I ve been chasing a girl for a long time, and suddenly I stopped chasing, what does she feel?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I haven't chased it for so long.,It means that there is a problem with your method.,The skills of chasing girls still need to be improved.,I remember watching a short video.,It's the winning base of the love field.,Say don't expose your intentions to chase girls.,Can't use chasing.,You have to rely on attraction!

    What women really need is attractive men, not good men. In fact, there are men who can be good to her, and those competitors of yours want to be nice to her, right? If you can't attract a girl, then she will be alienated and indifferent to you, and the key is the attraction skill and the skill of chasing girls.

    Smart men should know to keep a sense of mystery for themselves, even if they are close to that girlfriend, the distance produces beauty, people have aesthetic fatigue, even if they are tired of eating, they will always change their tastes, so don't reveal everything you have to your girlfriend, properly maintain a sense of mystery, you can increase your feelings!

    For example, if you suddenly don't call her for two or three days, send WeChat, then the girl should be in a hurry, why didn't she tie me, when she came to take the initiative to contact you, you said that there was something now, and you hung up after a few sentences, which aroused the girl's interest in you, so it is appropriate to maintain a sense of mystery and help to increase each other's feelings.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you are particularly disgusted, you will be happy, and if you like it a little, you will be disappointed.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When chasing girls, some boys have a serious gambler mentality- This one doesn't work, the next one will raise, and I will play when there is interest to win back. But as a result of BMW.

    Switched to a bicycle and let it sink deeper and deeper and lose everything.

    For a guy, pursuing a girl is more than just the first sight. After the manager has been together for a while, you must know in your heart whether it is necessary to give up on the girl and whether it is necessary to continue to work hard. In the following three cases, I advise you to give up as soon as possible.

    Many boys fail to chase girls, but they refuse to give up. The reason for the repeated entanglement is that they are unwilling.

    I always feel that it is a pity to finally meet a girl I like so much, and give up. If you tried a little harder, wouldn't the results be different?

    It's true that sometimes it's much harder to give up than to persevere. If you encounter the following situations,Immediately abandon the timely stop loss.

    Particularly cold to you, chatting without any emotion.

    Basically, it is normal not to reply to messages, and it is normal to reply to messages slowly.

    Never take the initiative to chat with you, you just look for her perfunctory.

    Refusing your invitation for various reasons means not seeing you.

    Always ask you to send her red envelopes, transfer money, and buy gifts.

    Some boys will make excuses for her," he saidShe's justSlow heat.

    All the slow heat in the world is not liked. When you chase a girl for more than two months and don't see any hope, you can choose to give up. No matter how hard you try, you can't get her heart.

    If you don't like it, you don't like it Don't really use slow heating as an excuse. Two months, whether it's long or not, it's not short, girls know what kind of person you are, it's enough to have a good impression of you.

    Before chasing a girl, you must clearly know what kind of person you are to honor her, otherwise it will be a torment for yourself, especially when you fall deeper and deeper, knowing that there is no result, but you have to turn your back. So be sure to know when to give up.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In the emotion, boys generally pursue girls for a period of half a year, and if Li Sheng can't get the girl's recognition within half a year, he can stop in time. If you go on, you'll be licking a dog.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After three months, you can basically stop chasing girls; Because three months is already a long time, if the girl shows no interest in you, don't continue to chase it, and Sakura avoids the embarrassing situation of Song Fu Zhenming.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you haven't chased a girl for three months, you should stop pursuing. Because girls are very emotional, what you do, she knows very well in her heart, if you are very sleepy and have not been touched by the method for a long time, it is basically hopeless.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There is no need to chase a girl for three months to half a year.

    I think it should be three months to half a year, it's not so easy to chase at first, if the girl looks good, the conditions are good, it's more difficult to chase her, if you fall in love with her, you have to insist on not thanking, buy her some of her favorite food, wear some, care more about her, one day he will feel it.

    If chasing a girl feels that he is particularly tired, and he does not get the due return, and he does not see a little hope, then there is no need to chase anymore in this case, because he may not have any feelings for you, and he may only treat you as a spare tire.

    That's it, look for you when you have a need, and when you are air when there is no demand, then this kind of girl is not worth pursuing.

    So be sure to know your position, and at the same time know your position in the other person's heart, so love should be mutual, not one party will only give and the other party will only enjoy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    On the surface, she is very happy, very relaxed and relieved, but in her heart she suffers from gains and losses, and she thinks a lot, and even begins to notice her existence. This is the root of people's selfishness, obviously they don't like each other, but they take her as their own property as a matter of course, and don't want others to snatch it away.

    There was once a girl who liked me for five years, no matter how cold I was, she always smiled and "pasted upside down". More than once, I slandered her in public, "This girl is so shameless, she said she didn't like her, and she was so stubborn." Although it was a complaint, there was also a sense of showing off in the tone.

    It wasn't until later that she solemnly said that she wouldn't bother me anymore, and I didn't think so at the time, narcissistically thinking that this must be her routine to attract my attention. But who knew that she really never appeared in my life again, even if I met by chance, she just passed by like a stranger. She walked past me without squinting, without the slightest nostalgia, and I couldn't help but look back at her, feeling that she had become different.

    When I have dinner with a friend, I will intentionally or unintentionally ask her what she has been busy with recently and whether she has a new love life. even frequently posted ** in the circle of friends, delusionally trying to attract her attention again. Finally, one day, I couldn't help but take the initiative to talk to her, only to find out that I was blocked.

    I thought about using routines to get close to her again, but in the end I gave up, I really don't like her, and if the girl is tempted and asks to be with me, I will definitely not agree. All the abnormal fluctuations in my heart are just my selfishness, I am used to her presence in my life, and I am not willing to let her leave suddenly after I get used to it.

    Time should be the best healing medicine for us, and in less than half a month, I will begin to get used to the days without her entanglement, and let life get on the right track. And she will also get out of the emotional intelligence of unrequited love in the world without me, start her new life, and meet a good boy who really likes her and is worth her pay. Bless you and bless me, and we will all be happy.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I will be happy for her, because if she chases for a long time, but I don't agree, it means that I really don't like her, so it's useless to hold on for a long time, it's better to let go early.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If a girl who has been chasing me for a long time suddenly tells me that I won't chase him anymore, and I don't like him in the first place, then my heart is very relaxed and I think it's a relief

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    My heart was very broken, because I felt very lost, and the contrast between before and after was a bit too big, and it was really hard to accept.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When someone chases you, there will be a sense of superiority in your heart. After a long time, I'm actually a little used to it, and suddenly I don't chase it, and I will feel a sense of loss in my heart.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There must be a little bit of loss, although I don't want to be with her, but I'm used to his existence, and if he disappears suddenly, he will definitely be lost.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I feel very lost in my heart, because the contrast between the front and back is too great, and I really can't accept it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It may be that the other party feels tired, feels that there is no end, and it is useless to consume the future, if you don't like her, you just don't like it, and you won't like it in the future.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I was very disappointed in my heart, because I would feel that it was because I was not as good as before, so he didn't chase me.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I will feel very lost, especially reluctant to give up the other person, and still want to enjoy the days of being pursued.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I feel that my heart may be more lost in this way, why would he stop chasing me? Does he have a beloved of his own? I'll be cranky anyway.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It should be lost and confused. After all, it is a happy thing for a person to be pursued by another person for a long time, but suddenly this happiness disappears, and it is inevitable that it will be lost.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I felt very lost and reluctant, and I felt an inexplicable sense of guilt, hoping to make up for her, but I couldn't pull it off.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I was surprised, surprised, and felt that I was even more panicked, and in turn I wanted to chase her.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I will be very hesitant and lost in my heart, I will suddenly be unaccustomed, and I don't know that something is wrong with me.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think it's okay, it's all up to your own ability, and if you think you can't catch up, then you can give up. So I think it's okay, but you can see from this aspect that you don't particularly like that girl.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If the girl has been not very reasonable with you for half a month, she is not interested in you. I think it's wiser for you to give up. Because even if you keep going, it's going to be like this. Because girls don't have a crush on you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I like women to chase men, but I want to give up after chasing them.

    Onset time and cause: I think that happiness is in my own hands, and I like women to chase men. But when they are only one step away from happiness, they often give up, and they feel that the boy they are pursuing has many shortcomings and feels that they are not interesting

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    That means he doesn't like you at all! It's impossible not to add yours if I like you. Maybe you're only looking at the superficial phenomenon, but in reality its psychology doesn't want to associate with you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If it's her for you, there's really no feeling. After chasing for half a month, she didn't have any reaction, so she stopped chasing.

    If she has a crush on you and won't ignore you, at least she should give you a reason to wait.

    If you do feel pressured and don't see much hope. Still is.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Actually, there's nothing wrong with this. Let go, it doesn't belong to you. Or to put down a girl that you can't get, this is a wise move. Because there is no point in your stalking.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Since you have already gone and give up because he is not easy to chase, I think it is still a bit of a pity, and you should show your own sincerity. See if he has feelings for you, if it's true that he doesn't like you, I think it's right to give up, but if he also has a crush on you, I think you should keep trying.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you chase a girl and chase for half a month, but you don't feel good about chasing, and you don't want to continue to work hard, I think this situation is still okay, if you don't want to continue to insist, the other party may not have feelings for you, so you will find it difficult to chase, maybe you haven't found someone more suitable for you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I chased a girl for half a month, and I don't feel good to chase, first of all, what is the reason why I can't chase well? Is it because the method is not working right, or if the girl doesn't like herself, if the method is not working right, you should change your strategy and pursue her in the way she likes. If it's a girl who doesn't like herself, then I feel the need to give up.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The boy chases the girl halfway through and doesn't chase it, which proves that the boy either doesn't really like the girl, or the guy has no perseverance and patience. I think you have to persevere, maybe she will be moved by your persistence that day.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    There's nothing good or bad about it, if you feel like you can't see hope. If you want to give up, then give up, this follows your heart, and you can't see hope and can't keep chasing it.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Chased a girl, chased for half a month, and then felt bad to chase, so I didn't chase it, okay? In fact, there is nothing wrong with this, if you are really not suitable, then don't force it, you can't catch up with it, and you don't need to waste your energy and time.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    There's nothing good or bad, it's a pity if you're happy! It's just that you can't catch up, you just give up halfway, it's nothing!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you feel that the pay is not proportional to the return, don't chase it, brother, listen to my advice, don't be a licking dog, turn back as soon as possible.

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