Can anyone help me point out the shortcomings, what are the shortcomings of my person?

Your problem is that you're too self-centered and you don't feel like you're right, and you don't feel like there's anything wrong with you. In fact, there are some things that you don't necessarily think correctly, not necessarily objectively, and not necessarily in line with societal expectations.

It's like I know someone, for whatever reason, whose mantra is, "It's not my fault." ”

But what is objectively it? Can you be clear?

People around you have reminded you that you give others the impression that you are self-righteous, so why not try to change?

And still feel like you're pretty good?

Do you understand what I mean?

I rub it out to be strikingly similar to mine

I've been confused, but at the end of the day, I don't care, I don't want to live in the eyes of others

Don't pretend to be compared in front of people, be a little lower, you can lend money to your friends when they occasionally borrow money, and you won't lose it, like you, you must treat money as life. Am I right?

Most of the people who chat online are not confident and autistic.

If you're not by your side, how do you know what flaws you have!

1. Improve self-confidence. Self-confidence is the most fundamental motivation to eliminate inferiority complex. Don't be afraid of failure, because failure is inevitable, think of "failure is the mother of success"; "Victory or defeat is a common thing in a soldier's life." We should analyze the causes of defeat with a positive attitude, believe in our own ability and perseverance, overcome difficulties, and work hard toward success.

2. Firmly believe in the truth that "I am born to be useful". Correctly understand yourself, see your own strengths, and discover your own value. Give full play to one's own strengths, actively participate in activities conducive to the development of one's strengths, and make use of one's advantages to make more achievements as much as possible, so that one's self-confidence can be continuously consolidated and enhanced.

3. Be clear: diligence is a good training to make up for clumsiness, and a point of hard work is a point of talent. Through diligent study and hard practice, we can completely narrow the gap between ourselves and others, and even catch up with or surpass others.

4. Maintain psychological balance. Students with low self-esteem should praise themselves more and use their own strengths to compare the shortcomings of others. Don't get discouraged when you encounter a setback, don't think "I can't do it", but show a strong sense of confidence: "I can do it." Do it again, and I'll make it."

Fifth, choose the right good method. Everyone's situation is different, and what is effective in others may not be applicable to them, and "Dong Shi Xiao Feng" often achieves twice the result with half the effort, and according to their own special circumstances, they can choose some good and practical methods to get twice the result with half the effort.

6. "Go your own way and let others say go!" Because other people's ridicule and belittlement are often due to jealousy or other reasons, remember: as long as you don't admit that you have an inferiority complex, no one can make you feel inferior!

To live is to live yourself!

Hmmm... How do we know if you ask like that? I don't know much about you

I added you QQ··· Let's talk on QQ.

When a conflict arises, don't be stubborn, take the initiative to talk to others and say hello, when nothing happens, but remember.

The reason why people are upset is because of what you say or what you do that makes people have an opinion about you.

To open your mind is to not think about the contradictions in front of you, but to remind yourself when you are thinking.

Before you talk to someone, think about how you want to say it, how you want to do it, try not to be too aggressive, don't be too mean, too sharp, no one will stand it, even if what you say is true, but others may not want to hear it.

It's better to be tactful when you want to, it's better to understand others, put understanding first, think about what kind of people and things are strange, understand others, and forget what you weren't happy about yesterday.

1.Personality disorders: dependent personality avoidant personality obsessive-compulsive personality, unable to distinguish between oneself and others, ignoring one's own feelings, forgetting oneself.

2.There is no way to do things, and I don't like to reflect, summarize, and review.

3.I don't like to be fine, I want to be moderate in everything I do, I'm afraid of being noticed if I'm too good, and I'm worried that I'm too bad and being looked down upon.

4.Love takes everything seriously and can't afford to lose.

5.He has no patience with his loved ones, he doesn't care about his own good, he cares about the people who hurt him.

6.Doing useless work over and over again.,I like to dwell on the useless things of the past.。

7.Poor studying.

8.It's easy to think too much about doing things, give up halfway, can't afford to lose, and are afraid of sunk costs.

To be continued......

A short description of the personal strengths and weaknesses is as follows:

1. Be sincere, conscientious and responsible.

2. Like to interact with people, good at organizing and planning activities and projects.

3. Be positive and pragmatic, and dare to take the initiative to assume your own responsibilities.

4. Be persistent. Once I'm in the right direction, I'll be able to throw all my strength in that direction. Have the ability to execute.

5. Be diligent and good at learning the knowledge and things you are interested in. I like to make a plan and prioritize things.

6. Weaknesses in personality, sometimes putting too much pressure on yourself, being in a hurry, and not attacking too much.

7. When serving as a team leader, when it comes to the interests of the team members, sometimes there is too much consideration for the team members, resulting in more time being spent making decisions.

8. Don't take the initiative to exercise, except for playing basketball and other ball games with friends.

9. When I get up at work, I sometimes lose track of time.

10. When making friends, I like friends with rich story experience, and I don't like friends who have no stories and are too bland.

Three disadvantages, three advantages, self-evaluation? Self-evaluation of the main strengths and weaknesses of the individual - their own strengths and weaknesses.

1.Strengths: Helpful, good at uniting the core of the group, hard-working, approachable.

Disadvantages: The work style is too restrained and not bold enough 2Pros:

Respect teachers, unite classmates, be helpful, be a good helper of teachers, good friends of classmates, diligent in learning, positive, like to discuss and solve problems with classmates, and actively participate in various extracurricular and extracurricular activities organized by the class school. Disadvantages: The thinking is not mature enough, and the ability to connect the theory with practice is weak.

3.Strengths: kind-hearted, honest, single-minded, shrewd and capable, stable personality, proactive.

Disadvantages: Usually pay too much attention to details, and it is possible to neglect the grasp of the whole. 4.

Strengths: Caring for others, self-motivated, able to work independently, good interpersonal skills, willing to work under pressure, and with leadership qualities. Cons:

Lack of experience in dealing with people. 5.Pros:

Have perseverance and perseverance in doing things, and have your own opinions on things, and no one else will be in the clouds. Disadvantages: Theoretical learning needs to be further deepened.

6.Advantages: There is your own way to learn, learning new things is efficient, and learning new skills is quick.

Disadvantages: Less work experience and further training is needed. 7.

Strengths: Positive work attitude, courage to take on heavy burdens, willingness and ability to work diligently without supervision; Fair and strict, self-motivated, with good communication skills. Cons:

Sometimes I think too much about something. Advantages: 1. Actively move closer to the party's peripheral organizations and strive to learn the party's basic knowledge.

2. Continuously improve their self-cultivation and strictly demand themselves with the standards of party members. 3. Actively respond to the party's call, keep in line with the party, and complete the tasks assigned by the party branch on time. 4. Study hard in business, bear hardships and stand hard work, bravely shoulder heavy burdens, and be able to fight against undesirable phenomena.

You have two problems: 1. A little inferiority; 2. Be content with the status quo and don't want to change yourself, in fact, you are smart and know where some of your problems are, but you don't do something to improve.

1. Technical positions are generally only technical and have nothing to do with appearance, unless you pay too little attention to your personal image when you apply for a job, which makes people feel that your skills will not be good. If your skills are very average, then you should strengthen your skills, and the recruitment is about technology; If you don't pay too much attention to your personal image, then you should pay attention to improving this point when applying for a job or at work, so that you can appear more energetic and capable.

2. You have at least analyzed that it may be because you have poor hands and feet, resulting in low income, so why not use your hands and feet to make a profit? It's not hard to make changes in this area, the key is to see if you want to change or not.

3. Do some small business, I don't know what kind of small business you are referring to, do you need a sweet mouth to set up a stall to sell newspapers? A lot of business desserts will add some color to the business, but it is only to add some color, and in the end, the business will not work on this.

First of all, you need to discover your strengths and avoid your weaknesses. Be good at using your strengths and try more. The disadvantage is that it is not positive enough and not confident enough. If you don't even have confidence in yourself, how much more can others do to you?

It is suitable for the work of employees of iron and steel enterprises.

Go to work on time and get off work on time, and live a smooth life according to the rules.

First of all, you have to look up to yourself, what you look good does not necessarily mean that you do well, so that others can afford to look down on you first. Exercise yourself slowly, your shortcomings are a lack of self-confidence and being too pessimistic.

Everything is difficult at the beginning, once people have made a choice, they should persevere, you have to remember that there are more winners than losers is persistence, don't give up easily.

No one is perfect, but you are certainly good.

Open the **、I can't say what I think about in my mouth, and it should be okay to type it to others.。

False, fake polite, everyone is inevitable. Don't mind, everybody.

Timidity and cowardice are easy to save themselves, not to cause trouble, and sometimes timidity is an advantage.

Doing things eagerly shows that you are a doer and a doer. Pay attention to work efficiency. Here's the plus. Pay a little attention to the rhythm and think things through.

You like to talk nonsense at work, which shows that you are focused on communicating with people. This is also a plus. In the future, it would be good to pay more attention to improving the quality of nonsense.

If you are not good to yourself, it means that you are strict with yourself. I hope to relax and be kind to myself in the future. Be sure to see your strengths and strengths. We don't have so many shortcomings. There are as many advantages as there are disadvantages. There are always more advantages than disadvantages. Yes.

If you don't treat your loved ones well, I have to criticize you. Be grateful for your children. Be filial.

But you are young, you have time to correct it in time, and be kind to your parents. The years they spend with you are numbered. Be cherished.

Inferiority? It doesn't have to be like this. Low self-esteem and not giving money.

Let's not want it. Conceited? Low self-esteem and conceit are a common contradiction.

There is as much conceit as there is inferiority. Be good at making good use of the ingredients that are beneficial to you. Build confidence in yourself while remaining humble and low-key.

The combination of the two is perfect.

In the end, I found out that you don't have many shortcomings. It's pretty good. Within normal acceptable ranges. Okay, be in a good mood and go play.

Suddenly I feel that ** is wrong: I know that I have a lot of shortcomings, if you can't stand it, I hope you can reflect on it, why others can bear you can't bear it. ​

1. The disadvantage is that I am not very good at refusing others, and my colleagues ask me for help, and they all take it, which sometimes affects their own work progress. This is a statement of disadvantages. I have also reflected on this issue and will arrange the priorities of my work.

The solution is to show the colleague who asks for help what they are doing and give them an estimate of when they can help, so that they can decide for themselves whether or not to ask for help, without affecting the relationship with their colleagues and increasing their own productivity. The advantages brought out are: active work and enthusiasm.

2. The disadvantage is that sometimes I care too much about the feelings of others, and I dare not express different opinions directly, because I feel that it will make the other party lose face, and I am also trying to improve my communication skills and learn to express my views tactfully. He talked about the shortcomings and the solutions he thought of, and incidentally said the advantages: taking care of other people's feelings and being good at empathy.

A lot of people point out your shortcomings.

You should certainly thank them.

Because the person who can talk about your shortcomings is your true friend.

I really don't think there's any need for hypocrisy! Actually, I was wrong, not all people are as simple as I think! There are always so many reasons why you have to disguise yourself.

What "people are in Jianghu Station, and they can't help themselves!" "That's it. How can I say that?

Sometimes I feel that people like this are really not simple, not easy, really hard, and really selfish! But people are not saints, they are all flesh and blood, and they are all living people. So sometimes think about whether there is a reason not to be hypocritical!

Even think that only hypocrisy is called truth! This is really a contradiction and not a contradiction. A hypocritical person does not want to do certain things in his heart, but if these things are good or not harmful to him, he will not hesitate to do them.

Hypocritical people obviously don't like or even dislike someone, but in order to please others, in order to get more people's support, or for their own interests, they will say things against their will, and so on. In a word, hypocritical people always wear a mask to face those around them, whether they are relatives or enemies, friends or enemies.

Wish. Compared to others, their teachers are top-notch and experienced.

This does need to register for a class, you look at the Haihu Chi infiltration foreign practice network, this is still very good!

In modern society, life is fast-paced and stressful, and sometimes it is inevitable to feel depressed, but there are still very few people who are truly misanthropic.

No, this kind of thinking is just a temporary freshness, there is no need to insist, it is not good to go with the flow, or put your energy on learning, maybe you will have a good work unit in the future, and the people you know may be better with more.

There are always a lot of unpleasant things in life, so it is important to maintain a happy attitude and learn self-regulation.

You can tell her properly! You see for yourself ...

Wish. It's not that you forgot, or your popularity is so bad.

Why do you care about this, it's just a party, it's not called you, you don't go unexpectedly?

Some friends are not working the surface at this point.

Halo, do you think this is the right choice for you?

The life of a rich person is not necessarily good!

There are really few men who are successful in their careers and successful in marriage!

Think about why!

Good luck!