Who knew that a good name was really that important for a child

Even according to the least superstitious of all, a name is crucial to a person's life: it determines the first impression of you before you meet, and it also hints at your own judgment of the future countless times in a long life.

A few years ago, I read a news: a psychology professor at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology did an experiment to put the ** of 24 men and women on **, with some fake names, and asked people on the Internet to rate the charm of these people; After a few days, change their names and let netizens re-rate them. It turned out that after all the people changed their names, their charm scores changed a lot!

To sum up, it is very necessary to give a special name to the child, some mothers give their children names to fortune tellers, some are to find learned relatives, and some are dreamed of by themselves, all of which have special significance!

I think as long as it sounds smooth, the male name is more masculine, the female name is better, and there will be no misunderstanding due to the similar pronunciation. For children, it is more important to have a good education and the care of their parents when they are growing up. Of course, if you think that a good name can make your child safe for life or something, you can ignore me. ]

It is very important that many people use names to protect their children's safety, health, etc., although it is a bit superstitious, but it is also necessary to believe it all, and now everyone is choosing names, more and more pursuing the meaning of names, and whether the name is good or not, children will care about it in the future].

It's more important, because if you give a bad name, you will be made fun of by others, and it will have a bad impact on the healthy growth of children].

1.A name is a person's code name, and the quality of the name is directly or indirectly related to a person's life.

2.The names are loud, loud, rich, relaxed, joyful, dull, sad, etc., each name represents the parents' affectionate wishes for their children, but many parents give their children the wrong name for various reasons.

3.The child's name is not homophonic, the name is too many rare words, the name is awkward, and the name is too frivolous, which will affect the child's future.

4.To choose a good name for a child, the ancients have given us the answer: Xindaya, a name that can meet these three requirements must be a good name, and it will definitely bring the most true and beautiful blessings to the child.

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A name can be said to be a person's symbol, a code name, which follows you from the moment you are born. With the continuous development of society, more and more people are beginning to realize the importance of names.

Although a good name does not necessarily bring good luck, if you want to have good luck, you must have a good name.

Below, let's follow Mr. Yang Qinghua to see the impact of names on children. Let's take a look and learn about it.

Reveal the importance of names for children

Chinese characters originated from pictograms, and the vast majority of characters are pictographic and ideological, so each word has its own meaning and extended meaning when it is spoken and written, and the combination of words has its own specific meaning, which is an "aura", and therefore it will have a certain influence on oneself and others, and will also have an impact on oneself psychologically, interpersonally, and emotionally. Just like some friends feel that their names are particularly cheesy or unpleasant, they are reluctant or embarrassed to say their names when communicating with people. There are also friends who use very obscure or ambiguous words in their names, and they have to explain for a long time every time they introduce themselves, which invisibly makes them a "troublesome" person.

This is true for adults, but for simple, straightforward children, these effects are actually more serious.

Since the child is born, he has his own name, and he can quickly form a sense with it, and when he can't climb, he can know that others are calling him. In fact, since then, the name has had an impact on the child. As the child grows up, the people around him will keep calling him by name, and the parents themselves may not even pay attention to it, and the family will call the child by name many times a day.

Therefore, the process of growing up is also a process in which children gradually become familiar with, accept, and recognize their own names.

After the child goes to kindergarten and elementary school, he begins to interact more and more with peers and strangers, and the name gradually plays the role of a code name, and more importantly, the children have begun to pay attention to each other's names, and they have begun to write their own names more, so the name is almost the same as the child himself at this stage. We all came from this age, and many of us can remember the "nickname" between children when they were young, and this nickname is actually more than the name. If you give your child a catchy name, you will find that others rarely joke about it, but if the child has a bad name, then there are many negative consequences.

With the name of a rare word, often everyone is reluctant to call his name, or even directly call another word or white character, which causes the child's self-esteem to be hurt, and he will be isolated and withdrawn; If the words are too complicated, the child will be disgusted with his own name; If the name is not homophonic, it is easy to be made fun of, and so on.

The biggest joy in life is the addition of Ding Ding to the family. The birth of a new life, the first precious gift to the child of the first parent, is to give a good name, it is more precious than any gift, more upscale than any gift. The name not only expresses the ardent hope of parents and elders for their children, but also expresses the rich connotation of this era!

So, what makes a good name?

First of all, the name must match the year, month and day of birth, which is a rule that every good name must follow. It is to determine which of the five elements of gold, wood, water, fire, and earth needs to be added in the name according to the time of the child's birth, and then reflect it in the name. For example, after the child's birth time is determined, the power of wood needs to be added to the name, so in the process of naming, we look for words that represent wood, such as the word "forest", "birch", etc., and then add such words to the name.

This is a professional question, and there is a chance to talk to me. Repeat the important thing three times, this is the second time, and it must match the year, month and day of birth, remember to remember!

Secondly, the name must be sound-sounding.

The sound is that it is catchy to read, sounds loud, and is easy to call, making people fall in love with the name as soon as they hear it. When we come up with names, there are five tones of names that we can refer to, called "gong", "shang", "jiao", "zheng" and "yu", which represent the five elements of earth, gold, wood, fire and water. The tone is the 12356 in the 1234567 we usually hear, which is pronounced "do" and "ro"."mi""slo""la"。

When you need to increase the strength of the wood in the name, use the "horn" sound, which is the "mi" sound, this is a professional question, you can have the opportunity to ** with me.

Again, the name must be beautiful.

The shape of the beauty is to look good, the strokes of the words are more or less the same, the shape of the words can be clear at a glance, and the structure of the words should also conform to the aesthetic point of view. It is best to have the first and necessary strength of the five elements in the lateral part. For example, if you want to add the element of fire to your name, you should consider whether to use the words "red" and "yang" to represent it.

This reflects the beauty of the glyphs. What is beautiful, what is needed is the most beautiful.

Finally, the meaning of the name should also be beautiful.

What is meaning is the idea that the name is meant to express. It represents the good wishes and expectations of parents and elders for their children. For example, those who want their children to become pillars of the country in the future are named "Yaojie" and "Xuancheng", and those who want their children to be healthy are named "Enron" and "Tianyou".

These names are much better than what they call "success" or "peace"!

Having said so much, Dr. Ming is nothing more than to give everyone a perfect good name, so I still want to remind you that it must match the year, month and day of birth, this is the third time, this is a professional question, welcome everyone to communicate with me further!

You must be cautious when naming your child. During the May Day holiday, Sissi's father and I took two days off to go back early and help the child change his name to one with different homophones. Let's talk about how we came up with the name.,I didn't think about it before I was born.,I don't know if it's a man or a woman.,I was born and hospitalized for 4 days.,Qian's dad is a casual person.,Regardless.,It's okay to have problems with the name in the future.。

Tears [tears] At that time, I just wanted to take a better meaning, a good hope, just bring a Xi word. There are few people with the same name, and there are fewer people with the same name later. But there are too many homophones.

When I went to kindergarten, I found that there were too many people called xi, and there were 40 children in their class, and there were seven or eight of them, and there were many girls, so forget it, I think. The key child, the little boy's name, is Sissy. I didn't even dare to call my child, so I just called my full name when I picked up school.

Now I don't call it a nickname at home. All called Xixi can imagine that the teacher shouted after school, Xixi left, the parents picked up, seven or eight children had to look at each other, not looking at each other were the parents, running out of seven or eight children, the teacher had to catch one left and one right like catching a chicken.

The trouble with coming up with a complicated name is that when the child goes to the rural cooperative medical care to apply for a medical insurance card, he explains the name to the office staff for half a day, and the handwriting is not necessarily correct. **When you see a doctor and write a medical record book, write it for half a day. After writing his name for the school exam for a long time, the child was so anxious that he cried.

My children are also quick tempered with me. Last year, I planned to go back in advance for the Spring Festival and changed my name, but the epidemic advocated that the New Year should be celebrated on the spot and did not return, so I asked if both parents must be present. Let's go back to May Day.

Tell everyone that the information needed to change the name is: birth certificate, household registration book, marriage certificate, application letter from the parents, and consent letter from the village committee. The ID cards of both parents, if the whole family has a household registration in one book, it is fine, otherwise the household registration must be held.

Both parents must be present in person, go to the police station to apply, and both parents must sign and have their fingerprints pressed. After that, I had to wait for about a month, wait for the police station to notice, and take the household registration book to change the new name. The second time I went, my family helped me do it.