The study of rebellious psychology and how to deal with rebellious psychology perceptions of rebell

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1. Care, respect and appreciation. Teenagers with hostile tendencies, although they seem to be indifferent on the outside, are full of pain and anxiety inside. Therefore, the care and consideration of teachers, parents and other adults will definitely help them to ease their hostility and communicate psychologically between the opposing parties.

Self-esteem and respect are a basic need for survival. It is human nature to want to be understood and supported by others. This is especially true for students, who should be praised as soon as they make progress.

Otherwise, the student's psychology will not be strengthened and his confidence will be lost. For junior students, teachers should be more good at discovering the "shining points" in their recitation of the imperial judgment, and at the same time fully affirm their advantages, they should earnestly put forward hopes, so that they can see their potential and future, and make faster progress.

2. Communication, exchange and trust, when teachers make students feel amiable, respectable and trustworthy, students are willing to accept the teacher's education. In particular, more comfort and care should be given to students who have lost confidence in life when they encounter setbacks and treat everything around them with suspicion and hostility. Parents and teachers should learn to understand students, be students' bosom friends, try to narrow the "generation gap", and do not impose their own views on students.

It is necessary to be psychologically compatible with students. The deeper the parent-child, teacher-student relationship, the smaller the student's rebellious mentality.

3. Psychoeducation and counseling. The reason why students have a rebellious psychology is mainly because of the contradiction between students' cognition and emotion or cognition and intention. To this end, we introduce students to the knowledge of psychological reform through multiple channels, so that students can realize their own psychological changes, regulate their psychological state, and improve their psychological environment to sublimate their psychological character.

If the school has the conditions to dismantle filial piety, students should choose to study the subject of mental hygiene, so that students can know the characteristics of their own physiological and psychological changes, and can achieve the role of internalizing the psychology of healthy life through self-examination and autonomy.

Predisposing factors.

Rebellious mentality is not something incredible. Generally speaking, it is easy to induce rebellious psychology in the following three situations:

1 Strong curiosity.

When something is forbidden, it is most likely to arouse people's curiosity. Especially when it is only forbidden without any explanation, a strong sense of mystery can easily arise.

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Young people are in a period of character formation and self-searching, and through denying authority and being unconventional, they can find psychological satisfaction in self-affirmation. The identification of young people with society is not only a simple way to adapt to social norms, but also hopes that society will recognize his value and status, so as to gain recognition with society. As a result, he tends to behave paranoidly, to express himself, and to deliberately adopt attitudes and behaviors that are different from those of others in order to attract the attention of others.

3 Specific life experiences.

For example, some people have fallen out of love many times and think that there is no real love in the world; Some people have always followed the rules and had no quarrel with the world, but occasionally they were inexplicably wronged, so that their temperaments were very different, and they became rude, suspicious, and eccentric.

Under certain conditions, their words and deeds are contrary to the subjective wishes of the parties, resulting in a reverse reaction that is contrary to the nature of normality, which is a typical manifestation of rebellious psychology. Once this state of mind constitutes a psychological stereotype, it will have a great impact on a person's personality, often influencing his every move, and becoming a basic characteristic of his words and deeds.

Characteristic performance. Rebellious psychology is a kind of single-value, one-way, unitary, stubborn and extreme habit of thinking, which makes people unable to objectively and accurately understand things as they are, and adopts wrong methods and ways to solve the problems they face.

The rebellious mentality is often and repeatedly presented, which constitutes a narrow psychological stereotype, which runs counter to common sense at all times and in all places. The form of expression is quite similar to creative behavior, so that some young people with serious rebellious tendencies often talk about it, or psychologically seek "scientific" basis for their bizarre behavior.

However, rebellious psychology is fundamentally different from creative personal qualities, and it is often the product of insolence, arrogance, extremism, and simplicity.

If the psychology and behavior of rebellious people are not correctly guided, it will lead to the pathological character of teenagers who are suspicious, paranoid, indifferent, unsociable, and confrontational with society, so that their beliefs are shaken, their ideals are extinguished, their will is declining, their work is passive, their learning is passive, and their lives are sluggish. This result is also a disservice to parents.