I entered the factory to do procurement, and I just started learning for two days, and I felt that I

Everyone has their own characteristics, so you need to follow your own path, you are different from those simple and happy people, so you should not compare yourself with these people, you compare goldfish with edible fish, you can't compare anything. You are a goldfish and you can't eat it, but you can make an ornamental fish.

You are introverted and have low self-esteem or a specialty, and you are not suitable to be a teacher. If you are a teacher, you will not be able to stand it, and you will always need to push yourself to the limit. Not only do you have to teach and communicate with students, but you also have to present your class in front of school leaders and have meetings to report.

Since it is this major, you can give it a try boldly, as long as you find a job, the situation will be much better. Although the family environment has a great impact on you, but after graduating from college, it is basically the end, just learn to be self-reliant, don't look back and blame too much, since you grew up like this, you have to rely more on your own efforts to fight for your new life, there is no other way.

You don't have to worry about making friends and falling in love, you like to compare yourself with others, and you care a lot about face and others look down on you, which is why you are so difficult to make friends. Your shortcomings make you feel inferior, your self-esteem makes you reluctant to approach others, and the cycle of evil causes you to feel inferior. Since you have shortcomings, which are facts, don't be afraid to expose them, and take it lightly when you interact with others.

I suggest that you don't get distracted, try to do a good job at work first, try to get better, and get the certificate you want to take. Prepare well for graduation ** and job hunting, start to pay attention to the needs of the job market, don't miss the school recruitment, this is a good opportunity, and the suit and shirt should also be prepared. You simply don't have time to think about anything else before you graduate.

When you have a job in the future, the work will keep you busy for a while. After you have your own position, you will have time and money to explore your interests and hobbies, and at that time, you will be more confident and have a better chance of meeting the right person. It's still early.

You have nothing, what are you afraid of?Losing face?Face is something that only exists when people with super abilities make occasional mistakes.

Standing at the age of 30 is a time when you accumulate experience, learn knowledge, endure all kinds of setbacks, get beaten, and fail. At this time, you don't put your learning skills and experience into practice, and you just think about what you'll end up with every day

Instead of thinking about what doesn't exist here, it's better to take action, set a goal for yourself every day, don't seek success right away, just do it first.

Only when you do it can you know how to solve the problem. People are not stupid, what can they learn basic survival skills?

Don't be too ambitious, thinking that you are a college student and can only do lofty things. According to your ability, start with what you can do and have a future for development.

Persevere, and in a few years, you are also a connoisseur!

I hope it was adopted, thank you!

I think I can help you solve this problem.

Never, when I first graduated from university, I had the same feeling as you, I always felt that I didn't know anything, I didn't know what to do, and I had been looking for a job for a long time.

Within a year, I learned to design electrical schematics according to customer requirements, and after learning to draw, I left to find a large company, and slowly learned from debugging to process, and then from process to research and development, I learned a lot along the way, and I was confident a lot.

I would like to give you some advice.

First, you must participate in social practice more in school, even if you are volunteering, you will learn a lot from it.

The second is to study professional courses seriously, professional courses in school are the foundation, you can't connect them now because you haven't seen the reality of the application of the scene, when you apply it in the work, you will integrate them, so as to draw inferences, at that time your progress is rapid, growth will be very fast, only if you are strong enough, self-confidence will naturally follow.

After graduating from college, I feel like I don't know anything, I have a lot of shortcomings, I have low self-esteem, I have no confidence, I am scared, and I don't know how to face it.

All troubles are interpersonal troubles. Of course, you can understand that it's not that you don't know anything, but that your relationships are having problems.

I recommend two books to you, the courage to be hated and the courage to be happy, this is a set of books, this set of books, basically, from the problem of inferiority to all aspects of interpersonal problems, give the ideas and methods to solve life problems and interpersonal problems can help you get out of the predicament.

When people are confused, what people need is to know, the truth of life, the truth of life, and when you understand the truth, you are free.

First, bravely go to the society and practice in the work.

Second, your diploma is far from enough to take you to the next level, so you have to keep studying.

Every newcomer will encounter the problems you encounter, so put your mindset on the table, set your goals, and stick to them.

Your problem is not unique to you, many young people have such problems when they are about to enter society, low self-esteem, timidity, anxiety, lack of self-confidence, and full of confusion about the future. To change all this, to change through action, first of all, to do a good job, even if you don't like it, try to find a little bit of happiness in your work, and find confidence in your work. Secondly, don't close yourself, take the initiative to deal with people, talk, eat, entertain, exercise, and try to be gregarious.

Finally, I suggest you take a look at Dale Carnegie's "The Weakness of Human Nature" and believe that you will improve.

You graduated at the age of 22. You graduate only to feel like you're not going to prove anything you didn't learn in school. Your own counterpart major.

I don't have anything to study hard for. If you are in school, you can insist on learning more solidly. It's also easy for you to find a job when you go out into society.

If you don't have a solid foundation, it's not so easy to find a job in society. Now you feel like you're some. Well, out of society.

But you don't have low self-esteem, because you're still young. Work slowly. It's going to be fine.

Don't be discouraged. Persistence is victory. Persistence is victory.

Persistence is victory.

In fact, you don't have to be inferior, you will go to the company to apply for a job after graduating from college, and you will naturally slowly integrate into the environment after you arrive at the company, learn some things, the most important thing is that you have to work hard to learn, a blank piece of paper you can slowly add pictures on it, and slowly make yourself full, the most important thing is that you can't be depressed, you can't be too depressed, you can't cringe, you have to continue to work hard in the workplace, society and university are different, very cruel, you should be more attentive.

Accepting your own shortcomings is the beginning of solving all problems, when you think about your shortcomings, don't always think about how I am so useless, this will only put you in a more painful situation, if you feel that this shortcomings seriously affect your life, think about how to overcome it. If you are happy, you can try to do more things, such as drawing and writing, when you find something you really like, you will find that the world has become different, try more, maybe you will find something you really love.

People are afraid that they don't know their own shortcomings.

If you knew.

And that's a good thing.

You can learn slowly.

Keep accumulating. You will gradually improve.

No one is perfect, and everyone has shortcomings in life. This is unavoidable. Everyone plays a different role, and the so-called difficult to reconcile. So don't be afraid, just show your good side positively.

Actively participate in social activities and social activities, cultivate your hobbies and interests, and actively participate in outdoor sports, such as playing basketball, table tennis, chess, singing, and dancing, which are very helpful in changing your low self-esteem.

In fact, I think the most important thing to be a person is to be confident, don't be too inferior, because being too inferior is not good for yourself, so it is recommended that you still learn to be confident.

It's not scary to feel like you're going to know anything, it's scary to be self-righteous, to think you know everything, and it's feeling like you're lacking in self-confidence, don't be afraid, it's going to get better slowly.

In the early 20s, how young and enviable the times, now is your own confusion and lack of self-confidence, isn't it good that you have graduated from a major? Mix and eat first, then develop your own hobbies, remember to be confident and bold.

This is normal, what you learn in school is only what you learn in textbooks. However, in the real world, it is not enough to rely on textbook knowledge. If you want to adapt to the social environment, you can only ask for advice with an open mind after participating in the work, ask questions if you don't understand, be down-to-earth, and don't be ambitious!

Keep it up and you'll get better soon!

There must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, and the water is naturally straight to the bridge. After graduation, you will work first, and slowly accumulate experience, get along with people to be more tolerant, parents are for the good of their children, first learn to tolerate the shortcomings of others, others will be tolerant of you, and they will like you.

Friends, try to give yourself the opportunity to exercise alone, and take your time!

In fact, you don't have to be confused, when you go to society and have to live on your own, these confusions will make way for survival.

When you go home, get a small basin and put it in your hand, as a steering wheel, and put a sweep on the right hand side as a gear. Sit on your stool or sofa at home, record all the mantras taught by the coach to your mobile phone, go home and turn the steering wheel in gear, practice for a long time, and you will improve.

This thing is something that takes time to grind, and when I first learned to drive, I went there in the morning and went there in the afternoon. It's like this every day, practice makes perfect, and it's naturally good after a long time.

Practice makes perfect, no matter what others say, you still have to understand it yourself in the end, don't be nervous.

Don't give up, it's good to come over slowly, it's best to find one to two more typical and then imitate it, it's better than just looking, learning more things, don't understand it, copy it and then study, a little bit to understand.

I'm in the same situation as you now I just arrived in the company and boasted that I have two years of work experience And I know where I have work experience A training institution came out of the training institution and studied for half a year Taking over a project I feel like my head is about to explode I feel that I can't learn at all I can understand a little bit of research every day Now I am about to collapse if the project progress is not a little Now I want to quit but I think about my relatives, so I have been struggling and uncomfortable, thinking about what I can do every night, how I want to learn, how to learn How to catch up.

It's good to take it slowly, what you learn in practice is the most practical, drink more master exchanges, study and learn more, it's good.

Do your best, work hard.

Don't force yourself, you have to be not interested in anything, and learning anything is useless.

Then there is the problem of conditions, you have a job, you have a family, your extracurricular activities are limited, there is less contact, of course, you are at a loss when you encounter problems.

I'm a gangster, I've been out there for years, I'm interested in everything, although I can't do any of them, but if you want to trick me in this regard, you have to use another brain.

If you have the chance, get in touch with it.

360 lines, it's really a long way, and it's a long way to go.

The smallest thing, just the bicycle repairer in your community, you have nothing to do and squat there for a while, you can learn a lot.

Of course, I don't know what level you want to study, if it's too high-end, you'll have to find a major. If you want to know something about the world, come to me, and you should have no problem dealing with it.

The more people who feel that they know everything, the more they feel that they can't do anything, the more they feel that they can't do anything. If you can think of yourself like this, it means that you are very humble and eager to learn, and the more you learn, the more you feel that you still have a lot of things that you don't know, and the more you will be motivated to learn more. This should be a good sign.

It means that your cognition has been further improved, yesterday you only saw one point, today you see a face. People's demand for knowledge is endless, and the demand for knowledge at different levels will not be the same, which requires us to continue to learn and improve, and constantly revise our pace to meet the pace of social development and adapt to the pace of social progress. At this time, we must not lose confidence, only through practice can people understand their real needs and practical shortcomings, and only in practice can they feel the importance of knowledge and the lack of their own experience.

Therefore, we should turn the entanglement into motivation and achieve our goals through our own continuous efforts and continuous improvement.

When you feel like you can't do anything, it's that you're already integrated into your work, and you're accumulating, and you're finding that you're improving, you're improving.

Then you are not serious enough to study, and tell you to study seriously, you should pay attention to your own behavior!

Be confident, you're an expert, we don't understand it at all.

Oh, at that time this is a problem that plagues many people, I used to drop out of school because of this, thinking that what I have learned is useless, when we live in this society, what we want is not what you will but what you are learning, a person can only make himself constantly improve in continuous learning, so that he tends to the perfect side, since you think you will not know anything, then you will enter a professional field you like to start your own learning career, When you feel that you can do everything, then it means that you are about to leave your lifelong position, so if you feel that you will not know anything, it means that you have not been eliminated by this society, so you can boldly use your ignorance to use your own nothing to go to your new life.