My girlfriend borrowed money, should I borrow it?

Updated on society 2024-02-09
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's been 1 and a half years together, and you don't even borrow... My girlfriend and I have been together for more than 4 years, tens of thousands have been used, it may have something to do with the economy, but it can be given or given, the money you earn now is not what you have in the future, my dad said that when you are still learning or accumulating, try your best to invest, whether it is for people or things, don't save, you save 10,000 now, when you have a chance, when you have the ability to deal with it, you can earn tens of thousands at once, maybe you will say how to earn if you don't have the capital, you have 10,000 fast, But you give people the feeling that they are too naïve, can't do things, and are not atmospheric, expect you to make money and others don't believe it, people's maturity and judgment of the external environment depend on their own living environment, which is the biggest difference between rural and urban, if you are not the kind of person who reads books to wear, then start investing from now on, to friends, to wives, to anything you are interested in.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This woman: Don't do it.

    Because you are not my wife, why should I borrow you (really borrowed, is it called borrowing) and said to her You now have a limit to funds, you can only take out 1500 (quite directly given) In fact, the landlord is not good at your home I didn't have to help her.

    Please be sensible, your girlfriend has a problem for you, give it, she will naturally be happy, but if she doesn't, she will not break up with you) I think the woman who will give herself a problem is not suitable.

    It's understandable to give money to your girlfriend, but tuition + accommodation is too outrageous.

    You have to give your boyfriend everything.

    With a one-and-a-half-year relationship, your girlfriend is still a student, and no one can guarantee what her future will be.

    The main thing is that you're just boyfriend and girlfriend, not husband and wife).

    In my personal opinion, the landlord just looks at it.

    After adding that it costs a lot of money to get married and marry a wife.

    Money has to be spent where it goes.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you want to borrow, you can borrow it, but you can't borrow more, you have to think about yourself, I believe that she is your girlfriend should be able to understand. If it really doesn't work, the two of you discuss the rest of the time to go to work or what, isn't your girlfriend a college student, you can recommend her to be a tutor! It's easy and easy to make money, and so can you.

    Besides, part-time work can also help you develop the quality of hard-working and hard-working, and it can also improve your social skills, so it's good to have the best of both worlds.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This friend, I personally think that you have been dating for so long, and you know each other, your girlfriend is at least more difficult than you in front of you, you can explain your difficulties to her, you can't borrow so much for a while, I think she understands you, will be very moved, of course, this is my idea to support borrowing, even if the worst is to break up later, the money will be repaid. You decide for yourself, I hope it can help you, and I wish you a happy life!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Tell her that you want to pay it back, if she thinks you are stingy and hates you because of this, then she doesn't really love you either. A woman who truly loves you will understand your difficulties. A sane woman also knows that your relationship is not to the point where you can use one person's money and two people's money.

    It's not that if you're boyfriend and girlfriend, you can just give her the money, after all, you're not a husband and wife.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's a tricky question. Let's borrow it symbolically. However, this kind of thing, it is not a good thing to ask for money before the relationship between the two is confirmed. My boyfriend also borrowed money from my dad, and my dad immediately said you two should break up. It's a lot bigger than you, though.

    Money is a very emotional thing... Feelings are also a very money-hurting thing...

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You're already working, so I think it's right to fund your girlfriend.

    But you specifically said that it was "one" girlfriend, and it seems that you still have a lot of girlfriends, so let's get rid of it. Because in the future, she will say that you owe her and forgive your debts.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then you have to first see if most of the friends around her are trustworthy, and then see if your girlfriend is trustworthy, if you have a good relationship and she is trustworthy, it is better to borrow it, not to ask for it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Leave your living expenses, borrow the rest, and feel comfortable.

    And you have to tell her what you think, explain it clearly, don't feel embarrassed to say anything, but pay attention to what you say.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Looking at her personality and your future development trends, if you should be able to be together in the future, it doesn't matter, but, then again, it's good to be cautious!!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's hard to say about money, it's not that you're stingy, it depends on your girlfriend's character, and how much you feel for him, and you can also encourage her to take out student loans

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Yes. Don't borrow it yet. See her reflections.

    Once you divide it, you will know the problem.

    No points, then you can help her pay the tuition!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Borrow a part of her, 4000, you can talk to him well, after all, too much will affect your living situation.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It is recommended that you borrow as much as you want.

    People girls finally open their mouths once, and if you don't borrow it, you can't say it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    She really loves you, she won't borrow so much money without opening her mouth

    Be sensible.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You just say it in the old-fashioned way, if you have it, you can borrow some from her, and if you don't, you can say that you don't have ......

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't borrow it yet, see her reaction, and then grasp it yourself!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Suggestion: Lend about 3000, people are not exhausted.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Borrow as much as you can, according to your ability and state of mind.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Borrow half and write an IOU. What will happen tomorrow, who knows? Hehe.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You tell her you don't have that much money, can't you give less?

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