Is it possible for a divorced woman with children to find happiness?

After reading your post, I really don't know what to say. I'm afraid only you know how bitter your heart is!

I think your husband is a bit out of real life, although he has ideals and ambitions, but he is not realistic at all, and now even the basic life is a mess, and he is not responsible for you and his children!

You are 29 years old, you still have a child, and the child is still young, it will be really difficult for you to divorce, so it is recommended that you enlighten your husband well, let him live a practical life, and there is nothing wrong with pursuing a career, but you must also be down-to-earth, what major did he study abroad? Why not continue with this major? Ran to learn what anime design, and all the books I read before were wasted!

And he may not have a good way out if he learns anime design!

Husbands and wives should not live separately in the first place, as a wife, you should talk to him well!

I think if he doesn't change his attitude towards life, it's not interesting for you to follow him, and getting a divorce as soon as possible is also a relief, and the children are brought by the man's family, so your life after divorce can be better. (Maybe I shouldn't say that, but life is cruel, and it's very difficult for you to remarry with a child.) ）

In fact, none of us can give you advice on such a big thing, so you'd better go home and discuss it with your parents to see what they think! Ask your own heart!

ps；I don't agree with what I said upstairs, I don't think you're selfish, it's your husband who is selfish, and he doesn't have a sense of responsibility at all!

One more thing, you don't give up your job easily, otherwise, if you really get divorced and you don't even have a financial income, then your life will be really sad! Leave yourself a way back!

Happiness is earned by oneself, and women with children will certainly find their own happiness, believe in themselves, believe in fate, and please believe in us men ("Who said that we men don't like divorced women with children, we are not so feudal").

You should support him, although he has been unstable and has his reasons, but do you think about who he is working so hard for? for your home. Did you support him from the beginning?

I didn't seem to have seen the relevant meaning after reading it, you took a fancy to him at the time because he was a returnee and married him, and you never supported him, so I think even if you divorce again, you and your husband will not be too happy!

Hey, he's a guy who's been fighting for his family, for your home, and if you leave him, maybe his goal will be over.

If you don't have to worry about food and housing, support him.

I don't know where you are, this is the path you have chosen, you should support him and encourage him, a successful man must be supported by a successful woman, maybe he is a late bloomer. If you can't settle the marriage as soon as possible.

How can you divorce because of this, you are so selfish!

I think divorced women can find their own happiness even if they have children, as long as you are good enough, then you can also attract excellent boys, don't look down on yourself too humble.

Happiness can be found because a woman will meet someone who truly loves her and does not mind everything about her.

Of course, happiness can be found, I think there is no difference between a divorced woman with children and an ordinary woman, to be a confident woman, so that you can meet your true love.

Happiness can be found. This is because everyone has the right to happiness, and they should adjust their mentality and state, constantly improve their abilities, and make themselves better, so that they can also attract many excellent people, and they will definitely find happiness.