What should I do in college, and how can I exercise my abilities?

Social networking is very important for us college students, and it is also a compulsory course for us to go out into society. People who don't know how to socialize often offend others in language and seriously lose their jobs, so we college students must learn to socialize, and the following experience will share with you how we should improve our social skills.

1. Join a club.

In college, we need to communicate with people more, after all, social skills are not our innate skills, they are formed after tomorrow, and practice is the way to test the truth. We can participate in clubs that we are interested in, such as the debate club, where there will be a variety of talents, we can communicate on the topic of interest, the debate club will hold a debate competition every week, which can improve our thinking skills, language organization skills, exercise our communication skills, and improve our social skills.

2. Learn to take the initiative.

Opportunities are not waiting for them, and friends will not be waiting for them, we need to take the initiative to communicate, show our most enthusiastic side, and naturally others will show their enthusiastic side, and naturally become friends. University is a place where we need to be good at discovering and observing, for example, some people can get a perfect score in mathematics, and some people can know a skill, we can take the initiative to communicate with them and develop towards topics that others are interested in. Not only made friends, but also exercised social skills, killing two birds with one stone.

3. Join the Student Council.

The student union is a sacred place, and entering the student union allows you to communicate directly with counselors and directors, teachers at school, and leaders in society, so university is the transition from college students to society. And the people in the student council are very good, learn more about their communication skills and social skills.

Conclusion: Social skills are not something that can be learned in a short period of time, we need to calm down, practice more, even if there will be failures, don't be afraid, and endure more hardships in college, which can be avoided in society. Show your best passion to others.

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1. Social skills. By joining various student work departments and clubs, it is sometimes necessary to solicit sponsorship and enhance your social skills.

2. Adaptability. There are many things going on in the student union, and sometimes you have to test your resilience when you encounter an accident or emergency.

3. Ability to interact with others. There are many people in the student union, and everyone works together, and interaction with each other is indispensable. It depends on your interpersonal skills, and you need to be both honest and careful with others. Speaking must be done in a way that is divided into words.

4. Ability to deal with things. The student union often organizes activities such as large-scale sports meetings, which will test your ability to deal with things.

5. Self-discipline. The student union has strict requirements for all members, such as attendance, dormitory hygiene, academic performance, etc. Therefore, it can exercise students' self-discipline ability.

6. Leadership. In the student union, most of the freshmen are officers, the sophomore has the opportunity to be promoted to the minister and deputy minister of each department, and the juniors and seniors have the opportunity to compete for the position of president and vice president of the student union. If you have the ability to be promoted successfully, you must manage your subordinates well, which requires training your leadership skills.

1. Learn self-discipline.

From primary school to university graduation, we have to go to school for more than ten years, what is the meaning?

I used to think that it was about learning knowledge, but in the last two years, I realized that it is more important to learn self-discipline.

If you learn self-discipline, you will be able to self-lead and educate yourself, and you will definitely be able to learn whatever you want to learn, buy a book, find some information, and you will definitely be able to learn.

This kind of life has infinite possibilities.

Many people are confused, anxious, and have a messy life, not because they are not smart, not because they are incapable, not because they lack opportunities, but because they are not self-disciplined.

Those who are self-disciplined are outstanding, and those who are lazy are out.

2. Develop a core competency.

Should I join a club when I go to college? Do you want to run for class committee? Do you want to participate in various competitions? The answer is: yes.

In the freshman year, I did addition, and I participated as much as I could, but after the sophomore year, I had to do subtraction, and if I could, I would retreat.

To do addition is to try more, gain knowledge, and at the same time find what you are good at and like.

Doing subtraction is to focus on improving one of your abilities and doing the most cost-effective thing, because your time is the most scarce.

So what competencies should be cultivated?

The second principle is to do something that is sustainable, transferable, and compoundable.

3. Reading and writing.

The thing I regret most when I go to college is that I didn't read a lot of books. Therefore, my personality is not sound and my outlook is unstable, which leads to a bad life for a long time.

Reading is the most convenient and cost-effective way to shape the three views.

To see the world, you have to spend money to travel; When you see a cow man, a cow man may not want to see you.

And reading can break through the limitations of time and space, allowing you to see a larger world; Reading is also a dialogue with cattle people and making friends with great people; That's a lot of value.

If you insist on reading three or four hundred books in four years of college, your cognitive breadth and depth will greatly jump, and you will surpass most people.

Moreover, university is also the best time to study, on the one hand, there is enough time, and on the other hand, there is not much external pressure.

Because reading requires enough time, a certain amount of experience, and sufficient practice to truly understand.

And most of us are busy with work and household chores every day in order to survive, and there is not much time at the end of the day to study and ...... quietly

That's how I feel now, I have too little time, so I can only get up early and squeeze in time to read.

Also, reading books is best paired with writing.

The essence of reading is to learn knowledge, and then through the internalization of knowledge, promote our behavior change.

But if you want to internalize knowledge, it is not enough to just read it, the best way is to practice and output.

The process of writing output will force us to think, and it will further help us break through the knowledge blockage and reach the level of integration.

Write at the end. University is not the end, but the beginning of connecting society.

If you look backwards and think from the perspective of life, you will understand that university is the best time to shape and subvert yourself from the inside out.

Caesar said, "I have come, I have seen, I have conquered."

The most important thing in college is to find yourself and define yourself.

When you are determined, when you know where you are going, you will not be confused, your eyes will shine.

Improve self-learning skills.

Everyone is in front of the university, and the teacher will repeat the key content of each lesson again and again during the class. At this time, students' self-learning ability is still relatively weak.

When you enter college, the way teachers teach is completely different from that of high school. The homeroom teacher only sees him once or twice a year, and the teacher leaves after class. A university teacher is more like a guide, and students must learn, explore, and practice independently if they want to acquire knowledge.

Without the supervision of teachers and the ability to solve doubts at any time, college students must ask questions, analyze problems, and solve problems on their own when they study on their own. Self-study is a hard job, and it all depends on self-supervision and self-effort. Therefore, it is necessary for the growth of college students to improve their self-learning ability!

Learn how to draw inferences.

For each knowledge point, you should ask yourself a few more "whys" and whether they are related to other knowledge points. Once you understand the ins and outs of it, get through all the knowledge points, start from the point to the line, and think from the line to the surface, then everyone can draw inferences from other knowledge, and even reach the realm of shouting stupidity to the point of being self-taught. Using known knowledge to analogy and understanding new knowledge, the learning speed is the fastest, and you will learn to draw inferences from one another.

Drawing inferences from one case to another is a kind of analogical thinking, some people are born with better thinking in this area, but through conscious practice, everyone can do it.

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First of all, people with good qualities, universities teach not only knowledge, but also to improve the quality of people, you may hear of a group of aunts scolding the street, but have you heard of a group of college students scolding the street? Therefore, good personal qualities are the first condition. Secondly, have a good self-learning ability.

As a college student, the difference between him and middle school students in learning lies in the ability of self-learning, the education of middle school and primary school is to passively acquire knowledge, while college students are active to absorb knowledge, so self-learning ability is an important ability that college students should have. The third point is the difference in social vision. College students should be people with a better social vision, able to discover and look at some social issues, have their own independent thinking, and put forward their own ideas and opinions, rather than following the trend.

Fourth, a good level of professional skills. If you say you can't learn anything, then what are you doing in college? Is it all about improving literacy?

Literacy also requires the ability to support it! I don't even have some professional skill level to compete with others! These are all parts of the personal summary, and only partial, I believe that contemporary college students will not only lie in these points, the youth is strong, the country is strong, and contemporary college students represent the future of China!

In the eyes of parents, college students are a group of adults who have stepped out of high school and are about to enter a larger social circle. After graduating from university, he transitioned from being a student to a self-supporting adult. Slowly, we began to ask ourselves not to ask our parents for money, how much money to give to our parents every month, what things to buy for the family, etc.

In the eyes of the company, college students are a group of cheap labor, both obedient and easy to use. When fresh graduates start their first job, most of them care about their growth in the workplace. However, other colleagues in the department will not treat you gently because you have just graduated and have no experience.

They will give you all kinds of work content, but they will ask you for results when the task deadline is over. Growing up is powerless most of the time.

In the eyes of the society, college students are fresh blood into the society, and they will use their own ideas to create the world, but often the vast majority of college students only have a one-third of an acre of land in front of them.

In college, college students should focus on cultivating the following abilities:

First, the ability to learn independently. Compared with the group learning and class teacher control mode in high school, in college, there is more freedom, more time, and the teacher mainly plays a guiding role, with less intervention. Therefore, for the study of professional courses and extracurricular knowledge, it is more necessary to cultivate one's self-learning ability and make a reasonable plan for one's own learning.

Second, professional competence.

The major you study in college may be your future job, and it is very important for your future development to learn your major well.

Third, social practice ability. The purpose of learning is to apply what they have learned, and the theory should eventually be tested in practice, and college students should cultivate their social practice ability and transform the theoretical knowledge they have learned into social practice ability.

Fourth, the ability to innovate. Innovation is the soul of national progress and the driving force for the prosperity of the country.

Fifth, interpersonal skills. Treating others with sincerity, respecting others, and establishing good interpersonal relationships are conducive to the development of classmates' relationships and are also very beneficial to one's future development.

Sixth, athletic ability. The cultivation of physical ability is the premise of promoting students' learning and insisting on exercise, so that they can obtain good physical fitness in physical exercise to face life.

In addition, college students should also cultivate the ability to express, defend rights, think critically, self-discipline, etc., and the rich and colorful college life should also be a process of continuous improvement of the comprehensive ability and quality of college students. Hope!

The ability to plan for the first time, from the beginning of college, everyone has more freedom and disposable time, so the ability to plan and control time is very important. We must understand that time is money. We need to know how to allocate time wisely, how to prioritize things, and how to use free time to improve ourselves!

This will provide us with a good help in our future life and work, and have a positive impact on Huai Xianchaisheng!

Second, social skills, and positive skills are indispensable in college! It not only plays a very important role in school, but also in the future, the ability to communicate with people is also very important. Improving your oral expression and communication is essential in college!

Thirdly, emotional control, emotions are very important for our physical and mental health development. Good mood is a good help for our work and study, don't be discouraged when you encounter failure, don't flinch when you encounter difficulties, don't let our emotions go up and down, keep your mood happy so that our life will be better. On the contrary, the mood is very bad, and no matter how good the life is, we will feel that things are not going well with Paisu, and even affect the people around us, which is very bad!

Fourth, the correct choice and self-management ability, we must learn to distinguish between right and wrong, close to Zhu red and close to ink and black! Stay away from those things that are not good for you and make the right choice of lifestyle that suits you. Not bound by others, your own way of life is in your own hands!