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Emotionally speaking, I support you, but intellectually your boyfriend is right, because the business of the unit is not so simple, maybe the unit is unspeakable, your duty is accounting, but you are also your leader's subordinate, so you should obey the leader, some things are only known to the executive, your boyfriend should explain to you in private, don't be depressed.
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Don't bow to the powerful, but be able to bend and stretch.
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I think you're right and wrong. Yes, you are very professional and responsible for your work, which I admire. But the reality is that the real society is so cruel, some people will have some relationships to solve, no way, I look down on that kind of person, so I should look at it, I should take action, and be silent when I should be silent, so be kind to myself.
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Then take yourself a day off and talk about it tomorrow.
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After returning home, you should clean up your boyfriend, and of course, you should learn the art of leadership from your boyfriend.
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1. Get back to your former hobby and regain your fun.
2. Meet different people and expand your social circle.
3. Allocate time reasonably and learn to be self-motivated.
If you gradually start to immerse yourself in your interests, you should pay attention to the reasonable allocation of time, do not delay the original work, and use your interests as a reward after work, so that you can work with full motivation. Of course, if your interest can help you work better, it will be more perfect, for example, if you like to design beautifully, you will make a good-looking PPT at work, and it will be impressive when you report.
4. Learn to coordinate external pressure and internal motivation.
Those who are strong in the ability to work under pressure tend to have a strong internal drive, so they are able to turn external pressure into motivation. However, when the internal drive is insufficient, it is often coerced by external pressure. When you are finally able to pursue a career that interests you, you have to deal with the problems that will greatly reduce the benefits, as well as the pressure from family and friends.
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If you exclude physical and psychological illnesses such as depression, not wanting to do anything can be a form of laziness. Laziness is a psychological boredom. It manifests itself in a variety of forms, including extreme states of laziness and mild melancholy indecision.
Anger, shyness, jealousy, disgust, etc., can cause laziness and prevent people from doing what they want. The laziness of some of the students is highlighted in their daily studies and daily life.
Here are some specific signs of laziness: (1) Not being able to talk pleasantly with relatives or others, even though you would love to. (2) I can't do what I like to do, I don't like to engage in sports, and I'm always in a bad mood.
3) Pondering and meditating all day long and being indifferent to the surroundings.
4) Can't fall asleep due to anxiety, poor sleep.
5) Daily life is extremely disorderly, no requirements, and no hygiene.
6) Often late, skipping school, and not taking it for granted. (7) Unable to concentrate on listening to lectures and completing homework as required, stationery is often not complete.
8) Don't know the purpose of learning, can't take the initiative to think about problems.
In the face of inert behavior, some people are confused and don't realize that it is lazy; Some people pin their hopes on tomorrow and always fantasize about a better future; And many more people want to overcome this behavior, but often don't know how to do it, so they have to get by, day after day.
When studying and working, we must devote ourselves to striving for the most satisfactory results. Whatever the outcome, see the side of your efforts. If the change method is not done well, the explanation is either not familiar with the technology, or some aspect of the learning needs to be improved.
Your solid learning will eventually make you successful.
Work hard like this for a while, and you'll find yourself rarely feeling sorry for doing something.
You will also find that with strong perseverance, optimism, and down-to-earth practice of constantly changing goals from easy to difficult, each of us can do it.
Overcoming laziness, like any kind of bad disease, is a difficult thing. But as long as you are determined to break up with laziness and persevere in actual life and learning, then a bright future belongs to you.
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1: Be aware of the dangers of inertia. If a person does not understand the harm of a thing, how can he consciously reject it?
2: Check what your inertia is doing, analyze the causes, and prescribe the right medicine. 3:
According to the actual ability, make a plan and arrange the time in a scientific and rational manner. If you are too ambitious or too demanding of yourself, you will often lose your confidence because you cannot achieve your plan, and your will will will be weakened and you will develop inertia. 4:
Today's business, today's end. Words must be done, deeds must be fruitful. Don't wait for the Ming Dynasty, everything will come to naught.
Exercise the will. If a person does not have the tenacious spirit to fight against difficulties, without a strong will, he will inevitably find excuses for inertia. We must always check ourselves, urge ourselves, overcome our own inertia and vacillation, and develop a tenacious character that is not afraid of hardships and dangers and does not bow to difficulties.
We must be strict with ourselves in a thorough self-study. Only those who truly understand the value and meaning of life, and regard life as a responsibility, a mission, and a creation, can truly consciously lash out at themselves and overcome inertia.
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Maybe you are in this situation now: you are not interested in work and life! I don't want to go to work, I don't want to talk, I don't want to eat, I don't want to move, I can't sleep!
I used to feel something similar, but it was my disoriented self! Don't want to go to work or work boring this is the instinct of human nature, is a natural inert reaction, all people at work are forced, either life is forced, or family forced, or the leader is forced or even a lover or spouse is forced, if anyone is active, it is full of support, you can check yourself, what is missing, what should be improved, can be targeted.
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1. Go for a walk.
It may be that the whole person who stays at home is lazy, the body is tired, and the spirit is tired, this situation can only be the more you stay, the lazier you are, so go out for a walk, take a walk with friends, move yourself, and slowly correct it.
2. Watch a favorite movie.
This method works very well for me, whenever I am tired, I will go to watch a movie, or inspirational, or fantasy, anyway, it is my favorite genre, so if you are also tired, you can try this method, maybe it will work!
3. Put down your phone.
Many times we are burned out, most of them because we can play with our mobile phones to kill time, but from the facts, mobile phones really make us lose a lot, and the most important thing is that the body will deteriorate, especially the eyes, so put down the mobile phone and seriously experience the days without the mobile phone.
4. Do one thing seriously.
For me, burnout brings me exhaustion, chaos, and distraction, so that I can't do anything well, but when I calm down and do something, the feeling of concentration makes me find myself again, so I do something seriously and find how I felt before.
5. Get together with friends.
The biggest advantage of being in your own world is that you can ignore what is happening outside, and naturally you can deceive yourself. So when you get together with your friends, you will find that everyone is working hard, and the conditions are not good compared to themselves, so what reason is there to burn out?
6. Be presumptuous.
Many times our burnout is caused by the emptiness of the heart, or the loss of hope for the future, instead of being muddy every day, it is better to be presumptuous, chic, to do what you want to do like crazy, leave no regrets, and then return to normal life.
7. Who doesn't want to die while trying to live.
Life is always full of surprises, bringing us never imagined, the truth is that no one's life is easy, and there will always be a burden to move forward. So hit the dead spirit! I've been tired and scattered for a while, I've tasted it, and I know it's uncomfortable, why do I endure it!
Let's move on!
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What do you do when you don't want to do anything? In fact, I personally think that in such a situation, people are more decadent and can't find anything they want to do. I think I should adjust my mood and go out to relax like this.
After a while, look at what exactly you want, and then decide.
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1.Find something you don't have to do with your brain, such as finding a movie or TV series that you've wanted to watch a long time ago, or a game you've always wanted to play but didn't succeed.
2.Traveling, many times I think that I have time to go to that place to play that day, but I have been stranded, so I can use this time to take a trip that I can go.
3.Fitness, for the sake of ** or the interest that used to be also watching the video screen learning, may be because a person has no motivation and finally give up, so seriously sign up, integrate into everyone's learning together to contact people from different environments, and also change the same living atmosphere around you.
4.Set a plan, the busyness of life will always stranded a lot of plans, life begins to change from a plan to a mess, then set a short-term life plan for yourself, do it step by step according to the time, there are planned things to do, and slowly you will know what you should do.
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When you don't want to do anything, it may be that your body is a little tired and your personal mental state is not very good, at this time you can choose to take a break and recharge your body.
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Then go out for a walk, play games, go for a walk, go shopping, go to the park, and see what other people are doing.
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You can choose a proper rest, go out to travel, relax yourself, and constantly expand your horizons.
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Summary. One of the more embarrassing things about going to work is that you just promised your boss that you would do a good job, and when you first joined the company, you said that you would definitely work hard, and then you didn't want to do it after a day, which is very embarrassing at this time, and you are also embarrassed, and he is also embarrassed.
I just didn't want to do it for a day, how to say.
One of the more embarrassing things about going to work is that you just promised your boss that you would do a good job, and when you first entered Kaikai's job, you said that you would work hard, and then you don't want to do it after a day, Qingshi is very embarrassed at this time, you are also embarrassed, and he is also embarrassed.
Be sincere in the face of the leader, don't feel embarrassed, just say it, it's not a big deal. Anyway, you only worked for one day, and you don't need to think about the idea of leadership in the acre. At this time, the leader may persuade you to think again, if you really want to resign, then be firmer, or you can also say that there is something at home, you have to go to the field, and you can't work in the near future, in order not to let the company suffer losses, so you still decide to resign, anyway, just one day, you can also do without salary, and leave directly.
You can refer to it.
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1. Think about your dreams. If you don't have the motivation to do things, then think about our dreams and think about our goals. Motivate yourself and boost your motivation by setting goals for yourself.
2. Listen to ** relax. The pressure of life and work will make us feel physically and mentally exhausted, and feel that there is no motivation, which requires a good rest, relaxation, listening** is a good way to relax, close your eyes and enjoy the relaxation brought by **.
3. Sports and fitness. We can go to sports, we can go to fitness, and enrich our lives. You can relax your body and mind by exercising, you can play ball with friends, and you can run alone. Enjoy the joy of exercise.
4. Let go of what you're doing. When we feel tired and feel unmotivated to do things, then put down the work at hand, stop doing it, sleep and do other things to relax and relax. Let yourself relax, not stress yourself up.
5. Chat with friends. If you don't have motivation and feel bored, then we can go shopping with good friends, watch movies together, and sit and chat together. Talk about life, talk about interesting things in life, and use these ways to relax and get motivated.
6. Don't be cranky. In this way, we will not easily feel pressured and feel idle, maintain an optimistic attitude and learn to regulate our mentality. Only in this way can we live every day calmly, so that we will not be easily affected by the outside world and lose motivation.
At that time, the first thing I did when I opened my eyes every morning was not to brush my teeth and wash my face, and walk downstairs energetically to memorize English or run, but to pick up my mobile phone and open Douyin Weibo until noon, until I was so hungry that I barely walked out of the dormitory to eat.
After eating, I fell asleep and continued to watch dramas, play games, or hang out with friends, until I finished eating and playing in the evening, and I was ready to go to bed at eleven or twelve o'clock, and suddenly looked back on today's day of idleness.
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If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't have to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed when you wake up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, push open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel.
Then indulge yourself for a few days, take a good rest, find something you like to do, such as playing games, watching ** or something, and go crazy at home! Then, tell yourself that you haven't done what you should have done well, that you can't fall, get your mood straight, and start again. Because, you have people you love, and there are people who love you, not for yourself, but also for them, you should cheer up, sometimes people don't just live for themselves.
In this case, you can go on a trip or something, go out for a walk, take a long trip, or sleep with your head bored, be an otaku, and then try to go to work after a while... Or force yourself to go to work to divert your attention, or you can write down what you want to say and vent on a piece of paper and tear it up or something, I hope you can get out of the shadows as soon as possible!
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