My girlfriend is leaving the city and may not come back, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-02-26
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    So young.

    You can't get it back.

    Don't stand in the way of anyone's cause.

    If you love her.

    Then you follow her.

    If you can't.

    Then don't force people to stay.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    She loves you and will naturally stay

    Don't be too sad if she's gone

    Better a finger off than always aching.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Alas, there is no basis for anything, how can it be redeemed?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's rare to find someone so stupid.

    If you don't come back, you don't want to be ssake.

    What else do you want?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Your girlfriend is reluctant to come to your city, you have bought a house and a car there, and the conditions are much stronger than those in her hometown, if she insists on not going, you have a good chat with her about the future, see if you can give in to her, if both parties can't give in, then you will only have the result of breaking up.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If your girlfriend doesn't come to your city, there is everything in your city, so you can't come together, because the ideas are different, the choices are not the same, you have to choose the person you like again, and you can't lose your job, and your job house is in the city where you work, and he doesn't want to, your city, the two of you can't be together, only choose a new person you like.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Get on the bus first and then buy a ticket, and if you have a child, you say that in the city the child can get a better education, and he will go with you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is a saying that if the mountain does not come, I will pass. The three views of the two of you are very different, and the situation is not good if it goes on like this. The best case scenario is that you like the hustle and bustle of a big city, and you find a girlfriend who also likes the bustle of a big city.

    Or your girlfriend likes the quiet, comfortable, and slow-paced comfortable life of a small village and town, and also finds a boyfriend who also likes the rural life, so that everyone has the same three views, and both of them will have a good time. However, it is clear that the two of you have a disagreement now, and it is a big disagreement, this is a habit of life, and if you are together in the future, it will affect the problem for decades, and it is very difficult to reconcile.

    You are in a big city, you have a car, a house and a deposit, the conditions are very good, now there can be a few young people who can have these at a young age, even if there is, there is a lot of pressure to pay it back, but you don't, if you want, there will definitely be a group of people around you who are willing to marry you and also like to stay in the big city. The pace of a big city is fast, maybe you grew up in a big city since you were a child and you are used to not feeling it, or maybe you yearn for this kind of life, and now you get it and are satisfied, but others may not think so. In big cities, every day is either locked up at home, neighbors never contact each other, boxy cement pillars lock people up, usually can't see nature, can't breathe fresh air, can't see the blue sky and white clouds, some are just busy crowds, bustling, everyone is running for life, expressionless, and there is no emotion between people.

    But the countryside is different, there is a big place, everyone lives in a big house, there is a yard, a wide field of vision, there is a pastoral, there is no silk and bamboo, there is no case of labor, the moss marks are green, and the grass is green. There is a lot of talk and laughter, and there is no white ding. The neighbors meet each other every day, the whole village is very familiar with each other, everyone has a very good relationship, the pace of life is also very slow, every day the blue sky and white clouds, there is no pressure, eat every day, and then walk around.

    Whether it's a big city or a small village or town, there is no good or bad, the key is to see which one you like, now either you can let your girlfriend come to the big city, with the big city and the small village and town do not have to keep him, such as a better way to entertain, eat, drink and have fun, or you can give up everything for him, two people return to the mountains and forests, of course, at present, it seems that neither of you is willing to change yourself to accommodate each other, so there is no solution, it is impossible to be reasonable, didn't he also tell you, It's not like you haven't listened to her.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    A man has a career to have a woman, and long-distance relationships are fragile ......

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Those who love you will not leave you, and the ancients married chickens with chickens.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Maybe I'm looking for a new love. Bro, you may have been greened.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    How realistic it is for people to go to tea and cool down, and they have to make sense if they can't figure it out.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First, you see if she really loves you, second, you see why she has a chance to develop, third, why you don't have a chance, and fourth, discuss with your parents, the old people are experienced.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you really love him, go with her, if he loves you too.

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