How absurd is the idea of a ridiculous marriage among young people?

I think flash marriage, in order not to divorce for children, married women should be married at home and teach children are all absurd marriage concepts, and some of the marriage concepts of the older generation have also been handed down, which is really ridiculous.

The most ridiculous thing is that you can get together and get married if you talk about it, and you can divorce at any time if there is a conflict.

They feel that marriage is as long as the two of them get married at that time, they will be married, it is not that no marriage is a lifelong thing, and they will feel that there is no time limit for loving someone, if they can choose to get married or not love him at that time, they can choose to divorce immediately.

Nowadays, most young people think that it is enough for two people to love each other, flash marriage, and they don't consider that marriage is a matter of two families at all, and when they are really married, they find that there are too many contradictions.

Nowadays, many young people like to get married and divorce in a flash, which is really irresponsible to themselves and their families, and there are many people who are married, pregnant, and divorced, which is irresponsible at all.

Flash marriage and divorce, get married if you feel right, divorce if you don't feel it, or that sentence, there is no most ridiculous, only more ridiculous.

There is no ridiculous concept of marriage, the concept of marriage is a matter of two people, as long as two people feel right, they can freely fall in love or even get married.

The absurd view of marriage is that there is no concept of marriage, and when you feel right about each other, you get married. However, after getting married, you will find that many people will have disagreements.

Young people nowadays have very little concept of marriage, and they do not understand that marriage is a very important thing. Maybe it's because the times are developing and the concept is different.

In today's society, the marriage rate is getting lower and lower, and many young people are reluctant to get married, start a family, or raise children. Because starting a family will face all kinds of trivial things, raising a child can be especially stressful. In this society now, the cost of raising a small child will be very much, not only to feed them, but also to give them high-quality education, so many young people are willing to be single.

This way of dealing with marriage is a bit extreme, and we can't stop getting married and raising children because of the pressure of starting a family and the difficulty of raising children. You can't get married without any concept of marriage. And the right way should be that we should seriously think about our marriage, what is our motivation for starting a family, why do we want to get married?

After thinking about this question, we can clarify our view of marriage in the state. In order to be able to treat marriage correctly, we will not get married in a daze, and we will not give up marriage because of pressure.

Some people say that getting married and having children is a very common thing, and it is something that everyone must experience in this society. Everyone should have their own family and have their own children. We should all experience the feeling of being a lover and a parent, because there are too many hardships in life, and we must set up a family to unite with each other in order to better cope with this society.

In fact, it is not the case, some people can face the problems of life alone. And they are happy to live happily, and surely for these people, getting married and having children is not something that must be experienced.

So what exactly is the meaning of marriage? He should be our concern for our lover, and the first love is between ourselves and our lover, because this love prompts both parties to want to be together all the time, because of love, so they want to start a family by themselves and want to raise a child. And marriage is a ritual for them to start a family, and this sense of ritual will make their love happier.

I think this is the real meaning of marriage, because we have love in our hearts, we want to start a family with our lovers, and we want to spend our lives with each other. We want to work together, support together, and get through the ups and downs together in the days to come, which is the true meaning of a marriage. Marriage and childbirth represent the continuation of the family incense, although many people do not care about this problem now, but the older generation still attaches great importance to the issue of having children, and the marriage of Songwu can make the family prosperous and strong, passed on from generation to generation.

There will inevitably be difficulties along the way in life, and having a partner to accompany you and bear with you can alleviate the worries caused by these difficulties and make people's lives more warm. At the same time, having someone around you to accompany you and take care of you in old age can make your later life happier!

There are some inequalities in the traditional view of marriage and family. For example, the Three Principles and Five Constants. These are all unequal.

Advocate the equality of husband and wife, and the equality of men and women in the modern family. But it is still the man who will be mainly responsible for earning money. Women are responsible for the rest of the household chores.

With the improvement of women's status, women also hope that they can contribute to society and realize their social value. This leads to a lot of conflicts in the family.

There are also some young people who like to work hard and are eager to get something for nothing, and do not have a correct family outlook.

I don't know when people started to think that marriage was a necessity to now there is nothing without marriage. And more and more chicken soup about going to die alone is circulating in the major circle of friends. It is said that love has never been a necessity, in fact, you can live a very good life by yourself.

So has the marriage of modern young people really undergone great changes, and marriage is no longer a necessity in life?

Actually, I think this change in concept is a kind of progress in the concept of the times. In the past, people thought that marriage was a necessity, so when they reached a certain age, even if they didn't meet someone they liked, they had to find someone to marry, even if they didn't like this person, or even hated this person, they had to marry this person, because the concept at that time was like this, and many people suffered from it, and they had to endure it even if they weren't happy.

Although people always say we have to learn to wait, that we love. Someone who also loves us will appear one day. But as we get older, we will know that such a person has met the blessing that is estimated to have been cultivated in several lifetimes in the previous lifeIt's actually normal not to meet them, in fact, very few people can meet people who they like and like themselves.

Since you haven't met someone who likes you and who you like, why get married?

Is it for the sake of succession? In order to have the next generation? This reason is difficult to convince. So in fact, this change in concept is also a kind of progress of the times.

Let people nowadays not have to live so depressed, don't always live in other people's opinions, or think more about their own happiness, but how this society views marriage, and what we should care more about is how we look at love.

With the rapid development of modern society and the gradual improvement of people's living standards, many people's views on marriage will have some changes, so is marriage a necessity in life?

I think it depends on the individual's thoughts and circumstances. With the development of the economy and the improvement of people's living standards, many people are reluctant to get married. One is because he can support himself, he has no burden on his family, and the whole family is not hungry when he is fed.

And modern life is getting richer and richer, and for many people, the result is a burden, so some people are reluctant to get married.

In fact, marriage also depends on the individual, if a person feels that marriage is a burden, then it is okay not to get married, after all, he can support himself. However, not getting married will also face some problems, such as urging parents and relatives and friends to marry. Moreover, when I see my peers showing affection and love, and my colleagues and friends have families, I will feel out of place.

In addition, when I am old, my peers have children to accompany and take care of, and I am alone, and the feeling of loneliness can be imagined.

Although marriage is not a necessity in life, if I have not experienced the happiness of starting a family, I think it will be a big regret in life.

I'm young, but I still think it's a necessity.

I always feel that people must have a partner in their lives, otherwise this life will be really boring. I think the great change in the concept of marriage is not about whether to get married, but how to live after marriage, such as the relationship between husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, relatives, and concubines.

Mr. Qian Zhongshu once wrote in his book: Marriage is a besieged city, people in the city want to go out, and people outside the city want to come in. For the vast majority of people, marriage is still a necessity in life, which can be seen from the fact that many friends are urged to marry by their parents and seven aunts and eight aunts every time they go home, and they think that life without marriage is incomplete.

However, with the development of the times, many people now have a different understanding of marriage, and more and more people are beginning to be less anxious to get married or not to marry.

Marriage is supposed to be an upgraded version of love, but in real life there are too many people who get married just for the sake of getting married. My friends are married, my parents are constantly urging, I am old, and I want to have children. These may be the reasons why they enter into marriage, but they have lost the most necessary feelings for marriage.

In fact, there are many couples around us who do not have a common language, and they seem to share the same bed, but in fact they look like they are separated. For them, marriage has become a burden, and two people who have nothing to say are far more lonely and sad together than alone. Many people get married just because of tradition and the pressure of their parents, and how many people have walked into the bottomless abyss of marriages that have completed the task.

Marriage should be an attitude towards life, not a necessity, as long as it is in a comfortable state, it doesn't matter if you get married or not, whether you have children or not. I hope that everyone's marriage is the icing on the cake of life, not a burden.

Modern young people are under a lot of pressure to get married, and many people are not married in their thirties, if it were not for their parents forcing them to get married. It is estimated that fewer people are married.

It could have been easy to live alone. After getting married and starting a family, there are a series of things that require a lot of financial ability.

So many people would rather be single than get married.

The requirements for the opposite sex are too high, so that the right one is not found. There are not a few such people.

So marriage is no longer a necessity in life.

Hope it helps, thanks.