My first love ten years ago went offline or became invisible when I saw me

It's nothing either, it's very common. It is said that they are still friends when they meet, but they may still regard you as a friend in their hearts. But in words and deeds, it will no longer be as chic as before.

Besides, you hurt him before, and he also has scruples. What's more, his wife is about to give birth, you can just warm up from the cold once in a while, and you don't have to mind anything. Everyone is still friends with each other, and they still help each other when they need it, but they should not be as calm as before.

Generous and frank? I guess you live the belly of a villain with the heart of a gentleman. Unless you haven't completely let go, from now on, I suggest you treat him as a friend from the bottom of your heart, but stop talking about q, or have time to take your children to visit his house,; If he let his wife know, he would destroy people's homes.

Can't you just delete him? Since they all have their own homes, he doesn't want to contact you anymore, so why should he have anything to do with it, it's good for each other.

It is difficult for outsiders to judge emotional matters.

Based on what you said, I think you are more dependent on him, or rather, you want to connect with him more emotionally.

But what is this feeling?

If you just want to be friends. Then it's good to be clear, don't let the other party be a burden, and don't let yourself have inexplicable expectations.

If you want to develop further, then in terms of the current situation, you are happy, and he is happy. Why bother?

Distance produces beauty. So it's good for everyone to let this beauty last, isn't it?

If he doesn't speak, he's busy. Don't worry about it. If I greet you, then say hello generously. Isn't it good?

In fact, you also care about him, maybe you and he have scruples. It's good to talk about this kind of thing, you can tell him what you think, make friends with him, or something, but you can't go beyond the boundaries of friends.

And then there is the fact that you all have your own family and children, and if it's okay, it's best not to contact them, so it's good for everyone

Emotional things are already cut and messy, maybe he didn't mean it, maybe he has his own scruples or something, you don't care too much, let it be

I hope you can still adjust your mentality, after all, you can never go back to the past, your current state is still obsessed with him, you think it's okay to chat generously, but maybe it's hard for him, if you really let it go, you may not be in pain and don't count too much.

Give it to him and let him bombard you. I'm going to get you to the sky, or not. Come to my brother, my brother has a long whip to keep you comfortable.

After all, it's first love! Hehe! It's not that I hate you, and I still can't let go of you!

Ten years have passed, and they all have children at home, what do you still want? Relive old dreams? Just be an ordinary friend, ignore it, unless you're really idle and have nothing to do to care about these boring things.

Why contact and chat? You have your own living families, and there is no need to be in touch. What do you want him to do with you?

There's no need anymore. Delete his QQ and live your life well, put your mind on this all day long, your family will be affected.

Look for it slowly, as long as you have the heart, you may be able to find it, you can find it on Renren.com! There are other **, and then ask acquaintances about his news.

Hello. You don't need to look for it, just bless it! What about his friends? What if it's not good? It's been ten years, time has passed, and the innocence of ten years ago can only be the wealth in the heart, and it will never go back! Take care of yourself! You tell me?

The past should be gone, and the first love can only be beautiful in memory, if you have your own life, why look for it.

Someone has a boyfriend. Don't disturb people's lives.

Mangmang is a sea of people, and there are lovers who are bitter.

My first love ten years ago, when I loved each other to death, now in the same city, there is no her**, I haven't met, although we are very close, I know where she is, and I didn't go to her, although I still miss her.

Yes, it's just that I don't feel like before when I see it, and I don't have a common language anymore.

I guess not. It's awkward to meet. I have the experience.

Surely, I believe that soon, you will be able to meet.

Yes, but I didn't come across it myself.

It was before, and now it is now....

Yes, as long as you still have her (him) in your heart

No, don't bother each other anymore, ten years, just out of the space of love, it is inevitable to be sad and painful to see it, I don't want to see my first love in my life.

Can you save some face for yourself.

Third? Stepping in? Affair? No way! Destroying the family, isn't it?

Of course, it can be full of good memories.

Yes, I haven't seen my first love for 14 years, and today I hit **,

Sometimes it's better to miss each other than to see each other. It's better not to miss than not to miss. If you don't see it for a lifetime, then see you.

It's possible, but it's up to you whether you can get in touch or not. Because we don't know anything.

Yes, it's a friend, why can't!

I'm also in this situation, just ten years have been in contact, love is very deep, I was dumped at the time, young, 10 years later, everyone is very good, everyone wants to meet, their own feelings are beyond friendship, they haven't seen each other, I'm afraid of falling in love again! It's not suitable to have a family! When we meet, we only have the best wishes for each other!

Heartbreaking!

We met, but I still remember him, I asked him to call him, do I care about him or the like, I don't care so much about me.

Maybe he thinks it's unnecessary, maybe he's married now, and he's worried that meeting you will cause him to be troubled, he doesn't want her to guess anything, or maybe he doesn't have a place for you in his heart, so he doesn't think there's any need to meet, if you want to let go of him, you shouldn't go to see him, how do you know what kind of entanglement is after meeting? Sometimes we lose something, as if we are sad and reluctant, but few people will really ask themselves, is it really reluctant, or because of unwillingness? After thinking clearly, my heart will suddenly open up a lot, and I wish you to get out of the confusion and become happier and happier.

You should see each other, you have to look at fate if you are not together, some people will think that it is not necessary, but I don't think so, because not seeing one side will haunt you for a lifetime, just talk about it, there is no right or wrong in love, that's a matter of the heart, it's not that you can forget it, isn't it? Unless you have let go, everything is just fate, bless the lovers to become dependents, don't separate, cherish each other, don't know how to cherish until you lose

The person who used to be in love with you should be able to go with the flow of it now, as a good friend and classmate, and it is natural to say hello.

It's been ten years, I believe everything has faded, maybe people still remember you, you can go and say hello like an ordinary friend, or just don't see it!

Time changes everything. He wants you just to make up for the regret of not having you in his heart. It's right not to agree.,As long as you don't promise, you'll always be his first love.,Sleeping is his number of sleeping n people added 1...

Because the first love is beautiful, so I am reluctant to forget the passage of time You still like him And he is not the boy he was at the beginning Maybe what you like is just the feeling of liking him. But it's long been submerged in the years, and you just can't bear the feeling that once made you feel beautiful and happy. The landlord should not be obsessed, and he must understand that after so long, things have long been wrong.

The only thing that remains constant is that little memory!

That's good, so you can see his true face! If you had promised him at the time, it might not have been a different speech now, and it is very likely that you have been dumped.

He just makes up for what he didn't get before, and this kind of person doesn't care.

First love is beautiful in memories, but when it is put into reality, it will be bruised all over the body. After all, you've been missing out on more than a decade, and everything has changed.

Of course, as time goes by, everyone will change, and what he wants you may be just a little joke he makes with you.

People change slowly, and so does the voice.

He wants your body, not a lover.

Suddenly, he didn't speak the same way as before.

It's ripe! If you like it, you'll be together! o(∩_o

Did you get off the wrong train, or did you miss the stop.

People change, not to mention that I haven't seen them for so long.

You've changed too, and it feels naturally different!

For the sake of his family, it's best not to contact him, just let that feeling be hidden deep in the bottom of my heart! If you love him, don't bother him, unless you're all single!

I'm afraid that the original intention is still the same, and things are wrong

Don't talk about the current love, talk about the first love, I don't know each other's marriage and love. I can only say don't get too entangled, be happy, just work hard to be yourself and maintain what you have.

Not all romances can be as they please. No matter what, be confident, don't get entangled in the scenery passing by, and the people who miss it, it's good to let go. Believe that there will be more beautiful scenery ahead, more worthy people, waiting for yourself to discover.

Our first love for 30 years used to be like each other and didn't dare to say it, but now we suddenly get in touch, and I can't forget him in my heart when I say it to each other, and I think about him all the time.

Find him, reminisce about love as friendship, bless each other, share their respective family histories, and then disappear.

That's when you idealized him.

already has a family, you have to be responsible for the family, your wife, and your children, why didn't you get married in the first place, your wife has been with you for so many years, don't hurt your wife, the woman who accompanies you.

Because first love is often the most impressive memory, and it is also the truest and purest love, it is inevitable to be excited when you see your first love again!

It may be embarrassing, scared.