May I ask if the blind date to find a wife is the money at the beginning?

Blind date must be like this, people have no relationship with you now, you have no money to marry her to live, this is a very real problem, who doesn't want to let themselves live the best point? Although vulgar, but this is because there is no emotional foundation, so people always think about reality, if it is true love, it will slowly merge

Today's society is very realistic, and some girls only recognize money and not people. Many of my female classmates want to fish for their sons-in-law, which is the so-called now: the kind that has a car, a house and money.

But the world is equal, and girls should also be self-reliant. It's hypocritical to live just by marrying a rich man. People don't live just for money.

If a girl withdraws money at the beginning of a blind date, it can only mean that she wants full material security. Whoever has money will marry whom! It's the same as living with money.

It shows that she is more realistic. If she talks about how to make more money with you and live a good life when she gets in touch again, it's not bad.

Love is important, but in this society, there is no money to mention! That mm is realistic, haha! You can consider it and find out more.

Wouldn't it be great if you say that she is still with you without money, proving that she is not with you for money. I don't think it's a big deal. /

In reality, now the ratio of men and women is out of balance, so women are so picky, if there are more women and fewer men, it will not be so pitiful, now we will go to make money and find a little wife.

That is, just say it! If you really meet someone you like, you don't care if you have money or not!

It's still amazing, such people will love you when you have money, and leave when you don't.

Isn't it true that we are looking for a lover who will love you when you have 1 million, and when you have a dollar, you will never give up.

Who will marry you if you don't have money? That person is not born to suffer, who doesn't want to live a better life...

We don't want that kind of wife.

Why do you still ask people for money in the first place? It's dizzy.

Quite simply, here are a few of the possibilities.

1: I feel that my own conditions are poor, poor, ugly, and unconfident. There are not many such people......2：

Glass hearts. Or it can be said that you can't trust others and have an extreme skepticism about things. I always feel afraid of being hurt or afraid of being hurt.

There are many ...... such people

3: The former true love is still in his heart, although he knows that there is no hope, but he can't get out, so he has been waiting for ...... in fantasyThere are a lot of people ...... this kind of person

4: All kinds of physical diseases.

5: There is an underground girlfriend, others don't know. Not much ......

There are various theories about that, 1 doesn't want to have children, 2 doesn't want to spend money. It's all a sign of stinginess.

What is there to express in this kind of nonsense, don't others know the truth that young people will have money in the future?

The problem is that some people want now.

If you have money, don't pretend to be a pig and eat a tiger, don't make empty promises if you don't have money, the conditions are clear, accept it if you can accept it, and if you can't accept it, this is not a problem that can be solved by using your mouth. Whether she worships money or not, whether she can find the ideal rich golden beetle son-in-law has nothing to do with you - you don't have to do it the same as if you leave this woman, don't waste each other's time, if not, just find the next one quickly.

are all such adults, that is, because of the blind date only known each other for a few days, do you think you can convince others to change their view of money and the worldview? Is it realistic?

I think since she is looking for a partner with you, she should tell her the truth, so as not to cause more misunderstandings in the future, what if you can't achieve it now, the important thing is to let him understand you as a person, followed by the family, and you can't say that the girl is material, because this society is very realistic, and the pressure will be greater without these material foundations, and if two people are together, these factors must be taken into account. You can say that although I don't have much money now, but I'm still young, as long as I work hard and am willing to make progress, I dare not guarantee that I can make you rich, but I will definitely make you very happy, if she really loves you, she will not care if you have money, let alone your family!

Raise money on a blind date, don't want such a woman! There is no grass at the end of the world, love and marriage are about fate, fate is coming, and your other half will appear!

I think if you think that you will have it in the future, and you don't speculate with the blind date girl, you can get married on a blind date later, do you think someone is willing to wait for you or suffer with you when they have no feelings for you? Similarly, if you meet a rich woman, considerate, beautiful, and empathetic, you are also willing to be with her, it is the same, understand your own shortcomings, understand and respect each other's needs, and wait for the opportunity, isn't it?

It's good to be direct, and it's inevitable that others won't necessarily approve of you.

In the real society, life is inseparable from money, and it is appropriate for my girlfriend to mention money, you can say that I am not financially good now, but in the future I will work hard and work hard to earn money to support my family.

When you meet a girl who talks about money at the beginning, don't talk about it directly. That's not your thing. By your sincerity. You will meet girls who are willing to endure hardships and start a business with you. Only girls who can endure hardships with you. in order to hold hands for a lifetime.

It's too realistic now, you don't blame you for being poor, but you can't blame the blind date girl, you say you are a potential stock, but when it will break out, it's still unknown

Tell the truth, say what you think, see how she reacts, if she loves you, she won't ask you to have money or not, as long as you work hard.

Directly expressed: "I don't have any money now, but I have a personality guarantee, and in 10 years, you will see a different me." "Those who love you will surely accept you.

To distinguish between the concepts of consumption and investment, you don't lack people to help you spend, what you need is people who help you make investments

At present, I am working hard to develop my career.

It's useless to say anything if you care about money, and you can't mention money if you don't care, if you mention money and you don't have money, then end the topic!

It's useless, if it's someone who shares weal and woe, how can they raise the issue of money with you?

You can tell the truth, I just don't have money now, I can work hard to earn money in the future, so that you can live a happy life, if you love me, believe me, if you don't love me, love money, separate.

Let you live a happy life, if you love me, believe in me, if you don't love me, love money, separate.

You're more affectionate! Have an economic mind! Strong independence!

Cheerful! The reason why you are annoyed is that you are not confident! Too much attention to other people's ideas!

But there are also people who value your character! So be confident! Others look down on you, they don't have vision, and they don't have that blessing!

But you don't have a deep relationship with your family.

First, you have to go to places where there are many girls often, to understand what kind of boys girls need, what kind of men women like, and second, you have self-confidence, so that you don't have to go on a blind date, and you feel that it is interesting to have regular contact with women, which is helpful for men's careers.

You should be low on self-confidence, or maybe you have met a lot of girls with tinted glasses! Or maybe you're an escapist! I don't want to get married and have children, I'm afraid of taking responsibility!

I just want to be at ease alone, and I don't want to have a life tie! However, it is really impossible for a person to live forever for a lifetime, and many times he lives for the sake of others! A lot of things are not wanted to do!

This is social responsibility! Family Responsibilities!

Dear, you didn't calm down and think about a person's pain points, no one takes care of a person when he is sick, a person is not suitable for matching with a pair of people, people don't call you to follow the team, it's not good to be single all the time, parents care about us so we call us a blind date, they are worried that one day they are no longer in the world and no one will help us solve the pain in life, we must understand the good intentions of our parents.

Maybe it's because you're under a lot of pressure, and you feel like you're facing a lot, so you don't take it to heart in terms of feelings. But since we have reached this age, marriage must be an issue that we should reconsider, so I think we must not dislike our parents who are full of nagging. In fact, parents, you don't really want to hold your grandchildren, isn't that the most important thing?

He's worried about us. As parents, we must be worried that when we get older, what will happen if we can't get married? Because I'm so single today, isn't it?

It's not that what's wrong with you, but that you feel that the word blind date has touched the bottom line of your heart. All the while, you feel that your life is very peaceful, and you feel that someone has suddenly been added. It's very irritable, and if you tell your parents that you don't like her, your parents will tell you that you like it slowly.

At this time, you will feel that your future is very unknown, and you think that the present is very good, what is wrong with a person, you have to get married and find your other half? In fact, it's just the sudden appearance of responsibilities that makes you feel a little stressed

The two brothers have similar experiences, and they are the same age, so I can feel your feelings, I shouldn't have met a suitable one yet, and it's natural to meet the right person.

Parents of marriageable age, regardless of gender, will be anxious to introduce their partners, which is the hope of their parents, and it is also their own responsibility in their hearts, and they should understand the feelings of their parents. If you have opinions and ideas, you can communicate well with your parents, as long as you patiently express your thoughts, your parents will definitely understand. After all, your parents are the ones who want you to be good the most, and there is no one.

Although everyone's thoughts are different, parents hope to see their children bear fruit and have a happy family as soon as possible. In fact, when you reach the age of marriage, if you meet someone who can get married. Why not change your mind?

I think you should not have found someone you like, and you don't want to get married so soon, in fact, everyone will be like this, and others will feel very disgusted when they tell you to get married soon, because you don't have the person you really love now, and you don't want to give her happiness! Give her the feeling of a warm home, and give her that one day you meet her, and you won't hate getting married!

The man is only 28 years old to get married is a bit early, follow the feeling, at least you have to meet the right one, if you rashly decide to find a marriage in order to fulfill the wishes of your parents, it is a very irresponsible behavior for yourself and even for the woman!

I'm the same, this situation is normal, on the one hand, I feel that it is annoying and not free to have one more person after marriage, and on the other hand, I haven't found the right one, understand and understand.

Most boys like freedom and don't want to be constrained, but if you find a partner, one more person cares about you! Isn't that bad? You get upset at the mention of blind dates, do you have a crush on a woman? If there is, express it boldly and pursue it bravely.

Maybe it's because of the pressure, I feel like I'm facing a lot, so I don't dare to face it, and I don't take the emotional part to heart. But since we have reached this age, we should get married, after all, you can't be single for the rest of your life.

First of all, you have to face your heart, do you really think a person is good or other reasons, if it is other reasons, change it, upset is not the solution to the problem, upset also has a reason for upset, don't let emotions control you, if you don't have this feeling of upset, you really decide, if you decide, according to my way of doing things, I will stick to it, will not change because of anyone or anything, your current situation even if you go on a blind date will only make your emotions accumulate, so calm yourself down first.

I think this should be regarded as a typical fear of marriage, and the root cause of marriage phobia is the fear of responsibility.

I feel like fate hasn't arrived, and I haven't met the girl who makes your heart flutter. There are also many blind dates, all of which have not been successful, and there is some resistance in my heart, so I can screen it first next time, and then go on a blind date, so that the success rate is higher, and I will not be too frustrated. Another thing is to improve your self-confidence and believe that you are the best!

I wish you to find your beloved soon.

Look at your dead skin and drooping eyes, not only you are annoyed, but others are also annoyed. First of all, be calm and smile. Then there is self-confidence, believe that I am born to be useful, and let myself become a useful person to others!

Maybe you're too unconfident, everyone should be confident, don't live up to your parents' hearts because you don't have confidence, I think you should be worried about not having enough appearance, maybe you're angry, I'll apologize to you first, I'm sorry, but I still have to tell the truth, since you are not confident in your appearance, you can rely on your strength and work hard.

It depends on your own conditions, and good conditions like Baoqiang can also take beautiful women, and you don't have to worry about it.

Blind date, how can you lend him money. You can contact him and ask him to pay it back, and if he doesn't pay it back, you can ask an introducer to help you get it. The heart is also big, and you dare to lend money to a blind date, you send him the transfer record and chase the money.

However, the possibility of recovering is not high, if he does not admit the account, you can only ask the introducer, and if it is really not possible, call the police and ask how to mediate.