Why can t I forget my first love?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-11
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Nothing, don't think too much. In love, no one owes anyone, only who doesn't pay enough and doesn't know how to cherish it. Learning is all about it.

    You think about your future, if you don't have knowledge, no major, no job, even if you are with her, you will not be happy. If you can turn this into motivation to study hard, fate may even make you happy together!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In fact, everyone has their first love, but the first love is rarely together, because the first love is like a test in life, it will leave a lot of memories for yourself, and you always think of your first love in your heart. To put it simply, if you break up with her, you have to say what is in your heart and let him know what you think. Then make yourself feel very relaxed and don't owe her anything, especially if you don't feel sorry for her.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Everyone's first love is hard-working and unforgettable... It's normal for you to do this, not to mention that you're in the same class, and you can be friends with her!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Depressed, my first love and I were in the same class, I didn't talk to him for 8 months, and then I talked for a few days, and then I didn't talk again, and sometimes I think it's funny.

    After a long time, it will fade away, and you really give each other time.

    Long or short, anything will fade.

    First love is like this, I don't know why I can't forget it.

    This feeling will fade but will not be forgotten.

    You have to believe that it doesn't take effort to really forget.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What do you owe her? When we were together before, wasn't it good enough for her? Or did she accompany you through the years when you had nothing?

    Think about it, if you can, try to make amends, after all, she is by your side, as long as you are careful, I believe you can give her some help! Escaping is not a good way to escape.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's normal not to forget. Because first love must be very pure to you. Purity is often nostalgic because we all have feelings.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After a long time, it will fade into forget, no matter how deep the love was before, time will slowly fade the impression of her.

    Maybe one day the two of you walk down the street and pass by, and you don't recognize each other.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It would be better to try to chat together and talk about everything.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First love is beautiful, how can it be so easy to forget. Why don't you change shifts!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Remember, it's not your first love that you forget.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Keep it. It's always good to have a memory.

    Men hide everything in the depths.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    So why forget about it???

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In fact, no one owes anyone.

    Everyone has been emotionally invested.

    You have to think about it. She is your first love.

    It is the most precious relationship you have.

    It's not you who owe her.

    It's what she owes you.

    Don't feel embarrassed.

    Then perhaps. In the days to come.

    You can still be friends.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello, according to your description. First of all, she is your first love. There are a lot of good memories between you. Secondly, it shows that you are a nostalgic person. The most important thing is that you are still living in the past, not in the present.

    Why? Because he broke up with you and already has a new boyfriend. You have become his past.

    And in your heart, you still remember him and can't forget her. Does it mean that she is in your heart or now? But you have to be realistic, the reality is that she has become someone else's girlfriend.

    It has nothing to do with you anymore, you have to come out of here.

    You should come out of your past. You have to use your free time to study. Socialize with other friends.

    Or exercise. Don't be preoccupied with your past. You only live in the past, and that doesn't make sense to you, after all, someone else already has a boyfriend.

    He's put you in the past, and you're going to struggle with it. It's impossible to go back in time.

    Wanting to forget about someone who doesn't belong to you. There are two ways, one is to put your life to the full, don't have time to think about it. When people are busy, they don't think about anything else.

    I won't dwell on the past. When you slowly let go of your thoughts, then you live. It's different.

    The second is that you also find a new partner. Let yourself start over in your relationship. Then as time changes, you will forget the past.

    You can't forget the past because you gave too much. So when you're going to start over, you have to know. Find someone who is about the same fit as your own personality habits.

    You have to understand that you can't get rid of the people who belong to you, and you can't keep the people who don't belong to you. Everyone else has a new object. Then you learn to let go. Personal opinion, thank you!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I can't forget my first love, because you used to love each other very much, and now you still have feelings for each other, and you haven't fallen in love with other women, although she has a boyfriend now, but you may not have entered the next new relationship now, so naturally you can't forget each other.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    As the saying goes, if you want to forget a relationship, start a new one. First love is an experience that everyone does not easily forget. If you know that there is no result before. Don't dig into the horns yourself. Just keep it in your heart.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    can't forget your first love, first, you really liked each other, and you can't forget the good past when you were together, and second, you are still alone, and the other party has a partner, you will feel more lost.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Judging by your description. First of all, she is your first love. There are a lot of good memories between you. Secondly, it shows that you are a nostalgic person. The most important thing is that you are still living in the past, not in the present.

    Why? Because he broke up with you and already has a new boyfriend. You have become his past. And in your heart, you still remember him and can't forget her. Does it mean that she is in your heart or now? But you have to be on the ground running.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I can't forget my first love, sometimes it may not be because of love, it may just be unwilling that we can't forget our first love, sometimes it may not be because of love, nor can we forget that person, but we can't forget the feeling at the beginning, I can't forget the pure self at the beginning, and I can't forget the simple dedication I once gave to that feeling.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The reason why you can't forget your first love is because two people are very happy when they are together, or two people have a particularly unforgettable memory, so it is difficult to forget your first love, which is the main reason.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    First love is the first time in life to contact and feel love, especially after being together for many years, the natural memory is deep, even if you break up for many years, you will occasionally think about your first love, which is very normal, those who say that they forget their first love are self-deception.

    Since you have a new relationship, bury the past in your heart, and it is important to cherish the talents in front of you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    First love is the first time to love someone, this is normal, first love is unforgettable, and it is also worth remembering. First love is not a passerby, but the first step of your life, the reason why it is first love is that you love the other person you fell in love for the first time, as for why you broke up, you will think of that person from time to time, unforgettable love.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    First love is sweet and unforgettable, and it is normal to not forget it, because love always gives people good memories in memory, and time will slowly blur the first love in the days to come.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Maybe he has a great influence on you, or maybe your love for her is so deep that you can't forget her.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The best way to forget about a relationship is to start a new one. If you can't forget your first love, you can try to start a new relationship. A new relationship may not make you forget your first love right away, but it may dilute your attachment to your first love.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    This is also normal, after all, this is my first feeling, relatively speaking, the traces left in my heart are also relatively heavy.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    This happens quite often, and it is advisable to either get back together with him or completely forget about the bad things for your new life.

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