How can you persuade yourself to let go of what fait accompli is powerless to change?

My personal way of dealing with it is to carry out this relationship to the extreme, so that I don't regret it in the end. Then the result is not acceptable, and he leaves. I am not afraid of letting go in life, but I am afraid of unwillingness and regret after letting go.

Love, if it really exists, doesn't disappear. Even if it's not as hot as it used to be, it can still give us warmth. You don't have to force yourself to cut it off.

Running away will only emphasize, but will not help you solve the problem. When you've done everything you want to do, you'll find that you don't have to run away from anything, even if that person is still there and isn't the same person you used to be. That relationship is not the same relationship that it used to be.

So, you accept the result, and you can even accept being friends with this person. A good way to end the relationship is to change the nature of the relationship.

You say you know that you should put it down, but you can't let it go, to put it bluntly, you still don't want to put it down, just like you think you're hungry and want to eat, but you're lazy and don't want to move, so you keep dragging it off, and you can't stand it until you naturally act, and there is another situation where you are so hungry that you don't feel it, and you naturally won't think about it anymore The same reasoning can be proven, some feelings are not that you can't let go, but you haven't thought about having to put them down, so you say you should put them down but can't put them down.

Time is a good thing. Many times we don't choose to forgive or forget about certain things and some people, but time makes us powerless to care, and memories blur our brains unconsciously, and slowly they will fade out of our lives. After a long time, I put it down.

Make more new friends, expand your social circle, so that the choice is big, when you have a new favorite, the original will naturally let go, and the best way to let go is to replace.

The expectations of life are more complicated, and it is difficult to say that what you think now is what you will think later, and if you are not about to step into society, then it is completely too late to leave it until university. Schools are essentially about laying the foundation for a later career in society, and this is especially true for universities in their home countries. Maybe it's a bit off-topic in the middle, and it can't be guaranteed that it's about the subject.

If you think of something more, you will make up for it.

The junior high school English teacher once said a sentence that I still remember clearly: the opposite of love is not hate, but indifference. The people who have never cried and cried to leave are not the ones who will really leave.

The one who really wanted to leave, picked a sunny afternoon, put on an overcoat and went out, disappeared into the autumn sun, and never came back.

I know I didn't do anything wrong. I know it's not me who misses the comparison after a breakup. I know it's hard for him to find someone like me, and it's hard to do what I used to do, and the person who should have enjoyed my warmth all his life has lost the opportunity forever.

And I have the confidence to say: I deserve to be unforgettable, worthy of being loved.

You want to persuade yourself to let go, and you think it's time to adjust your attitude towards life. My experience is that in short, it's about setting yourself in the right position, and that means a lot about correcting your expectations.