No one wants it, so I can only be a leftover girl, so pitiful!

Updated on society 2024-02-09
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Is it so scary to be alone for a lifetime? I'm sorry. Didn't try.

    I don't know. All I know is that there are only leftovers in this world. There are no men left.

    You haven't found the other half yet. It can only mean that your fate has not arrived. Saying goes.

    There is a fate to meet thousands of miles away. There is no chance to meet on the other side! You say no.

    It's not that you're bad. It's just that people don't find out how good you are. The beauty of the girl.

    Maybe you'll meet you when you go out that day. Maybe your significant other is right next to you. It's just that he's just as ordinary as you.

    Cherish the present!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Isn't it time for you to review whether you hate marriage too much and become a little scary?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Fight to defeat the Buddha point, Monkey King is another point, your own requirements are too high, in fact, there are a lot of single boys, but the department is more scummy, you don't care about the sister.

    Ask a question, how old are you?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After 4 or 5 years of being single, I finally met the girl I liked, she also liked me, and I believe that in a corner, someone is quietly waiting for you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You're still young, don't panic! Don't worry, I can really leave you to --- responsible!

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I didn't meet anyone who appreciated you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's okay to take it slowly, don't rush.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    No, don't worry, there are more than 20 million more men than women in China, if you can't get married, I'll marry you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    hello..It's from my point of view.

    I don't know what kind of environment you're in.

    But if you like a married woman, you must stay away.

    I'm in my early 20s now. It's all about work.

    Once in love, I backed down. I always feel that it is better to rely on others than on myself.

    I really want to be able to work hard with my own hands. As for love, let it be in the future.

    I think you can try to change your release. Or change the dress pull. Although I don't know how you usually dress haha.

    Create a sense of mystery for yourself. Dress up a little bit. The boy leaned in.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You want to get married, you want to be crazy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The reason is that the conditions of older leftover women are generally better, and they don't look down on ordinary men.

    Since there are older leftover women, there must be a reason, most of the leftover women are strong women with beautiful appearance, education, and successful careers.

    They can't look down on men like this, every woman wants her husband to be more capable than herself, but their own conditions are better, so few men can enter their eyes.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The main reason is that there is a problem with the thinking of older leftover women. For example, women in Western countries will share economic and family responsibilities with their other half after working independently, and they will also take the initiative in terms of feelings, which is the real equality between men and women.

    It's just that when it comes to Chinese women, they become disdainful of men as long as women have jobs to support themselves (isn't it a person's basic ability to work to support themselves), but somehow from self-confidence to conceit, not only requires men to have a house, a car and a deposit, but also requires men to take the initiative to kneel and lick themselves. To put it bluntly, it is really sad that more and more men are reluctant to take on the so-called independence and freedom of Western women, but they are unwilling to take their due responsibility.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Older young people in many parts of our country have no chance of finding wives, especially in remote rural areas, where singles abound.

    This has long been a serious problem, and of course there is also a particularly strange phenomenon, as there are more older young men today, and there are also many older leftover women. These older leftover women can't find their other half after looking for them, why it is difficult for older leftover women to find a suitable man, the reasons for this are none other than these points.

    1. Tend to be compatible.

    Today's women will pay attention to upward compatibility when choosing a mate, whether it is marriage or love, and want to choose a man who is better than themselves. Few women will choose a man who is inferior to them in everything, while a man will choose to be backward compatible, even if a woman is not as good as herself in all aspects, it will not have an impact.

    As women get older, there is also the idea that the older they are, the fewer men who can meet their own requirements. Even if these men appear, most men may not choose the woman in front of them, but choose to be backward compatible, otherwise they may be ridiculed for being strong and weak.

    2. Men will pay more attention to age.

    In fact, people will have social attributes, and of course they will also have animal attributes. The reason why there is a feeling of love between a man and a woman is because of the biological reproductive instinct in the animal attributes. The so-called love and marriage are nothing more than a product of the person.

    In fact, men pay more attention to life, and women pay more attention to raising, so generally women may care more about whether a man is capable or not, and do not care about the age of the other party.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This is not necessarily, what no one wants for older leftover women is some people with bad personalities, no good looks, and insufficient ability.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The leftover daughter of the eldest head who has been unwilling to get married for a long time can really wait for the love she wants? It is difficult for older leftover women to find their favorite objects, which is true, but it is precisely because people have always asked for "favorites", and the requirements are relatively high, so they are left. If you really want to pick all the vegetables in the basket, if you don't pick or choose, anyone can marry if you keep them for three months.

    just refuses to wronged himself.

    Do you have to feel that you have wronged yourself, just to get married, how glorious it is? On the other hand, don't say "older leftover girls", even if you are a young girl, 20-24 years old, do you think it is really easy to find your favorite object? Otherwise, why didn't the "older leftover women" get married when they were young?

    Isn't it because it's not easy? Moreover, how many people who get married are really with their favorite objects and true love for a long time? Keep you asked.,Most of the spikes are funny.,Get married when it's right.,Find a blind date and get married.,The conditions are okay to get married.。

    It's just that there's nothing to love.

    In fact, even ordinary men (not to mention those men who are poor at the bottom and can't get married) are not easy to find the object of their choice. But in general, they are even less picky, because many men don't care about love and don't value it; If the conditions are not very bad, they can marry someone.

    In a society like China, those leftover women are often people who can withstand a certain amount of pressure. A lot of the conditions are not bad. If you don't have the opportunity, if you can't meet the right one, you won't settle. There's no problem with that. Moreover, the more time comes to this, the more uncompromising it becomes.

    Here comes another topic: what can be reflected in the value of women? I believe that women, like men, are trying their best to have greater professional and social value; Regardless of whether there are leftover women or not, it is still possible to have a complete personality and social contributions.

    But if you regard the value of women as marriage and having children, then of course you think that people are miserable.

    This is a huge difference in values that is destined to be difficult to understand. Number of families.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    High-quality girls are originally demanding, and the conditions of ordinary men are not worthy, and in the hearts of most men, if their wives are more capable and strong than themselves, they will have a view of "eating soft rice". What's the use of a woman who is stronger than herself if she is capable? If you are weak, you are not worthy of the other party, and you have no confidence.

    There are several reasons why older leftover women are finally "left": 1There are people in my heart, and I look at other men like grass and trees; 2.their own conditions are not very good, lack of heart is higher than the sky; 3.The conditions are very good and the requirements are also high. The third type of them is called a high-quality leftover woman.

    Leftover women are different from older single men, and there is only one situation when men are single: that is, poverty. Women are different, some of them have psychological (spiritual) problems, and these problems may be things that men can't accept, so they will stay away.

    Someone said before that "I'd rather find a second-married woman than an older leftover girl", and there is a reason for this. I won't say much about the reasons here, so from the perspective of real society, "don't like high-quality leftover women" has become a norm, just like women want to find a good material foundation.

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