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Whether it is a girl or a boy, if you are the one who pays more in love, once you break up because of the other party's proposal, then you will feel very unwilling, your psychology will be unbalanced, and you will put a hypocritical mask on it when you treat your feelings, and you will always feel that there is really no true love in this world. After all, life is realistic, in fact, you can listen to Fan Weiqi's "I don't love her so much", if you are injured, you must be afraid of pain, so your personality will become very withdrawn, or others can't see it, but when you are alone, you will feel very sad. If you don't see those things clearly, I believe that if there is really true love, you will hurt the people who love you as others hurt you.
In fact, feelings are like that, how can you grow without being hurt? It always takes one or two failed relationships to see a lot of things that cannot be seen. Sometimes it's a good thing to think about it.
Why do you hurt the people around you so much? It's always been like this, do any good girls dare to approach you?
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Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.
Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun... Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude.
Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up. Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...
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The best way to heal is yourself, and I'll tell you how I healed after falling out of love: I love him very much, "Now I say I love him, the word feels like everything is a floating cloud" Originally, we said that we would see my family that day, I thought we could be together there, but I never thought that this day was actually the day we broke up, he left my house without saying anything, I was really sad at the time, I threw my phone into the river in a fit of anger, and after he went back, I called him, He said there was no reason, and I didn't ask him the reason "I knew that asking would make me more sad", between our calls, I didn't cry, just calmly said to him, time will make me forget everything today, but he said: Why don't you cry like others and say that you want me to come back, I told him, I will never do that, because I am a wonderful person, he said after a few minutes of silence, I didn't expect you to be so strong!
Without him, I live happily and happily.
After breaking up with him, I quit my job, I slept at home every day, and I thought about it a lot, and then my brother said that sleeping every day is not a thing, "My brother knows that I was hurt deeply" I'm afraid it's time to wake up, so this sentence woke me up, and then I started looking for a job, and spent all my time at work, not leaving a little time for myself, I told myself that I wouldn't let him look down on myself!
Once time passes, everything is no longer important, I hope you are as strong as me, the injury can only be healed by yourself, don't heal your external injury, and the internal injury still depends on yourself.
It's the first time I've said that's a lot.
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Rest assured, time will heal! Be active, exercise, and read!
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Some depression tendencies, go to see a psychiatrist, my current situation is the same as yours, but I am taking medicine, the psychiatrist I don't trust anymore, I hope you will come out of this emotional swamp as soon as possible, I have lost nothing.
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Get out for a walk, get in with nature, listen to some soothing **, and make yourself comfortable, and I'm doing that.
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Everyone has been in love at one time I almost killed myself Now it's not like nothing Forget the past Think about the future Good memories are sad Do what you love to do.
Time will smooth everything out for you.
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1 and 4 I've had it too, but I can't figure it out now, especially when I broke up, I couldn't sleep every day, so sad. I'm going to teach you to get free, talk to your best friends, go on the Internet and tell them they're going to give you some comfort. There is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower.
If you want to start a little, time will change everything, and it will pass slowly. I'm a man.
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Prove that you love her with action If you talk to her for a long time, I think she should also be hard to forget you.
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There are many people who ask: how can I get out of a broken love quickly?
I'm thinking, if you are a person with real feelings, you shouldn't ask such a question, otherwise your original efforts will be false, because it is fake, so you don't care, of course, you can get rid of it quickly.
Falling out of love is painful in itself, and it will last for a while, how deep the love was at the beginning, how ruthless the repentance is now, pain is a tribute to the once beautiful, and torment is a good medicine on the road to growth!
A person who can quickly ** from the emotion of failure, I don't think she is strong, on the contrary, I will think it is a bit hypocritical! I think those who take advantage of the situation during the breakup of others also think so, of course, only after getting it.
A person who accepts the pursuit of others during the period of broken love thinks that he has a sense of superiority, thinks that such a seamless connection is his own charm, and also regards the other party as an antidote to loneliness! But in fact, he took himself as a prey! The prey, of course, will not be honored by the bridge, but only conquered.
A person who truly respects you and loves you will never take advantage of your weakness when you are at your most vulnerable, take advantage of the fire, and take advantage of others' danger! Because each other is using each other, even after the union, they look down on each other in their hearts, and a crisis of trust arises spontaneously.
How much true does a person who can seamlessly connect love have? How sincere can a person who takes advantage of the situation be?
How many people fall in love because they are lonely, but in the end they are even more lonely because of wrong love? How many people thought that moving would one day turn into heartbeat, but in the end it was still the life of a spare tire?
What kind of lovelorn person is respected?
That is: although it hurts my heart, I will never give in!
What kind of spare tire is more respectable?
That is: even if you love the bone marrow, you will never take advantage of it!
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