The wound of first love, I can t face it, what should I do 25

It's normal, it's quite hard to forget someone, so there's no need for you to forget about him, hide her in the deepest part of your mind, and slowly start a new life! A person is just a part of your life, she is not all of yours, believe in loving him and support his choice, don't hurt him, hurt yourself! Let's start a new life.

Che said it so painfully, isn't it just a big robb?

And your girlfriend has also put up with you for many years, and finally she can't stand the hurt you have done to her and will leave you.

She gave you the opportunity to change your ways, and you didn't cherish it.

Don't read two of Qiong Yao's lines for no reason to beg for forgiveness. (Look at what you wrote, I think you are a person who speaks better than you sing, and I despise this the most, you can call you Brother Qiong Yao) Make some down-to-earth changes to impress her to have such a 1% possibility.

Scolding and scolding, I hope you can really change and make up for what you owe her.

Cherish it, know that you have shortcomings, you should know to correct them, and adapting to each other's requirements is also a kind of love.

Hum... Responsible man???

Where do you feel that you are a responsible man, at best, it is just age and body to reach a man.

Small heart, don't know how to cherish, flowery, no sense of responsibility, lie... After the breakup, you still blame her for being too ruthless, how can you not think about what is wrong with you, if you are a good man, women will not leave you.

Not worth pitiing.

Give it up. Since she doesn't love you anymore. Besides, she's about to get married.

Love is not the only thing in life.

1.Get to know each other well before falling in love for the first time, after all, the word first love still sounds very beautiful. Although I personally don't think there's anything very special about first love.

2.The first love must be the person you like, if you are together because of touching, sympathy or other factors, believe me Sakura, you are likely to break up. If you find that you don't like it at all after being together, or you are together because of something else, then make it clear.

Don't start by mistake. Better a finger off than always aching.

3.Try not to regret your first love as much as possible, and treat the other spine well. Your significant other may be your marriage partner, and if you really like him, then be together. From first love to marriage, it may be a very happy thing.

4.Don't give the first time to the other party easily, maybe because I am conservative in my thinking, and I always feel that the first time this kind of thing has to be reserved for sale and get married later, or the marriage is almost decided. In case your marriage partner is more mindful of this kind of thing, it may have a psychological impact at that time.

Although I may be conservative, there is one thing I must say, protect yourself.

Because you have loved, you will not become an enemy; Because I have been hurt, I won't be friends; It can only be the most familiar strangers. Love has been known, drunk has been drunk. The memories of love should be well collected, but the happiness in the future should be found separately.

Love is a feeling, not love is also a feeling, and it is often difficult to decide whether the feeling in the heart is love or not.

What you hold in your hands is not necessarily what you really have; What you have is not necessarily what you really inscribe in your heart.

There are many times in life when you need to consciously give up, because when you have, you may be losing, and when you give up, you may be regaining. Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach.

For those who don't love themselves, what is most needed is understanding, renunciation, and blessing. Too much self-inflicted affection is begging for alms. Loving and being loved are all things that make people happy. Don't let this turn into pain.

Now that you've been through it, years later, it's a good memory to think about it once in a while. Live more confidently, be happier, leave the most beautiful smile to the person who hurts you the most, and smart people know that they want to be happy. Cherish the people you love and the people who love you.

Attachment to feelings is not a bad thing; However, you should know when to change!

The feelings of the student days were very sincere and unforgettable, but that was just that year, and in the end, everyone had to return to their own world, in their most suitable place, and live happily. The best love for her is not to bother her. So forget each other, and forget about that period of student life.

Being able to forget, to be able to give up, is also a kind of happiness.

Sometimes you can't be too willful, let your own feelings come, and be strict with yourself at the right time.

There is also a feeling that can explain you is because you never got it, in fact, if you think about it, what a wonderful memory!

For you who are cranky.

1.Don't make any decisions when you're in tears, and talk as little as possible when you're in a negative mood.

2.Don't think about the same question over and over again, don't put all your feelings on one person, you have your parents, you have other friends.

3.Don't be afraid to do something wrong, even if you are wrong, don't be upset, life is right and wrong, not to mention that there are many things, looking back, right and wrong no longer matter.

4.It's normal to have negative emotions, but you must know that this is only a small part of life, and try to calm down your emotions for the rest of the time.

5.It's normal that person suddenly doesn't contact you; It's normal for that person to contact you again all of a sudden, and that doesn't mean anything.

6.If you don't understand, say it, and if you do, don't say it, just smile.

7.All the troubles are self-inflicted, so you can only solve them by yourself, don't cry with your friends, and ask them to play.

8.What has been said must be done, even if it is very stupid, no matter how stupid it is, it is better than not believing it.

9.No matter what happens, don't break the original rules of life, eat and sleep on time.

10.Don't be afraid to do something, don't be afraid to touch the situation, don't be afraid to say the wrong thing, don't be afraid to think of the past, don't be afraid to face the future.

11.Whether it's right or wrong, you need a guideline that your behavior should follow and constantly revise according to real life. It is impossible for a person who is indecisive to be likable, and a person who hovers between right and wrong is not as positive as a person who goes from wrong to right.

12.When he said, "Let's calm down for a while, shall we?" ", to say yes calmly, and then hang up**. Don't plead, he's not here to ask for your opinion.

13.Don't take out all the words from the bottom of your heart, these are the treasures that belong only to you.

14.Don't talk to a person about people in the same circle as him, no matter how reliable you think they are.

15.When you don't know what to say to him, then don't say anything, silence has infinite meanings.

16.Don't pursue any result, everyone has the same result, which is death.

17.Don't regret it, don't regret it anyway, regret is more terrible than what you did wrong, because it destroys your self-confidence, self-esteem and is very likely to cause you to do something more wrong.

Think outside that little box and think about it, everything is not a problem. Have fun.

Don't imprison yourself. Whoever started the trouble should end it.. A new relationship, don't think of her, be happy...

Over time, you will forget his 1. Divert attention. Many studies in psychology have proven that rejecting bad emotions will only make him stronger and eventually consume us.

Do a little test: "For the next ten seconds, don't think about the pink elephant, don't think about it." ”

We can't get that pink elephant out of our brains anyway, and we can't forget when we try to forget, and it doesn't take effort to really forget, it's like forgetting where the key is. Besides, you don't have a reason to be nostalgic.

2。Simple life. Think of two of your favorite tunes and listen to them together, it's absolutely noiseless, do one thing at a time, and focus on it when you start a new relationship, so that you will feel happy.

3。It's not important to find it in **, but you have to have the determination and courage to grasp love, and don't let fate slip away.

Do whatever you want, after all, feelings can't be sloppy ......Be responsible for yourself and others!! Don't worry about your family later in order to cope with ......it nowLife has never been easier!

Like you, but I'm a girl, I can't forget my first love, it's beautiful and innocent, if you can't forget it, keep it forever If you can't be with the person you love, be with someone who loves you Time is the best medicine, but find someone who really knows and loves you, come on.

Reopen the heart door. You can't forget the past because you are still living in the past life with her. Only by letting go of the past can we make a new beginning.

From now on, I don't pay attention to her, I pay attention to her. Find a new partner and feel her beauty with your heart. As long as you look for it carefully, you can find one, whether it is a classmate or a colleague.

Feel it with your heart.

Calm down and wait, time can heal everything, and waiting for time will bring a partner who truly loves you and deserves your love. The feeling of first love is like the first rays of sunshine in the morning, so pure, sacred, and beautiful, but don't give up the bright daylight of the whole day because the first rays of sunshine should be gone.

She's married and has children, I don't know you like her, you're really, there's nothing you can't confess, the worst result is just rejection, and you can't die, I'm in college now, but if I like it, I will definitely say it, because I had this regret when I was in high school, I didn't say it at the time, and now I'm back to her, I just want to be friends with her. But if I encounter such a problem in the future, I will definitely chase it.

From my personal point of view.

She should be your first love! Everyone will be reluctant to fall in love with their first love! This kind of mentality is normal!

You should think of it this way: everyone is married! What if you confess to him again! Will he follow you?

Even if it's with you. Does your family agree that everyone has children? Even if your family agrees!

But what about socially?? It's too stressful, forget it! Look for it again Think more about his shortcomings and forget about her.

Even if you can't forget it, don't be so attached to him! Well, that's all I can say! Think for yourself!!

It's hard to say, I can't forget my first love, sometimes I think of him with a sour feeling, 10 years, I haven't heard anything about her, now we don't necessarily know each other face to face, but I plant her in my heart, should be willing to plant a good thing for her, my life will not change for these changes, but will be nostalgic, I hope you are just nostalgic and don't give up the life you should have.

Hey, in fact, I'm the same as you, I can't forget it, but mine is my first love, and yours is a secret love, which is very different, so in fact, to be exact, you Kenben haven't even talked about love, you better go to someone to talk to, and then publish, I'm much more depressed than you, I've talked about several, and I haven't come out, who do I talk to to complain about, or drink a bar when I think about it.

You don't give yourself a chance, there is no high or low in this matter, you have to pursue happiness by yourself.

Or do you want to find one you like? Or something? He's married, and you still like him? It may just be a feeling, called regret ... Believe in yourself and fall in love again, because there are still women you like, believe in yourself.

You have imprisoned yourself, you can go to see a psychiatrist, or you can go out for a walk, and tell yourself that you have to come out, maybe you can foresee someone in a foreign land who makes your heart move!

Your situation is similar to mine.

I suggest you go to her and get to know her again, and I believe that your dedication will understand.

What you are nostalgic for is actually the memory, not the person in the memory, and the memory is always too sad.

And we have been living today and tomorrow.

Actually, you're a crush at best, do you really know her? Everything in the world is a good thing that you can't get.

If you try to make friends of the opposite sex on your own, you will find that you are very fickle.

If you really want to have a girlfriend, then spend a lot of time.

You have to learn to go with the flow and forget, you also want to get rid of this emotion quickly, and it's hard to forget, love is such a thing!

You're going to like someone else, and try to make yourself fall in love with another her.

I once said that I loved you, and I still love you today. It's just that I love you, but I can't be with you. As he loved the fire of the wilderness, he loved her, but he could not bring her back.

Every relationship is beautiful, and every journey is also intoxicating. It is the regret that we can't have that makes us feel more sewn;It is the sleepless thoughts in the middle of the night that make us feel more nostalgic. Feelings are a questionnaire without answers, and painstaking pursuit does not make life more fulfilling.

Maybe a little regret, a little sadness, will make this answer more timeless and longer.

Pack up your mood and keep walking, miss the flowers, you will reap the rain;Miss her, I just met you. Keep walking, and you'll end up reaping your beauty.

A person who never wants to lose you may not be someone who loves you, may not be loyal to you, and sometimes it is just this kind of strong possessiveness with a clear head, they will do all kinds of things that "damage others and disgrace themselves", and it is so natural.

In my heart, if there is a bias and persistence of "once you have it, you will never lose it", the more you want to get the permanent guarantee of love, you will only deviate more and more.