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Sister, I used to do the same, but now the older and younger people in our department listen to me.
Why do you fail to handle interpersonal relationships? To sum up, emotional intelligence is relatively low, but it doesn't matter, it can be improved. Look at how the popular ones speak, what to say, what not to say, and how to say it.
The popular point is to "get clear and know the head". There is a process in this, about a year or so, you will find that you have improved compared to before, remember to be with more people who are more capable than yourself, and you will really improve.
In addition, I recommend books, such as Liu Yong's "I Didn't Teach You to Deceive" and "Speak to the Heart" and so on. Some of the more summarizing sources I've read myself include "6 Short Stories to Teach You to Be a Man" and "28 Principles of Likability". Give a link.
There is it in the irrigation area, if you really don't know how to deal with it, you can also send me a letter in the station, and I will teach you. Hehe, I also grew up like you, and I believe that you will grow over time. Come on!
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I'm about your age.
I think first of all, you have to learn to express yourself (not to show off, of course) and actively participate in various activities so that people can get to know and understand you.
Improve academic performance. A good student has good grades, and if you have good grades, many people want to have a good relationship with you.
Communicate with people. Usually talk to any person, and you will add an extra impression point in the eyes of others. (Of course, eloquence is good).
There are many other ways to explore it on your own!
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When you're with friends, don't talk too much, keep a low profile, don't interject in everything, don't show off, help your classmates do what you can, and don't agree easily to what you can't do.
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Between people, it is nothing more than respect, trust.
One night, before going to bed, think about how you're doing today.
You'll have to work on the other details.
Trust you to do it!
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I don't know what kind of interpersonal relationship you are talking about, interpersonal relationship is a very complex thing, very knowledgeable, not a sentence or two sentences can be said clearly, but you can come little by little, first of all, to be yourself, don't let others say bad things about you, usually pay attention to the way you speak, don't say bad things about others, do your own things, little by little to explore experience, in order to understand.
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First of all, classify interpersonal relationships and see what aspects of interpersonal relationships you need to do well! Then make a detailed analysis of each type of interpersonal relationship to make yourself aware of it! And make a plan accordingly!
Execute again! Under normal circumstances, it is necessary to find a breakthrough in work, life, hobbies, etc., so that you can get twice the result with half the effort! If you have a hammer in the east and a stick in the west, it is also possible to succeed, but the effect is not good!
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Take the initiative to communicate with people, and don't be afraid of suffering losses and losing losses! Thick-skinned, everyone loves face, gives face to others, and others naturally respect people. But neither humble nor arrogant.
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Prescribe the right medicine and do what it likes. This means that who you want to deal with, you must first know what hobbies and interests the other person has. In this way, there is a common topic in the conversation, and the conversation will not be dead.
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To be realistic, it's sleek.
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It also depends on who it is with, how to answer such a general question? Even if you answer, it's not very specific, and you have different attitudes towards different people.
Hehe, it's really nothing.
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