Who holds the financial power between couples of the same age? Married people please come in

It is a very unsuccessful strategy to control your husband's heart by controlling her financial power, and if a man wants to be careful, he will come up with all kinds of ways to make you unable to prevent it. The starting point of your economic power is to control your husband's heart, and this starting point is wrong in the first place. If your husband guesses what you think, he will be more reluctant and even disgusted.

As a husband and wife, the economic planning of the family needs to be agreed upon by both people, and then the two of them will abide by it and work together. After marriage, if you are in urgent need of a deposit or have a large amount of expenses waiting for you, you can set a more mandatory plan according to the income and expenses of the two of you, such as setting how much you must save each month, and then the rest will be used as monthly expenses. If the economy is more relaxed after marriage and there is no big expenditure in the short term, you can be relatively casual, you can AA system, you can also put the income together, who needs to use whom, calculate the accounts in a month, see which expenses account for a large proportion, and you can also know what is in your mind.

The remainder is used as savings. In short, no matter which method is used, the two must discuss with each other and agree with each other, and never force the other party with selfish intentions.

There is no such thing as who should be in charge, but who is suitable for managing money.

My family's money is all in my hands, to be honest, I don't bother to take care of it, but he doesn't bother to take care of it, and he is busier than me, so he doesn't have the time to calculate these trivial things, but the money is public, and he can take the money from me at any time, there is no fixed amount. Why bother with money so much? However, all of our family's income and expenditure will be accounted for, so that we can see at a glance where the money spent is being spent.

Besides, it's useless to care about money, some women don't want money, and there are those who post money! The key is to see if his heart is with you, not who will take care of the money. For those who want to spend all day drinking outside, the more they care about him, the more annoying they become, but they like to make trouble.

This kind of thing, let it be. Every family has a different way of managing their finances.

A man still has to have a certain amount of economic freedom, you can take half of his monthly salary and it's OK, don't take it all away, in that case, no matter who you are, you will be unhappy.

Space is a must, but not all, you have to talk to him.

It's not okay for a man to have no money outside, and it's relatively okay to keep some for him.

What the third floor said is very practical, it is not a matter of money or not that men have money to spend their hearts, and they will still spend their hearts if they have no money, so money is not a problem

Then it depends on which of you two will manage money, my family's money will be handed over to my husband, and I can rest assured, if I don't have it for two days, it's up to you, if you don't worry, you can talk to your husband.

It's not good to control all his money. The key is to see what he thinks.

Some men will be willing to give all their money to their wives. But some men are unwilling.

It's good to leave him a few hundred a month. Don't take it all, but you still have to take care of it.

Different people have different ways to deal with it, and it all depends on the situation.

Why is it that between husband and wife, it is generally the wife who is in charge of the "economic power"?

It's good to have a core person, who can bear it when there is something at home, and now girls generally master the economy.

See who can manage a little money, and let whoever is in charge of the economy.

Depending on the wisdom of the people, men may not necessarily be in charge, and women may not be able to manage money

In any case, it is better to have only one person in charge, and two people in charge of the house are chaotic.

As long as you think about your family wholeheartedly, whoever cares is the same, and I personally think that it is better for women to be careful or for women to manage money.

No one will be in charge, there is a family in their hearts, they have a burden on their shoulders, they have responsibilities, they will live a good life, they can live a good life, anyone can be it, not who must listen to whom, two people live and discuss. More empathy, home is not so easy to be, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar tea, the old 83 small dignitaries. You have to take care of what you eat, drink, and Lazar.

Are you still rushing to be it?

As long as both parties trust each other, understand each other, and tolerate each other, everyone is in charge.

The couple always listens to the opinion of whoever is in charge, and who is more able to control the spending and manage the economy.

The two of them discuss big things, and make their own decisions about small things, and men become bad when they are rich, this sentence has a certain truth, of course, some people have good self-control, so, manage money, you can manage most of it yourself, you can't oppress men too much, you know, there is no resistance without exploitation, everything must be done to a degree, don't be too ruthless.

Of course, whoever will make money has the final say.

In fact, when living together, it doesn't matter who takes care of the house, what matters is who can manage money and who can behave and do things.

Women are housekeepers, and the economy should be democratic.

If you have the opportunity to compete for money and have no capital, then you still have economic power to manage.

The female protagonist, the male caress the woman, and the woman will run the house, and there are some important two people to discuss, and the man can see the problem more thoroughly.

The wife is the best in charge of the house, and the woman is careful.

It depends on who is careful, has the ability to plan as a whole, and cares more about the family. When it comes to spending a lot of money, the two discuss that it is the best.

This cannot be said to be a reason, it should be said that trust, and that husband and wife should rely on each other and not be independent.

Anyone can be it, the key is to be transparent. There can be no selfishness.

It's a matter of people. Personally, I think it's better for a woman to be in charge. Men are generous and do not consider the problems of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

Whoever needs it will take it, and if there is something to discuss together, what else is in control.

Whoever has the ability to manage money is in charge, (generally women) must have a clear consumption plan, such as fixed consumption will not change every month, and there is accidental consumption, dinner invitations, wedding gifts for friends or something.

Anyone can take care of it, this has to be negotiated between the two of you, to see who can control the money better, the main thing is not to spend money indiscriminately, as for spending money, you can do what you can, a total of 8,000 income can not spend 10,000.

You don't have to worry too much about the rest, otherwise living too poor will also affect the relationship between husband and wife.

The one that suits one's own family economic management is the best, and anyone can manage it, as long as it is the common goal of family harmony, life coordination, and a happy life. Don't say anything about it"Economic power", It's friendly negotiation of expenses, and the person in charge of money is not talking to himself, maybe it's just a cashier, hehe, I'm a cashier, the responsibility is heavy, and it's very hard, and I have to consider the daily expenses, hehe.

To be honest, I feel very tired of managing money, and when I manage money and watch the money on the card is less and not growing, I feel very bad in my heart, and I envy and at the same time want women to manage money and be the masters of the house. I want to be a little man.

Give it to the person who runs the house, let him manage the family's assets well, do some investment and financial management, and achieve steady wealth appreciation.

After marriage, it should be in the hands of the wife, because the average woman knows how to manage money.