What if you meet such a woman?

Hello landlord, I was deeply touched by your story. I've been in a similar situation to you, but the only difference is that I'm the heroine in my story. So I hope my words will help you.

I once fell in love with a man who was 7 years older than me, he was almost 30 years old at that time, and he was very anxious to let him get married, but because he was very poor, and he didn't have a relatively stable job, he was just a part-time worker, so my parents didn't say it, but they have always been worried about this in their hearts, but my family is very democratic, and my parents can see that we really love each other, so they don't say against it, they only treat us with a blessed attitude. Now it's crucial to mention what "I" had in mind, because I believe that my thoughts are similar to what your girlfriend thinks now. Especially when she is under pressure from home to be with you, it shows that she still loves you, but I have to admit one thing frankly for all girls:

Girls in this society are very vain, you ask yourself, if you are a girl, don't you want to marry well? But girls like us, since we fall in love with someone who can't give us food and clothing, we also admit it, because there are some things in this world that should be more important than material things, that is, feelings, real feelings! And we will be confident in the future, feeling that our poverty is only temporary, and that we will soon be able to live the life we want, so what we are anxious about now is not to get married, but to see your ......Look at your performance.

See if you are self-motivated, to see if you will let us down; We always shirk getting married now because we also want to save face, and we don't want our relatives and friends, most importantly, our parents to look at our marriage with anxiety (because you know, people who lack money in this society are insecure in many aspects, so I won't go into details); It's not because we're uncertain about our love for you, and it's not that we don't want to drink you get married! Men should not suspect or complain at this time, but should seize the time to work hard and make money desperately, so that we can be together as soon as possible! (It's bitter, isn't it?)

No way, we also feel sorry for you, but the situation is serious, what a man should bear must be borne, this is all for our love and our future, you are a man, and you are destined to put in more effort) You think about it, if she doesn't love you, she doesn't need to waste time on you at all. Believe in him, believe in yourself, don't be a coward in life, I bless you!

Love is based on material things, and it is not a matter of consideration. Every woman is most afraid of turning family affection into love, and you should understand her. Parents are the most common phenomenon now, if she doesn't love you, she won't wait for you to have a financial foundation, this is not a scheming.

If both of you truly love each other, don't care about these external objective reasons and should strive to be together.

I'm a woman.

You are really calculating! ~

Start a family before starting a business, that's your own opinion! ~

Why don't you start a business and start a family first?

Maybe it's because it's easy to start a family and it's hard to start a business?

Or what's going on?

Since this girl didn't say it now, she didn't want to be with you because she thought you had no money.

It's just that I don't want to get married yet.

I still have feelings for you! ~

If I didn't love you, I guess I would have left early.

We won't give each other a chance like we do now.

Can't you even be considerate? And those words.

Who my parents don't want their daughter to marry well?

This society is very realistic now. Don't talk about true love. If you have money, even if you are an old man, there will still be beautiful women chasing you. So now you don't think about getting married, you have to think about your own income. Got it? + Let's work hard with oil.

I'm also a girl, my condition for having a boyfriend is to have a certain economic foundation, which is normal, if he can't even support me, what will happen to his life in the future, and her family will not rest assured that their daughter will be handed over to you.

Today's society is really realistic, I used to be happy together when I was in love, but now I find that the economic aspect of men is very important, you try to find a job

Of course, who wants their daughter to find a poor bastard?