands her, gives her what she wants, but not too direct and too straightforward, if you give it to you, it's over between you.

I don't know what type she is, it's hard to give you advice, but you have to remember the most important point, women's words, don't believe them easily, don't mention the bitter experience of blood and tears, women are like children who have to be coaxed, and there is no way to be arrogant when a smart woman meets love.

Look for your own merits! A stupid woman also wants to be stronger than herself, and you have to be better than her in some way to conquer her.

I don't know if it's useful to be moved, a lot of people do it, so I don't do it, I only do something different, think for yourself.

What's so bad about a smart woman? Will he wait until his husband has an illegitimate child outside to see this man? Just give up on this man? As long as your heart isn't bad, what else do you have to worry about, are you worried that she's too smart to do what you want to do behind her back?

Hehe, I can see that you are quite honest, so there is no need to lie to her, it is really good, don't be afraid to speak, open your heart. She may just like your innocence and honesty, so don't lie to her, girls don't like men to lie to her.

As for whether you are suitable or not, only you know best, just like wearing shoes, only you know whether the size is suitable or not. Take advantage of it!

A woman who is too smart is a human spirit, it depends on whether you are destined or not, maybe you are too stupid.

In fact, my answer is more complicated than your question, I don't say that it will make you think, I am afraid that it will scare you if I say it, then I would rather let you think about it than scare you.

Why bother? How rare it is to have a girl like this, people may value the character. You don't have to play any more clever tricks, if you are wise and foolish, you will plan and take her over the house.

The really smart ones will pretend not to see it, and then carefully drip medicine to torture you.

Wow she's smart though.

But he also lost to his own cleverness.

She may not know that men don't like women who are too smart.

But if she's that smart.

I don't even understand this truth.

Better be careful. With a woman like that.

It's a bit scary, indeed.

Maybe she had some scheming up her sleeve.

lz .

Don't do bad things, don't be afraid of ghosts knocking on the door.

Or did you do something bad to her.?

If you marry her, she will be a strong woman in the future!But men are raised by women and lose face!Besides, her family is rich, maybe you may be looked down upon if you encounter problems in the future!

Because I confirmed it!Since you say that you are a good person, she doubts you like this!Proving her cleverness also occupies her suspicions!

Probably you're going to be under her jurisdiction!If she really likes you!You don't have to be too nervous!

Let it be!Try to go her hand in as little as possible!So that she will care about you!

It is possible to change for you!If you like her, you might really want to find a chance to talk to her!Prove it to yourself!

Age is not an obstacle, it's how you see it.

It's better to be able to read than not to understand!

If you like it, you should cherish it, and don't give up what you cherish.

If you don't like it, tell someone earlier

Stay away from her!!Otherwise, there will be endless troubles in the future!!

Yes, it's good. and has not harmed you. Love with your heart, don't get confused.

It's scary, =. =

It's not a good thing for a woman to be smart.

You are blessed to have such a woman who cares about you so much.

Be honest with each other, and nothing will happen.

So your dad must be a very good man, hehe, kid, calm down, you should talk to your dad about it, maybe it's just a netizen, you don't do stupid things, you disfigured people and you also committed a crime, but I can understand your feelings, maybe your dad is just to find the emptiness in his heart.

If you want them to fall out or get a divorce, just follow the heckles. Your mom must be grumpy. If you want to be harmonious, enlighten your mom more. Go and persuade your dad. Take your mother out for a walk, travel, and a family out to gather more to promote harmonious feelings, promote happiness and integration.

Don't be too extreme, it's your mother who really suffers in the end, you have that woman's QQ. You can contact her, talk to her, see what kind of girl she is, if it's that kind of bad woman, it's okay to beat and scold, if it's the kind of person who really likes your dad and that, you don't touch it, after all, this feeling is difficult to say, and you will experience it when you are older in the future.

Your dad will always see her again and bring the woman out. Beat! Beat! Beat! Beat! Beat! Beat! Beat!

It's not worth it, you're still young, men are like this, you just didn't meet someone worthy of you at that time, my dad used to be too, we all pretended not to know, to save face for him, of course, my mom definitely can't just forget it, and then I was very strict with my dad, and slowly for a long time, my dad figured it out by himself, and now he doesn't contact him, this kind of thing can't be hard, let your mom put pressure on him, I hope it will help you!