Is it a sin to always make a friend pay

Your friend is very rich and often plays with you, which shows that in his mind, you are a valuable person, if you can keep the gentleman's friendship as light as water, then this value will always exist, but if you mix with him all day long, eat him and drink him, you will gradually depreciate in his mind. Don't say he doesn't care, it doesn't matter, that's impossible, unless your friend is a saint like Meng Weijun - there is no such thing in modern life.

It is recommended that you reduce the party with your friend, he asks you to go five times, at most once, there is no need to feel inferior, you can say what you have to say, and others may appreciate you.

I don't think you should mind, you can't be too careful if you're a good brother, it's normal for you to have such thoughts, and if you don't have it, you have no conscience, in short, you should remember who has been good to you. Man! It's all alive, isn't there anything else that can make up for it?

Does it have to be measured with money?

It's hard to say that. The key problem is that after a long time, you are unbalanced in your own heart, and he will also feel that you owe him, although he can't say it with his mouth, he will definitely look down on you in his heart. The best thing to do is to spend as little money as possible. There is an old saying that no merit is not punished!

Invite him once in a while. Just get out of the places that aren't too expensive. There's no need to worry too much about who pays the bills. Go when you have time; If you don't have time, you don't want it, and just explain the reason to him.

Of course, friends are not measured by money, they are heartfelt. When he is in trouble, you can lend a helping hand to him.

And it's a good thing to be outgoing, you can make a little bit of friends. I'm not talking about friends who drink and meat.

Don't mind, your mind comes from your inner inferiority complex...

Your mind will hurt your friendship.

Question addendum: Also, is there any way to make yourself more introverted, talk less, be more restrained, be more careful, and refute other people's opinions as little as possible?

You must always tell yourself to think twice ...

Young people are impulsive, so there will be such behaviors 、、、

Hehe! Or try to avoid playing with him alone, there is dependence after a long time. Besides, you're not happy spending his money. If it's a group of people, it doesn't matter, anyway, he has money, and he doesn't spend it on anyone.

Friendship is not measured in terms of money.

Maybe he's concerned about your relationship

It has nothing to do with money

So you don't have to worry either.

If you're really embarrassed.

Wait for the next time.

Isn't it OK for you to check out?`

All good brothers. I want him to know that you are difficult. But you have to pay homage to him once in a while... Only occasionally. I think he'll get the idea, too.

More or less mind, friends to friends, but there are some issues that still need to be considered.

Depending on your relationship, you should have a clear conscience, but you should try to pay the bill when the time is right.

You shouldn't mind, you can be courteous in other ways, ah.

Since we're good friends, I don't think I mind too much!

Learn from the Northeasterners, what is boldness, what is the suggestion, is it a word from a friend.

If he's a big one.

Give it to me, or I'll shoot you.

The friend asked the young man to go to dinner again, only to find out that the young man was asked to pay for it, and in this case, the young man should not pay for it. Once the young person is particularly good at talking, then in the process of the next party with friends, the friends will always ask the young people to pay the bill, and no one will want to always be wronged.

Since it is someone else's treat, then whoever treats the guest should pay for it, and young people should also know that all their money is earned by hard work, and do not waste all their money on people who cannot be friends. <>

In fact, some contemporary friends do have some bad friends in the process of getting along with each other, because the relationship with each other is particularly good, so it will be easy to have out-of-character behaviors in doing things. Because I think that friends don't care about such things, I ask the other party to pay after every meal. If it happens once or twice, you won't worry about some things like this, but if this happens for a long time, you can only stay away from your friends earlier.

If a friend invites a young person alone to dinner, the young person can spend money on the meal to the friend when the funds allow. In fact, in the process of good friends getting along together, most of them also belong to the AA system of consumption, friends please eat, young people please eat, in order to promote the development of the relationship between two people. But the real good friend relationship is not, care about paying for each other, and always think that suffering losses is a blessing, and you can earn back in the future if you suffer a loss.

When friends are together, they are often prone to intrigue behavior, and some friends say that their best friends are young people. But young people must not believe such words, because some contemporary friends will have interests and think that the other party's family is richer. As a result, they will use their good friends to a certain extent, don't use yourself as a gunman, young people don't like to play with friends, so they must not be easily said by friends.

If the relationship is very good, you can choose to pay the bill, if the relationship is not good, there is no need to buy this order.

No, because you didn't agree beforehand, this kind of thing should be AA.

Alas, it shouldn't be, after all, it's not your own decision, it's the other party who called you out.