The heavily humiliated past has led to the repression of the present ,,,,,,,,,,,, personality

The following three points are indeed too harsh and impersonal for a child who has not yet adapted to the world and is in pain. But maybe you still have honesty. Then you have hope.

1. You feel pain because you are selfish. Selflessly consider the problem from the perspective of others, only care about others, not about yourself, and if you do it, you will not suffer.

Second, feeling insulted is also due to selfishness. Without selfishness, you don't feel insulted.

3. "Verbal insults" are the selfish attempts of others to protect their dignity, status, or desire. Then you must have endangered the dignity and status of others, and hindered their desires. Why are you doing this?

Reflection is needed. Look at your own ideas that are not adapted to this world.

Happy to you.

Not fighting back at the other person's verbal insults at you is not the source of your pain. It's usually a matter of character. Personality can be changed, and I feel that growth is the gradual maturity of character.

Self-confidence is important, even if it's blindly confident. A lot of people have questions like yours. If you usually have more good psychological hints, your own potential can be stimulated.

Grasp your main personality: such as cheerful, sincere, caring for others, self-improvement, etc., do things, think about whether it is in line with your ideal end personality before speaking. It's good to stick to it for a few months and become a habit.

It's easier said than done, depending on your perseverance. It's like upstairs saying be happy every day, don't live in other people's opinions.

Be happy.

Don't be so uncomfortable.

Don't forget, let alone fight violence with violence.

You should use this as motivation to try to be stronger than others. When that day comes, no one will be insulting you. When the time comes, you can let go, and if you can't do it, then try to do your best.

The most important thing is to make yourself happy, why does it have to be so painful? Happiness is also a day, pain is also a day, don't let yourself live in other people's opinions. Happiness is something that you need to strive for.

Hope you're happy.

It is recommended to see a psychologist

A happy and energetic person doesn't have so much garbage in his head.

Ignoring it is the biggest resistance to the other party, he gives you a nickname, insults you just to see your reaction, the more depressed and painful your reaction is, the happier he is, but if you ignore it, what to do and what to do, he will feel that he is very boring. Let me tell you a story, after reading it, maybe you will think of something: There was a time when Shakyamuni was often jealous and abused by a person.

In this regard, he is calm, silent, quiet, doing his own thing, and concentrating on doing his own thing. One day, when the man was tired of scolding, Shakyamuni smiled and asked, "My friend, when a person gives something to someone else and the other person doesn't accept it, then who does it belong to?"

That's right. You've been scolding me to this day. If I don't accept your abuse, then to whom does it belong?

Listening to Shakyamuni's wonderful question full of wisdom and strength, that person was stunned and speechless. From then on, he no longer dared to insult Shakyamuni.

No one can really insult you, it's all about how we think about it, if you think he's a vexatious person, and you approve of yourself very much, then you won't be bothered by this problem, I hope it helps you.

The shadow of the past is something you can get in touch with positive psychology. But it's important that you know that you can accurately identify your situation. There is a reason for everything, and I believe you will solve it.

The last problem is only known to you as the cause, and it is possible to solve it if you keep calm.

In the last word, you will become what you think of yourself.

Hehe, there's more.

The power of thought is absolutely powerful, especially the hints, including those given to oneself.

In the end, you have the right to choose whenever you want.

Happy to you.

Fight back first in words, and you can't lose in momentum.

It's a counterattack, not a scolding.

Find someone to give him a sample Don't be too arrogant.

You may be more natural at home It's very depressed at school Try to learn to adapt to this new environment Communicate more with your classmates Relieve your tension Fear is due to not knowing or fear itself You are afraid of being hurt because you have a self in your heart Go out to see the sun All the darkness is temporary Be confident and get out of the heart barrier.

After listening to the lecture on a happy life, your personality will change.

Endure. If you can't bear it, you will make a big plan.

Every school has isolated populations that can be broadly divided into two categories.

The first type is that they are outstanding, their own excellence and strength can overwhelm everyone, and at the same time force themselves to a height that others cannot touch, this kind of people, they have no way back, they can only continue to climb with a glorious sense of loneliness, so that they become stronger. Until the end, other people's jealousy of him gradually turned into envy, and the former hatred also turned into admiration.

In the second category, they are trampled on and bullied arbitrarily because they are weak. People challenge the bottom line of their dignity and vitality in a variety of ways. They can't be strong, they can't be strong, they can only make themselves worse, weaker, maybe so devastated that they can't see the scars on their bodies.

If you want to be happy, you have to learn to ignore it.

I used to be like this, just like you, if not worse than you.

However, then I found some ways to vent, such as reading favorite books, listening to *** Actually, you don't have to fight for that breath, when he found that the nickname he gave to you didn't hurt anything, he would naturally walk away boringly.

Don't see this kind of loss as a shame, if it affects your future path because of such a small episode, it is really a shame.

I'm not asking you to tolerate it, but try to ignore it.

You know, after all, growing up is a beautiful pain .

Don't care about nothing, try to be yourself, people are very snobbish, when you are excellent, your nickname will be excellent! It's your heart that's doing the trick! They just want to provoke you and make fun of you, don't take it seriously, try to be yourself!

It is possible to change a person's temperament. Knowing that it's not good to suppress your feelings like this, why don't you find someone to talk to? If you think that you have told your friends that they can understand you and enlighten you, then go to them.

If you really can't do it, just go to a psychiatrist, it's a good option.

It's not good for the body, what should be vented must be vented, and what should be released must be released, why are you sorry for yourself.

I don't know if it will produce a second personality! But I know that if it is not good for the body and mind to be depressed for a long time, maybe you can find a close friend and tell what is in your heart, and the feelings are also someone who can listen to you talk about your feelings, which is also a kind of release! It's better than holding it in your heart!

Do you have to suppress yourself if you want to read life? Then what you understand is still life Life is to be experienced by the heart, and it depends on your efforts to manage Why bother yourself?

There is no such "personality". Personality is a kind of nature and character that people naturally have. Self-repression is not a natural nature of human beings, and nature is not personality.

Nowadays, most people are self-centered. It's true for children, and it's true for adults. If you think about it, how many years has it been since education was not based on "humility"?

To put it mildly, there were 50-80 years. Under the guidance of such thoughts, if there is a personal ability that does not back the recognition, is not good at communicating with others, and the personality is restrained and introverted. "Self-repression" is naturally formed.

The solution, I think, is to start from the root and overcome self-centeredness. Specifically, from now on, start from small things, start from the things around you, think more about others in everything, and overcome all the concepts of thinking about yourself. Look at others to see more advantages, look at yourself more and look at the shortcomings.

After a long time, when others want to take the initiative to approach you, there is also self-suppression.

Speaking of such a bunch, in fact, you may not be a "self-suppressed" person, just let me borrow your question, thank you!

Because love has come, it will not become an enemy; Because the source is injured, so I won't be friends.

If the five hundred times of looking back in the past life are exchanged for passing by in this life, then I am already very happy when I think about it In fact, passing by is also a very deep fate. The Buddha said: Only 500 times of looking back can be exchanged for passing by in this life.

You can meet someone in a second, know someone in a minute, like someone in an hour, fall in love with someone in a day, but you have to forget someone for a lifetime.