Trouble one thing, trouble people, trouble things

What is Trouble?

When your behavior causes inconvenience to others, you are causing trouble to others.

When you put someone in a dilemma, you're adding trouble to them.

These troubles in life are inevitable. Some people will choose to refuse directly when they encounter trouble, cut off the trouble, and reduce their troubles. Some people will choose to compromise when they encounter trouble, accept the trouble, and wronged themselves.

Of course, there are also people who politely refuse, anyway, it is all troublesome to refuse, but it takes more words than direct refusal.

It cannot be said that one choice is absolutely right or wrong. It's understandable to refuse, but it's understandable to accept, after all, there aren't many people who know how to say no reasonably. However, the original problem of this trouble is not the person who is forced to accept or reject it.

It's the ones who make trouble.

Some people always take it for granted to trouble others, but in their hearts they don't feel that they are bothering others, but think that this is what others should do. He didn't understand that it was necessary and obligatory for no one to do anything for him. It's just that others are willing or not.

Therefore, when you reject him, he may still think that you are a very bad person.

Some people are looking for faults, to put it bluntly, they just want to rectify you, they just want to trouble you on purpose. And what she wants to find fault with is often those who don't know how to refuse, the one who compromises. Because she knows that if others don't want to do this, you will definitely be willing, because you are embarrassed to refuse.

So, sometimes learning to say no is not necessarily a bad thing, you learn to say it once, maybe the object of finding fault in the future will no longer be you.

There is another kind of person, who is troublesome to others, and they do not realize that it has caused inconvenience to others. Such a person can only be said to have no heart, he is not thoughtful when he encounters problems, and he is unconscious when he is troubled by the dry oak banquet. In the same way, you must learn to say no to them.

He won't bother you anymore when he understands it.

In life, learn to trouble people less, and learn to solve what you can solve as much as possible. When you are in trouble, learn to look at people, look at things, if people are worthy, if you can settle things, you can choose to do it. Otherwise, resolutely don't wronged yourself when you should refuse.

"Smack! "Smack! "Smack! "Beautiful fireworks splashed in the sky, yellow, red, green ......The sound of firecrackers was deafening, and the "crackling" sound of firecrackers brought a disappointing and troublesome thing.

On Chinese New Year's Eve, our family closed the door to rest, returned home, parked the car on a path between the two houses, and then stopped for a day to stay at home to eat, drink and have fun, until the first day of the new year, the car "moved", because there was no time to start the car, the car in these two or three days, the worst - the sound of firecrackers, the sound of firecrackers used up the car's electricity. You probably don't know what that means, do you? It's here, the sound of firecrackers is very loud, and the car is affected by the sound of firecrackers, and it has been all the time of the day, "Tick!

Tick! Tick! "There is no electricity, so it can't be started, and a certain amount of electricity is also needed to start, and if there is no electricity, it can't be started.

What to do? Looking for help with the maintenance of the marine car, I called a **, the people from the ocean came, and charged the car with the battery, but what was even more depressing was that the battery of the ocean was out of power, hey! I happened to run into my father's good friend, and my good friend was also from an auto repair company, and there happened to be a battery in the car, so I escaped.

No way! It's half past eleven" Mom looked at her phone and screamed in surprise, and the three of us had just started to drive towards Grandma's house.

Ay! The troubles in the New Year are really disappointing, depressed, and troublesome!

The trouble around me is that I can't find the good man around me, and I don't believe I don't have that luck. I just feel like I haven't found a way yet. These are digressions, but I still want to tell you that you should find out on your own, because you found out for yourself.

Only then can I have a deep experience, and what I invent is more emotional.

good luck

This question is more vague, but there are a lot of troublesome things in life, as long as you classify them, separate the important things from the unimportant, separate the more urgent from the non-urgent, separate the big things from the small things, and the one that is important to you, you deal with that thing first, and then you will have a clue about the troublesome things.

In fact, there will be some trivial things in everyone's life, you can use them as a spice in life, if there are only major events related to life and death in life, you will feel a lot of pressure, but there are some small things that can make you relax your nerves. You don't have to work these little things, you can solve them with a little brain, and sometimes there are unexpected gains. So, don't think of them as annoying, it's more fun to do them for fun.

Can anything be invented? Then my trouble is. A lot, such as the Internet can not find the starring information of a Disney movie, etcHehe.

If you're feeling irritable, let me give you the following advice

1.Participate in more activities, actively communicate with others, and play games and chat with others.

2.Listen to some very pleasant**, pleasant** can also make yourself happy, **happy and happy movies, find a close friend to relieve your emotions.

3.Talk about your confusion and go to an open place to shout, so that you can get mental relaxation, you can also read some books that cultivate your temperament, or immerse yourself in the soothing world of **.

4.We must cherish everything in front of us and live each day happily. We should adjust our mentality, establish a positive and optimistic mind, and strive to discover and enjoy good things in life.

In your free time, you can relax and not push yourself too hard, and try to avoid too many negative thoughts.

5.And a good way to make yourself feel relaxed is to communicate with people more, your friends can solve problems for you, if you have no friends or few friends, then you can make more friends, but pay attention to make good friends and get along with people with good character.

Remember, be kind to yourself, and may you be safe, happy, and happy for the rest of your life.

When you get into trouble, you solve it. There is no obstacle that cannot be overcome, and there will always be more ways than difficulties.

Before you arrived at the company, the vice president promised to give 500 things, you should do it according to the same thing You jumped out now and said no, and put the reimbursement form in front of so many people, saying that, although this is for the sake of the company, but it is clearly a slap in the face of the vice president.

Now that the vice president has asked you to deal with it properly, he has expressed his dissatisfaction with you, and the solution is to ask the cleaner to make a reimbursement form and report to him.

Dizzy! You've just joined the job, and you still have to ask someone else such a simple question? You haven't come to work in this company yet, you don't know what happened before and it has nothing to do with you, as long as the vice president agrees, you will push the boat, why bother to offend the vice president.

Even if you are a white-collar worker, you are still a part-time worker, you have to make rules, and wait until you are firmly established.

For this matter, since the vice president has already said it, he can't take it back, and you can't let others say that the vice president doesn't say anything, you just do it according to the vice president, and it can be regarded as giving the vice president a face, and then find a reason to resign the cleaning staff.

Ask him to write a reimbursement form this time, in the workplace, patience is very important. Besides, the gentleman takes revenge, it's not too late for ten years, I'll quit him sooner or later, don't worry, be happy, hehe.

Now you're playing big, you can do things according to the rules every time, no, you didn't leave yourself a way back, you don't know how to be flexible, and you will suffer later.

The time has come to test you, make your own decisions.

The market price is cheaper than that of the cleaner, and it seems that the cleaner wants to make a small profit. And the vice president promised to give five hundred, you don't want to give so much, right? Then you drag him and let him wait slowly. It's not that he won't give it, or that he will find all kinds of reasons to drag it until he compromises.

Stick to your ideas. Take out the reimbursement voucher to verify how much it is worth before giving the money.

Alas, I have to give it, it's a big deal, and I just went to work, so as not to trouble her in the future, find an opportunity to fire her!

Give him 500 yuan, and then find a reason to return him.

To install these things, you need credentials! I don't have credentials, I can't rely on him.

After seeing her, try to avoid her, and if you can't dodge, you will adapt to the specific situation.

You can escape if you don't have to, look at each other head-on, look at each other in person, set in the back, and change your face immediately after the internship.