I m too jealous, and it s always weird to think about the problem, what to do!

Find a psychiatrist to adjust! Inner health is important for your physical health.

I give you some advice, I hope it will be useful, you must first know how to appreciate your own beauty!

Actually, God is fair! No one is perfect, you see them happy, maybe he has a lot of pain that you don't understand that! Let's look at things, don't look at the surface and make ourselves awkward!

We want to live a good life, be happy and happy, and let them be jealous! Enrich your spiritual life, and slowly find yourself happy and optimistic, and have no time to meddle with them! Have fun!

Secretly. See a psychiatrist.

If you can't even do that. No one can help you.

Just look at what you have、You will be very happy.,Short hair is very spiritual.,Accompanied by friends.。。。

In fact, many of them are very simple, such as giving up seats on the bus, which is very simple, but when it comes to educating children, it is a very deep problem. In fact, you only need to understand the most superficial meaning of many things, just like boiling hot and sour noodles, you just need to take it to boiling water and blanch it.

Who doesn't have jealousy, oh, look at how you look at it!

Your mentality is not good, people should have a normal heart, everything has to go with the flow, as the saying goes: "people are better than people, angry people" and then there are your jealousy and troubles are because your possessiveness is too strong, because people's troubles are because you want to get and can't get it, and some things are not what you want to get can get, no pay, no return, so if you first think about how to help others, when others have achievements, you are happy for him, and share his happiness, so that your mind will be very peaceful, You will also be happy, and although there will be jealousy, it will only be the motivation for you to move forward, and everyone will like to be with you, especially the person you like will like you more.

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Ask what to do if a friend breaks up at every turn.

Answer: High school is no longer immature, but it is not mature enough, you will meet lifelong mentors and friends, and you will also be blind and blind to meet remote and gentle people. It doesn't matter, it's all your experience, and time will make you see who is worth it. Cherish your high school years.

Ask what to do if you are isolated at school.

Answer keep your own principles, don't always think that you are inferior to others. If you look closely, you'll see that everyone isn't perfect, and you can try to solve problems the way they approach them. Take care of everything and take good care of yourself, even if you are isolated.

Spend more time and energy on more meaningful things and maintain a good mood every day. Be sincere to those who have helped us, chat with family and friends, and let family and friendship make up for the gap.

Finally, there is a quote for you, hoping that you can get some strength from it: "You are great! Just be yourself! ”

I don't think you should deliberately change yourself, because the more you call consciousness to the east, the more westward it is, and people do have plasticity, but the result of deliberately getting is that it is more difficult to change the original self.

The key is in the dead of night, you can ask yourself, why you don't want others to be proud, why you are so jealous of everything about others, on the surface it is jealousy, in essence I think you are running away from everything in the outside world, maybe family, maybe some events, make you become too self-centered, there is a general state in psychology called "I can, you can't", and now you are in this state.

You can think about it carefully, what they get, what they have, is there an inevitable connection with you, you ask yourself, is it that after they are not good, they can be strong, obviously not, this also reflects your inferiority complex to some extent.

About the way to overcome:

1. You have to find out where you are stronger than others, first establish a psychological advantage, when others surpass us in some aspects, we can consciously think about what we are stronger than the other party, which can make our hearts balanced, if it is difficult for you to find out your strengths, you can boldly ask the people around you, this is nothing.

2, don't deliberately say to yourself, you want to be happy for them or something, but you have to really be able to let go of your heart, the actual person is very small in front of the world, you have time to be angry with others than to appreciate the world, I used to be the same as you, but then I felt that I was just a small ant among hundreds of millions of people, I am nothing.

3, but don't wipe out all jealousy, water can carry a boat can also overturn a boat, moderate jealousy can also bring you infinite motivation, with this motivation, you will not feel that life is very boring, but can face everything with vitality every day.

4. I don't know your current age, maybe after a few years you will feel that the friends around you are just your own passers-by, a few years of a station, to the next station and there will be new friends, so, why care about what they have, they are just passengers around us.

5, life is not only jealousy, there are many things worthy of your attention, people live for a lifetime, it is not easy for everyone, it is better to experience well, enjoy everything around you, this is worth what we do, and you will not regret it in the future.

It's a bit long.,I hope you don't mind.,I'll finish watching it when I have time.,Forget it if you don't have time.。

I think that people with strong jealousy are generally more motivated, and jealousy can be used by us, that is, through its drive, you will continue to become stronger, catch up with others, then you have the capital to make others envious.

And it's important to note that if others are jealous when they hang out, it's really not necessary. You should read more books to enrich your spiritual world and broaden your horizons. We should envy others for their conduct and achievements.

Learn to discover the good in yourself and not feel inferior.

Also, try to praise others, praising others does not mean that you are mediocre.

Hopefully, my advice can really help you.

It is selfish to be jealous of others and to make others jealous of oneself. The jealousy of a group of people indicates that this group of people are of inferior moral character. This group of people is collective karma.

You're not mentally ill. In fact, everyone has jealousy. The key is how you grasp it. In fact, isn't your jealousy of others your envy of others?

In fact, a slight jealousy is the driving force for one's own progress, and only with jealousy can one have a strong heart, and only then will one work hard. However, if there is too much jealousy, there are some negative effects. You will develop hatred for people who are stronger than you, and even cause conflicts, hurting the relationship between friends and others.

So, be good at regulating your mentality. Mastery of goodness.

In fact, in life, you have to face up to the strengths of others. There is no comparison between people. Even twins can have differences due to the different people they come into contact with, the environment.

The so-called 360 lines are the champions. Someone else's strengths, though you don't. But your strengths and advantages, others don't have yet.

Learn to empathize. Therefore, you should look at your own strengths, learn more, and learn from others' strengths. In this way, the talent will be more perfect.

In addition, if you are excellent in some places and others envy you, and you are envied by others, then what is your inner feeling?

The above is my personal experience, I hope it can be helpful to you.

You haven't been to work for a year, so you're a little uncomfortable now.

Don't close your heart, open your heart, and many friends will approach you.

Don't be stingy with saying nice things, sometimes say to your colleagues: "You are exceptionally beautiful today", just one sentence, effortlessly, can make the people around you happy.

Do you think about everything to the extreme? Don't do this, put yourself among friends, communicate with them more, hang out with them, meet new friends, and slowly you will get better.

Don't wonder if you're wrong, you don't have any problems, it's just a stage like this.

I want to ask you, do you have the courage to expose yourself to the sun's rays?

It's not a mental problem, it may be that you haven't been at work for a long time, so you often think about it in your free time. As long as you work and get busy, you won't think so much, women must be jealous, you are not doing well now, you always feel that you are worse than others, so you don't want others to live better than yourself. It's okay, don't think about it so much.

I am rarely jealous of people, usually others are jealous of me, and I have been betrayed by my friends, but what do you get by betraying my friends? Hehe. In these years, no one can think of who will be used in the future, my friend now wants to ask me for help with only one word no, some things I don't want to say clearly, because a person is jealous of what others do, while slandering others is also ruining himself, maybe those things don't mean anything to others, the only thing I'm jealous of is that other people's husbands are more sensible than my husband, hehe Later, I read the book and knew how to regulate him, and he also became well-behaved, jealousy of people is the most terrible, it will make people do some bad things, But because of jealousy, the path of friends is getting narrower and narrower, then the gains outweigh the losses, and try to make yourself feel peaceful, in fact, there is nothing to be jealous of, remember a sentence, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read.

Hello is a good place, maybe others don't have it.

I also wanted to know the answer to this question, because my jealousy is quite big, and there are two kinds of jealousy, one is between relatives and friends, and I thought, I am jealous because I care about that person, and since I care about him, I should trust him! One is the relationship of competition, since I am jealous of someone, I should do better than him, instead of looking at his scenery, so the jealousy is gone, and it is transformed into motivation!

No way, try to think of something not to make yourself jealous, other people's affairs are not your own business, it is important to be yourself, no matter how good others are, they are others', if you don't want to be jealous, only you are stronger than him.

Distraction It's not a good thing to be jealous of others Ask yourself what is jealous of others What do others do better than you See if you can get back to yourself what you are missing, what you are jealous of.

It is better to have time to be jealous than to have time to overcome your own faults.

This is a manifestation of an unbalanced mentality, it should be caused by the family environment, to solve the problem, you have to find the reason, what you are jealous of others, why you are jealous. If you really can't find the reason, then you have to take control of it yourself, which is difficult, but you should be able to do it, because if you ask such a question now, it means that you know that you are not doing it right. Also, most of the good of others is for a reason, no one can get it without hard work, so it is normal for others to get happiness after paying, if you don't know what others have paid, it means that you are shallow.

For example, if a worker earns a lot of money, then he must have paid a lot of physical hardship, and a teacher who is loved by others shows that in addition to his high knowledge and good teaching, he also cares about his students from the bottom of his heart, so that others will truly respect him. And if you are a worker, you feel that others earn more money than you, and when the teacher feels that no one else is popular, then you are not working too much, you are not working illegally, you just deal with students, and you don't care much after teaching, so it is normal for others to be welcome. Therefore, if you encounter anything in the future, you should be calm and find more problems in yourself, and slowly you will become peaceful, and your life will be happier and happier.

First of all, admit that you are self-motivated, people who are not self-motivated are not jealous, you can look at your jealousy from a different angle, where others are better than you, you will work hard to learn, become your own strengths, so that jealousy will be transformed into motivation. One day you will also become the object of envy of others. Come on.

People have to learn to appreciate themselves. Don't be jealous, because it will make you taste the bitter fruit. A little bit of progress every day is fine.

Jealousy is because you focus too much on others, learn to pay attention to yourself, you will find that people really have a variety of forms, you are also unique, always remind yourself that others are a reference to make yourself better, not a bother!

First of all, I can be sure of a few things.

1.You are a smart person, you have a certain awareness, you know to introspect, but your self-control needs to be improved.

2.You are a very suspicious person, and a suspicious person will have superior jealousy.

3.You have indeed been spoiled by your parents to the point where your self-confidence has reached a level of distortion that you may think that you are the so-called truth.

The ruler is long and the inch is short, and a person's five fingers are not the same length ......I don't want to say anything more about that.

As for what you asked how to improve, to be honest, my brother is also difficult.

This is a person's character, which has been cultivated since childhood, and after 16 years, it is impossible to change it all at once, and it takes time.

Maybe something should really happen like the TV series, and you will change it. Of course, brother didn't mean to curse you.

Here, Brother Na will rely on his age, give you a benign suggestion, read more philosophical books, and understand a few more Zen words, whenever you encounter jealousy or someone really saves you, you will repeatedly read some words in your heart to calm your emotions, and in the long run, Brother believes that jealousy should be greatly improved.