My boyfriend is a bit machismo, how do I get along with him?

Updated on society 2024-03-06
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    A bit of machismo in a man may have something to do with the family or the environment in which he lives.

    If your boyfriend loves you enough, what do you have to complain about, people always have some shortcomings, and no one is perfect!

    Therefore, if you love him, you have to accept everything from him, if his machismo is really too serious, you can reveal your thoughts to him through enlightening methods, or talk to him directly face-to-face, and there should be no barriers to mutual love! You shouldn't shy away from anything, there's nothing wrong with saying it directly, as for whether he will change it depends on how he performs in the future and how much he loves you!

    Good luck with that!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This world is composed of men and women, women are an independent individual, she has to participate in social activities with other male colleagues in addition to her own boyfriend, if you say "class reunion, I don't go to the boy reunion", then you close yourself like this, you will break away from your original group and become a subsidiary of your boyfriend, it is very terrible and undesirable.

    Husband and wife should also communicate and discuss, boyfriend and girlfriend should reflect equal and independent femininity, you love him and you can't be his subordinate, communicate with him well, and change this way of getting along.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You have to have your own bottom line and principles. If you don't think it's a problem, you can go along with it, and if you have a dispute, take your time and talk to him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Not all of these manifestations have been confirmed.

    Does your boyfriend love you very much.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First, give him face in front of people, even if you don't want the inside. must satisfy the vanity of others But after others, it's another matter, anyway, he has enough face in front of others, and it's easy to talk when two people are around

    Second, learn to pretend to be weak and coquettish. For example, if you go out to eat with a friend, and your friend asks, go and eat, even if you have the answer in your heart, you have to ask him: What do you say? I listen to you.

    If your boyfriend is useless, then you can speak

    But if he has a goal, and there is no conflict, then you can follow him; If there is a conflict, you pretend to be weak, pretend to be sick, pretend to be uncomfortable, and be coquettish (big men are easy to be indifferent to small women), and let him go to the answer you have in mind. If it doesn't work, then give up and get rid of him

    Third, try not to quarrel. If both of them are stubborn, the quarrel is particularly emotional. Because when no one is allowed to quarrel, it is easy for the war to soar, and when people's minds are hot, it is easy to say a lot of hurtful things. These words, even if they are reconciled in the future, will still become a rift in the relationship.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    How do you define "machismo"? Traditional machismo can be interpreted as a high status for men (husbands) because of great responsibilities, and women (women) have low status because of small responsibilities. This kind of "responsibility" is large, which can be interpreted as the husband (responsibility) to protect his wife, the husband (responsibility) to support his wife, and so on, but in the end, it develops into polygamy, which is very unfair, incorrect, and unadvanced machismo.

    It must be said that polygamy is also a manifestation of the development of machismo to the extreme.

    So, the question is, do you think the size of responsibility for both men and women should be the same?

    Do you pursue a situation of equal status between men and women due to "equality of responsibility"?

    Does your macho boyfriend feel that he has a higher status than you because of his sense of responsibility more than yours? And then play big cards against you?

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Break up and find someone you feel equal in. Unequal relationships can be depressing, and you won't be happy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Objectively speaking, I am a very macho person, but I have changed a lot now. As a person who has come over, my understanding of machismo can be said to be very thorough.

    Generally speaking, machismo should be viewed from two perspectives, one is positive: the person in charge is responsible, and like a man, he can hold up a piece of the sky, provide a sense of security for the family, strive to make the life of his loved one happy, and try his best to solve all the problems encountered. Ambition, courage, courage.

    This is called a big man.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I have never been able to understand the fact that people spend their lives chasing another human being and spending their lives together, maybe I am too interesting to need the company of others, so I wish you to get as much happiness from each other as I give myself happiness.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you are macho, it is better to leave yourself a way back, don't put yourself in it, just stick to your own position! I really can't do it.,Forget it.。。。

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's good to have a fight! If you win, it's feminism. If you can't win, it's machismo! Whoever wins listens to whom!

    Or just keep licking!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First of all, it is necessary to understand the difference between machismo and straight male cancer, and see whether it is the former or the latter, and if it is the latter, it is divided.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you can stand it, you will accept it, and if you can't stand it, you will share it. Don't come out and find answers when you can't stand it - because you ask like this, it already shows that you can't stand it, but you still want to change yourself or your boyfriend, right?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't get along, now that you've come up and asked this question, it means it's hard to solve it on your own. The relationship that needs to be maintained will not last long, find a suitable one for you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Does machismo mean "sense of responsibility, fortitude" or "male superiority and inferiority"? If it's the latter, I don't think you'll be looking for a boyfriend like that. If it's the former, I think that's a good thing, congratulations!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When the two have a disagreement, listen to him. Do not resist ... It's as simple as that.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Look at what type of machismo is good to you, willing to draw money for you, then you can talk to him, it's just machismo, it's not unreasonable, if not, break up.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Little sister, I can't stand to break up directly, there is a saying called 'bye bye bye, the next one is more well-behaved'

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's very simple, you can get along well by disguising yourself as a little woman.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Use all kinds of things to let him verify the law of true incense, and the blows will slowly change.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's all said don't pick up men in the trash! Sisters long cake!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Stay away from gossiping women and make your own decisions about your own life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you don't get along, you can go elsewhere, so let's change to a sissy.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Summary. Hello dear, what is machismo? Machismo is primarily patriarchal.

    My boyfriend is a bit machismo, and he also likes to teach me how to do things and how to get along with him.

    Hello dear, what is machismo? Machismo is primarily patriarchal.

    Does your boyfriend have such a phenomenon?

    Yes, that's how my boyfriend is, I wish I listened to him.

    Dear, this is not machismo, this is arbitrary.

    Dear, I suggest that you make it clear to him directly, since you are a boyfriend, then he will understand you.

    Machismo generally refers to the expression of patriarchal or patriarchal superiority and discrimination against women in attitudes, language, policies, and behaviors.

    How do I communicate?

    Dear, you should tell him directly, he this phenomenon, if you don't dissuade him, only the cherry blossom section will intensify the conflict, love is the balance of the double spine hidden reputation to rush, his blind actions, will only overturn the pain in your heart, and in the end, it will not be over.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Don't have too much contact with the opposite sex when getting along with each other, and also protect your own life, so that you can figure it out. Of course, I know that when getting along, you must not contact the opposite sex, and you must not communicate or communicate with the opposite sex in front of the other person, so as to ensure that the other person will not get angry.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You must learn to respect each other, and at the same time, you must actively communicate with them. Don't have conflicts, don't lose your temper easily.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Boys in the face of machismo should learn to understand and respect; And be able to give the other party time and space, don't worry about it.

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