Seek to explain a psychological phenomenon high score .

First of all, this is a kind of advertising, a preconceived idea of various characters and objects, saying that the strengths of the things you like are in the hope that others will recognize your ability to distinguish objects, a kind of vanity, and your vision is good. This can also be very simple and ordinary, your own perception of the practicality of the item, you have used it, and you know the quality of the item. This kind of psychology is the same as that of children, who like to show off their toys and get the approval of others.

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In short: Cognition Why do you have doubts about others boasting about the good things you use, don't you think you don't know enough? Friend: Can I ask the same question, so question yourself as well as others...

Cognition is a very important part of life I don't want to tell you what kind of psychology this is, I just hope you can read cognition, thank you.

Everyone has it, to put it bluntly, this is just a subconscious hope that others will recognize themselves, and it also reflects self-confidence to a certain extent, however, propaganda is propaganda, don't go too far, otherwise others will gradually alienate you.

If you are careful, you will find that there is no shortage of such people around you

In fact, not everyone is like this, which shows that this kind of person likes to show off, wants to be recognized, and is conceited. Without self-knowledge, this is a phenomenon of extreme self-confidence and low self-esteem. Everyone wants their opinion to be agreed, but that doesn't mean they're right, and they don't admit it when they're wrong, does it make sense?

Why? Because people can't understand each other, or everyone wants to be recognized by others, they will do their best to convince others in order to prove that they are right!

It's a kind of show-off mentality!

From a psychological point of view, we should mainly explain the relationship between ability and knowledge and skills. Because the score in the high score and the low ability is the score, that is, the level of knowledge and skills, and the ability is the problem of personal ability. First of all, ability is the basis for mastering knowledge and skills, but at the same time, ability is also formed and developed in the process of mastering knowledge and skills.

However, the mastery of knowledge and skills and the development of ability are not synchronized, that is, the more knowledge, the higher the ability. Therefore, the phenomenon of high score and low energy will be generated. As for what to say about it, it has to do with the high level of vision of college students and the education system, I think it is explained from the perspective of education or sociology.

Hope it helps. ^_

Are you a teacher teacher?

Some people only use a lot of mechanical methods to learn high scores, such as rote memorization, formulas, ......However, it has not been able to integrate theory with practice.

The Gestalt school of psychology holds that mental processes are "separated wholes", and that the whole does not represent the sum of the parts, and that the whole exists before the parts and governs the nature and meaning of the parts.

The same goes for learning. The phenomenon of high scores and low ability is because the person concerned does not understand knowledge as a meaningful whole, and knowledge is only a separate part for them.

Just like a mirror, it can only function when it is complete, and even if you use other small mirrors to spell out the same size, the lines between the mirrors will greatly affect the use effect.

The proposition of high scores and low ability has been put forward and discussed for a long time, but this is actually a comprehensive problem that cannot be fully explained by psychology alone

Hello, this is an example of cognitive behavior, different cognitions can have different effects on behavior and emotions.

It is not the event (a) that causes us to have emotions, but our perception of the event (c). In the same half glass of water, some people feel happy and some people feel lost, and different feelings will cause us to behave differently (b).

Erikson's ABC theory of emotions is a good place to do some emotional regulation.

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Optimism and pessimism.

I think they're trying to grasp a trend. They feel that they can only be imitated, not surpassed. No more

Because of low self-esteem. So self-deception.

Because of low self-esteem. So selfish.

Because of low self-esteem. So love excellent.

Because excellent. So narcissism.

Demeaning others. Elevate yourself.

Gain a sense of superiority. Deceive oneself as well as others.

If others step on it, they will be superior to others.

--The best defense. It's offense.

Relying on deception and self-deception. Pretending to be powerful. Lie to yourself.

Social phenomenon. It mainly depends on how the parents of the school guide !! After all, children before the age of 20 are still children!! It feels like you're either worried about your children or your students!!

It's about getting people to catch people's attention, to make people notice him, to make people think he's different. These people are often very scheming.

o( o is a bit narcissistic, but if he can realize it, that's fine. Try to get rid of it!

Well. I'm also begging, if it's a compatriot, I'll give points.

I'm an amateur psychology enthusiast and the reason why people are like this is because they want people to feel different and make them pay attention to them.

Simple, purely full of support, in the 40s and 50s of the last century, hungry to eat bark, digging grass roots when this is definitely not the case...

This kind of person must have a psychological disorder, or he just wants to attract the attention of others.

Well, it should be something different.

Anyone who lives in the world is to get a sense of recognition from society or others, whether it is a good baby image or a rebellious type of personality, it is to attract everyone's attention and get recognition.

Li Juan in the article is similar to me when I was a child, hehe. Back to the point, 1She used to be a leader in a small rural town, and she was a compliment among her parents and relatives, including her neighbors.

2.Excessive expectations and stress from parents or relatives;

3.I think that there is no factor that can be balanced with other people, and I put a lot of pressure on myself, causing a vicious circle.

Solution: Autumn cold unknown, I'm sorry, the first and fourth points I support, but the second and third points stand in my position I don't agree a little, although as the saying goes, rather be a chicken head, not a phoenix tail, but I feel that there is pressure to face difficulties, hehe, so to find a way to overcome psychological pressure, in addition to the outside world, but also to constantly psychological hints, in addition to studying hard, cultivate other interests. It's okay to lose at the starting line, but you can't give up the race just because of that, thank you.

If you want me to say that this woman is too homely, instead of feeling sorry for herself, it is better to make yourself stronger, participate in more club activities, learn more useful things for yourself, accumulate some part-time work experience in the society, and accumulate little by little every day, and when he graduates, he will find that he has surpassed many girls of the same age.

Boost your self-confidence and keep improving yourself.

Reasons for dropping out: 1. She can't realize her value in a college in this big city.

2, her family is not wealthy, and continuing to stay is not only bad for her physical and mental health, but also makes her parents more burdened.

3, she can't fit into this new world that has nothing to do with her, no friends, no laughter that belongs to her.

4. She feels lost about her future, her current self is too far away from her original self, and she has lost her true self.

5. External pressure caused her to be unable to devote herself to her studies.

Ways out of the woods:

1. It is recommended that she find a psychology teacher in the school and let the psychology teacher help her enlighten.

2. Explain her difficulties to her parents, if her parents agree to her going back, it is not a bad thing to go back.

3, she can also go to small cities to develop, after all, the gap from a remote rural area to a big city is too big.

4, she can take the initiative to exchange her sincerity for some friends, and she will be much happier.

The main thing is that her heart should be open and think clearly.

Wanting to capture is a psychological tactic, prepare information:

When a person is used to doing something, he will feel uncomfortable if he doesn't do it, and then he will do something to relieve this discomfort.

Step 1: You are good to a person, let him turn your kindness to him into a habit (I heard that we do a thing 24 times will become a habit). Let him get used to enjoying your favor and not feel anything wrong with it.

Of course, if he refuses to accept your words all the time, this desire to capture is useless, it is purely a matter of your personal charm, and people don't even want your favor. ）

Step 2: After discovering that he has become accustomed to it, without explaining anything, suddenly disappear in front of him, preferably as if the world has evaporated. If you usually have contact several times a day, it would be good to disappear like this for two or three days.

So that he can't find you at all. Then he starts thinking about you in his heart. In these two or three days, he will desperately adjust the imbalance that his inner habits cannot be satisfied by thinking about you.

Step 3: Reappear in front of him with a scene or event that touches him very much. Then apologize to him because your disappearance has worried him.

Now my sister will use this gratuitous request on you, seeing that you want to help your sister get rid of this habit, the most important point is, 1. Does my sister feel the need to break this habit? 2. Whether her sister needs you to help her change, these two questions are not clear, it is difficult for you to open a job, let alone have any implementation plan, this is the premise. Good luck with the view of the psychology studio.

Subject, hello, seeing this question of yours, I remembered a word, called "Brother Demon", and it is okay to use it on your girlfriend.

Of course, from your description, you can see that not only her sister has made this kind of help a habit, but your girlfriend has also made it a habit for her to help her younger siblings. In their minds, this kind of behavior is taken for granted, and it can also reflect the good feelings between sisters and relatives. Therefore, it is actually quite difficult to get your girlfriend to break this habit.

You say you're obligated to get rid of your girlfriend's habitual help to your younger siblings, but in fact, I think you're exaggerating your personal abilities. Cause.

1. You are only her boyfriend now, and you have nothing to do with each other legally, and naturally her property is not your joint property. The second reason is that you need to help her change this behavior now, and you need to be careful that people say that you are ruining the relationship between other people's relatives. Can you afford it?

Therefore, I would like to suggest to you that at this time, please try to protect your belongings, and for the requests made by her family, you can help those who can, and you can also express your powerlessness if you can't help.

Listen to your description. Feel like your girlfriend's family. Tutors are also lacking.

And also. You can hear it. Your girlfriend's aura is obviously not as big as her younger siblings.

This phenomenon has been formed. The aura can't suppress them, and the speech is naturally powerless. So it's a little difficult for you to get your girlfriend to change that.

You are a very sensible person, after all, you are not married, and you are not a real brother-in-law, you are really difficult to deal with, and if you continue to help now, this habit will be continued. If you don't continue to help, you may still have a grudge. The only way is to communicate.

You can ask your girlfriend to talk to them. You've grown up a lot of things, and you've had to learn to figure it out on your own. My sister will soon have a family of her own.

There are more and more things to deal with. There are fewer and fewer people who can help you. You have to learn to grow up.

Also, we help you. Not an obligation. Sister wants you.

Be a problem solver rather than a helper sooner rather than a helper. I hope you guys are getting better and better. I can be the pride of my sister from now on.

Ask your girlfriend to try to communicate with her like this. I guarantee that when they hear these words, they are very deeply touched. You'll look the other way at your girlfriend, too. Hope it helps. Wishing you happiness.

This phenomenon is known in psychology as the "stereotyping effect of compulsive dependency syndrome". From the other side, it reflects that your younger brothers and sisters have already regarded you as an older brother, and you have to use ingenuity to let your girlfriend come forward to solve it, and you must not fall out with your younger brothers and sisters, it is too faceless.

The Comforter Effect or the Prolos Episode.

What kind of phenomenon? You don't say, who knows? Tell me about it for everyone to see?

When you are an older sister and an older brother, you must provide for the material life of your younger sister and younger brother! Immediately stop providing it, or give it only once a month and use it up for the next month.