I was broken up after three years of love, and I was in a very bad mood and very uncomfortable

I guess I was exactly the same as you some time ago.

I slowly discovered that in fact, no one can live without anyone.

On the contrary, I feel very relaxed.

I think habits and likes are very similar.

Who can guarantee that you will meet the right person at the right time in the future, and you will still be able to let go of the past.

Anyway, let's be happy.

There is a very vulgar saying, but it is very classic (perhaps because of the classics): I don't care about the eternity, I only care about what I once had.

I never believe in forever, true love exists, but there is no eternity, and it may be a matter of time before I separate.

Remember to let go of unwillingness, let go of sadness, let go of the past, and let yourself live better than in the past.

Forget. A heartache ...

In the end, forgetting the past is deceiving yourself and others, and as long as you have a little bit of something that can be related to the past, you can't forget the past. Don't run away, it's useless to regret ... Isn't there a saying that says?

You may meet someone in 1 second, fall in love with someone in 1 day, but forget someone in a lifetime... That's love!

Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, let everything tend to be flat, what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think, as time goes by, it will slowly fade away... Instead of trying to forget, it is better to keep yourself busy, to make your life full, and to let yourself have no time to miss. Don't deliberately forget, if you deliberately will only make yourself remember more ...

Try to expand your circle of friends and contact as many people as possibleTry to discover your hobbies and do something you enjoy to play an empathetic role. I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of TA again, your heart will no longer ache, and it turns out that before you know it, TA has become "that person".

Thanks, because I'm not married yet.

1.When we talked about the third year, I went to college because of the distance and couldn't see each other every day, and I felt that the relationship was not so deep for a while, in fact, I was not mature enough to adapt to the changes in the surrounding environment, and there were many things in school, so it seemed that love was not a necessity. But after quarrels and quarrels, I found out that it is still love, and it is inseparable.

Maybe you are serious about falling in love, but after a long time, the phenylethylamine secretion that affects love is exhausted, or at this time, the boy feels that your relationship is stable, and you should devote your mind to other academic careers, ignoring the management of this relationship.

So you can bring it up and have a good talk with him, provided that he is a person with a stable heart, and you are going to get married.

2.Although the time to talk is not short, it does not prevent you from meeting a scumbag, this subject will judge it himself, don't be disgusted with the routine, you should divide it. It's just a small episode in the long river of life, and the future will be even more exciting.

I think the breakup is not the result you want, which pair of lovers will be willing to give up their other half, but in your case, maybe you pay more attention to or filial piety to your family, after all, there is only one parent, you may be reluctant to leave your parents, and you gave up your boyfriend is also a decision made after careful consideration, as the saying goes, family blood is thicker than water, it is an indisputable fact, and the love between men and women is cultivated, no matter what will have a more important side, In love, there is no one who is right or wrong, and no one owes anyone, as long as two people have loved each other, remember each other's good, since you have made a choice, you have to face it bravely, and you must be sad at first, but time is the most effective healing prescription, and over time it should fade and not be sad. I hope you can be happy.

Supplementary question: Since he said so, you will gladly accept the reality, sometimes you really have to take it and let it go, but I also know that it is easier said than done, but if you don't try, how will you know if you can forget this relationship, love will only make you love, hurt, and hurt, you will become stronger, and after the breakup, you will know how to develop another relationship, you will be more sure and more confident, and it is best not to think too much about breaking up with him during this period, Try to make yourself busy at work or live a fulfilling life, if you can't do it, you can go out to travel and relax, let yourself relax, or let everything go with the flow as if nothing happened, this earth will not stop because of him, and someone will not lose someone will not work.

You're past the stage of first love, and love and marriage are two different things. Judging by what you mean, the man's family really doesn't take you seriously. It's a pity that you're older too, but now it's not like in the past, and you're much older.

So, you and him, it's better to be cautious. I haven't got the certificate yet, it's too late, and if I regret it after getting the certificate, it will be even more uncomfortable in the future.

It is indeed unsettling to break a relationship, but it is still worth it whether the current uneasiness is used in exchange for a peaceful and prosperous world in the future. Personally, I think there's nothing to remember, and he didn't treat you well, which girl is not spoiled in the arms of her boyfriend and husband now.

It's really not worth it for you.

In other words, don't be angry, the landlord's temper is indeed a little bad.

1. The matter of the attic. The attic was bought by other people's parents, even if it is used to make your new house, it is also the intention of other people's parents. Say something, this is a gift from someone, don't be too late!

Is there such a thing? You can only choose two options, the first is to refuse and thank you for your kindness; Second, accept and thank you for your kindness.

2. Your boyfriend said that, it really shouldn't be, but I don't know why he said that, was it angry when you were arguing? Angry words don't count!

3. Negotiate marriage. Whoever comes and who goes is the same, but I don't understand why you're angry about letting your parents stay in a hotel? Aren't everyone staying in hotels now, it's clean and convenient, and it's convenient for your family to whisper, I think it's good, why are you angry?

In fact, your parents also felt that you were too sensitive, so they gave you a beating, and your mother still found someone to reconcile, but you still don't know what's going on!

4. The next thing must be that your boyfriend and your boyfriend's parents think you are too troublesome, so they are dissatisfied with you.

In this world, there is not only this one man, many girls around me are 30 soon, and even more than 30, but people are neither humble nor arrogant, they do not marry for the sake of marriage, please believe in yourself, you have to be confident, you have to live beautifully, one day you meet him, let him regret it, he made excuses back then, but gave up such a good you!

It shows that you really care about her! But it's not long. Maybe in a year or two, it won't be that good.

You can't get married for the sake of age, so what's the matter if you're 30, you can't just wronged yourself for the rest of your life! I don't feel like a good person, I'm always embarrassed for you when I get married, and my life is sad! Can it be harmonious? It hurts to think about it!

It's sad to break up with your boyfriend and can't let go, in fact, you are still a little unwilling to let go of yourself at that time, maybe part of the reason is because you are unwilling, just like a house that you have built for a long time, and suddenly it is burned down, and you return to the original place, you know that it is a house, the house you once managed with your heart, but he is no longer the same as it was, but you still can't let go of you who was managed with your heart at that time. It's not that you can't let go of your ex-boyfriend, it's that you can't give up on yourself.

It's like my ex-boyfriend, when I was with him at the time, I wrote down each of the two of us from the first day to the hundredth day, and then made a photo album, just like the movie the two of us watched in **, ate in **, and kept all the movie ticket invoices. It wasn't until later that he split our legs and we broke up, I said to him, I guess I won't do it for others in my life, because I don't have the mood I had at the beginning, I was very sad at the time, I felt that I would never treat a person like him in the future, I thought about him when I went to the cafeteria to eat, and when I ate an egg, I thought of the scene where he peeled eggs for me in the cafeteria, and I would cry when I thought about it, because the two of us are from the same school, So every corner of the school may have our footprints, each is a memory, I thought I liked him very much, I thought he was my heart knot, but then I found that I just refused to let go of myself, and I didn't want to forget myself at that time.

I always feel that when people don't particularly like someone, love them very much, and can't do without them, whoever leaves this world can live, and the earth will continue to turn when anyone leaves. All the so-called I like and love very much, it is because I am on time in my heart, and it is not that I really can't do without him.

So instead of doing this, it is better to think carefully about whether you really can't leave him, whether it is really your heart knot, everything that can leave is not your own in the end, and you can't get rid of it if you really belong to yourself. Why torture yourself so much every day, but let yourself go, you can divert your attention, communicate more with friends, play more with them, and maybe you will find that the so-called heart knots are all untied. Or you can go out on a trip, and I personally feel that all the knots may be that you have been too idle recently and have nothing to do, so think about others every day, and don't keep yourself busy, find more things to do, so that maybe you won't be so sad.

You can talk to your girlfriend appropriately about the knot that you can't untie, and think about it carefully, shouldn't we love ourselves? Why bother with those irrelevant people, and let him become a knot in your heart, everything will pass, and tomorrow's life will be better. Come on, meet the new life with a new state, live hard and study hard, there are many things worth caring about.

This is a common lovelorn syndrome, everyone is about to die after falling out of love, but after a long time, who is who's who, everyone is just a hurried passerby in each other's life journey.

I seem to be able to see a trace of helplessness in your question, maybe it was raised by your ex, what you can't get is always in turmoil, and those who are favored have no fear, I seem to understand your feelings, although I can't fully empathize.

At the beginning of this year, I received a college class president who had not been in contact for a long time, he told me that he broke up with my roommate, to be exact, the roommate broke up with him, he and my roommate began to fall in love in their freshman year, I still remember that at that time, the whole class helped the class leader chase my roommate, and we also made a grand courtship ceremony, everyone held flowers in their hands, and the class leader confessed in the middle, so they were together until they graduated from college, my roommate was admitted to graduate school, and the class leader followed her roommate to find a job where she studied, It's a pity that they broke up after half a year. The class leader has been persevering, hoping to recover his roommate, but the roommate finally found another boy. In the end, the squad leader had no choice but to give up.

It's good now.

Telling you this story, I just want to say that many things can't be forced, it's yours after all, it's yours, it's not yours, you can't ask for it, and if one of the two people has no feelings, then it's not interesting to be together, after all, you have to spend a long time. I know that three years of relationship is not easy, are living day by day, you have laughed, sad, played together, three years is enough for one person's life to penetrate into another person's life, can not be reduced, it seems that you can think of your past at all times, because there are too many memories, there are too many once, memories are the most abrasive, I know that it is difficult to give up and forget, but you have to believe that time is the antidote.

Give yourself a vacation, take a trip, go out and see people and places you haven't seen before.

It's already broken up, and there's no way to be sad, and then mediate your mentality to meet the next generation's relationship.