How likely is it that parents emotional patterns will be repeated in their children?

I don't think so, many children hate their parents' emotional patterns. To be honest, our parents were in the seventies and eighties, and although they had sincere love at that time, most of them got married on blind dates. After marriage, many people live not happily, and they are going to live this life soon.

My parents' lives, without love, I think they also had a miserable life. My mom never left my dad because of me. If my marriage and love are going to repeat their path in the future, then I would rather have a lifetime than such a marriage.

My father had a bad temper and lost his temper a lot, and sometimes I didn't do anything wrong, and I had to find something to do.

Everyone should have their own different feelings and marriages, even our own parents, we can't repeat the path they have taken.

Most people will be affected by the original family, but this cannot be said to be absolute, it can only be said that if the parents have emotional problems, or divorced families, due to the influence of the parents' education methods and family environment, it is very likely to affect the children's view of marriage when they grow up, because it is easy to continue the concept of parents if they do not deal with this kind of problem.

And parents with good feelings, at least give their children a healthy and good living environment, children who grow up in this environment will have self-confidence, will also believe in love, with parents as an example, they will definitely handle it better in terms of feelings, and it will be easier to re-establish a happy marriage, children are learning and imitating their parents when they are young, and family relationships are still very important for children's growth.

There is a 90% chance that a parent's emotional pattern will be repeated in the child. Even higher. Why? The emotional relationship between parents will subtly affect children.

The child will observe the way his parents get along with each other day after day, year after year, and then portray it in his young mental map. It wasn't intentional for him, nor was it forced on him by his parents. Once formed, it's basically hard to change, and it's almost a spell.

Happy childhood**life, unfortunate people, all life**childhood. "That's the truth. Parents are also first-time parents, many people's behavior patterns and psychological maturity levels are different, and getting along with their partners is naturally in the run-in and friction, constantly revising and finding a balance, and then living peacefully with them.

Although some husbands and wives have been together for a lifetime, they spend their lives in noise and mutual accusations, and there is no so-called spiritual fit, mutual respect and love, and respect for each other as guests. Such a relationship will of course affect children's fear of marriage, and when they become adults, they often don't know how to get along with their other half, and they will unconsciously repeat their parents' patterns, which is why many young people now look at their original family when choosing their other half.

When you choose your other half, observe the way his parents get along, which is basically the way you get along after marriage. Before you got married, you were very much in love, and many small shortcomings can be brushed aside, but after marriage, what you face is firewood, rice, oil and salt, trivial things, basically more than 90% will continue the model of his parents. Because your other half has watched them get along like this since childhood, and they will imitate it unconsciously, because this subconscious has long been ingrained and there is no way to correct it.

But there are no absolutes in everything, and I hope that everyone who has a heart will meet a good person and spend a happy life together.

This possibility is still quite large, children have been around their parents since childhood, and their thoughts are easily affected.

This is not useful at all, people are always different.

My parents-in-law have a very good relationship, and they have been through ups and downs for decades, but my brother-in-law's marriage has only lasted less than two years.

I don't think it's likely that parents' emotional patterns will be repeated in their children.

At least the probability of my parents' emotional patterns repeating themselves in me is almost zero.

The emotional pattern is not large, but the emotional impact will still be somewhat.

This depends on the personality genes, and each family is different in the end.

It's hard to predict. The feelings of the parents are not the same as the feelings of modern times.

Hello, I think it's because parents and elders often don't understand the type of child prefers. Parents and those close relatives who care about us and love us always think that they know their children very well, know what they need, what kind of partner they like, in fact, they go to find a partner for their children according to their own preferences, in other words, what they think their children like.

But in fact, when children become adults, their communication with their parents and relatives begins to be stylized, that is, they are very close on the surface, live together, and seem to see each other often, but they rarely communicate effectively. The words are simple communication in daily life, the kind of thought communication that is deep and touches the soul, and it seems difficult to achieve with parents and relatives.

First of all, there is a generation gap between the two generations, different values, and different views on many things.

Therefore, it is difficult for young people to open their hearts to these elders, and their true thoughts will not be confided in them. Because they don't understand it, they are likely to interfere in their own lives. Therefore, parents and elders are always wishful thinking about their children, and they think about it with their own ideas.

The same is true for emotional matters. And this kind of speculation is often inconsistent with the child's real thoughts and actual needs.

Many times, parents will feel that they have taken some detours and stepped on some pits emotionally when they are young, and they don't want their children to fall into them.

It is precisely because he was young that he had those wrong thoughts and wanted to help his children correct them in time, so he is likely to follow his current age of thinking about feelings, and feel that what kind of person is more suitable for marriage and life, to shoehorn into his children, and also hope that his children will fully accept his emotional values.

Good luck.

With his own life experience and values, he subjectively believes that his children will live a better life.