How do you know if your girlfriend has a spare tire?

Your avatar is a comic girl, and the gender is a boy. I guess you're a boy.

Okay, let's say you're a boy, I'll break it down.

There is a girl with a good personality and decent looks. You're quite talkative, and you kind of like her or like her a little bit. She seems to have a good impression of you, anyway, trivial things such as changing light bulbs, repairing toilets, buying food and carrying water, etc., are all for you.

She's sick, give you a **, be coquettish, and you'll go to see her by buying medicine, food, and drink. She had an awkward quarrel with her boyfriend and got angry, and you accompanied her to buy drunk and tearful and fell asleep (she fell asleep, your heart is crying). She said, "I'm sorry, I'm busy, my boyfriend asked me to watch a movie" and "I'm uncomfortable, stay with me" ......And so on, it's basically a weak girl when you're a spare tire.

But in this day and age, there are very few people who use you as a spare tire so obviously. It's so untechnical.

Now it should be like this: talk to you very highly, when you express that you like her and want to have a further relationship, she does not refuse or accept, and when you want to give up, she goes to tease you again.

Do you know Lin Huiyin and Jin Yuelin? Do you know that Jin Yuelin lives next door to Lin Huiyin and her husband? Do you know that Jin Yuelin never married for Lin Huiyin?

Whenever Jin Yuelin was injured and wanted to give up this woman, Lin Huiyin opened the window and looked at Jin Yuelin pitifully, and Jin Yuelin stayed again. Some girls are like this, they are chicken ribs for themselves, but they don't allow each other to leave.

How to deal with it? I'm guessing you feel like you've become someone's spare tire.

1. You don't like her.

If you don't like her, that's fine. Resolute refusal, refusal, refusal! Reject all possibilities for her to use you as a spare tire. Save the way you from finding a girlfriend.

2, you like her = =

If you like her, congratulations, your heart is tragically ravaged, but it is not easy to live strongly. Recognize the reality, recognize the reality that you are just a spare tire. Stop making unnecessary efforts and sacrifices. Don't believe that this waiting can be in exchange for anything.

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See if she plays on her phone when she's with you.

Everyone's attitude towards love is different, if you want to know whether you are a spare tire for your girlfriend, then you have to analyze it in many aspects, so as to help yourself draw conclusions.

If the other party treats himself sincerely, he will think about everything for himself, only he can't think of anything that the other party can't do. As long as there is the existence of the other party, she will not let herself worry, and she can see that the other party is sincerely thinking about herself, so she will not treat herself as a spare tire, because if she really treats herself as a spare tire, she will not care about her own thoughts.

When facing herself, her girlfriend will give to herself without reservation, and she will feel that as long as the other party can see her sincerity and have a bright future, she will be satisfied with the other party. The other party does not treat himself as a spare tire, so he is willing to give everything and is willing to exchange all his for a good relationship. If the other party wants to treat himself as a spare tire, he will definitely not take this relationship seriously, and will only regard himself as an alternative, and will not give all his energy.

People who really want to have a bright future with themselves will take the initiative to tell themselves everything, so that they can know enough about her and let go of all their doubts. In fact, for yourself, if you want to find someone you really like, you will be willing to share your own things with the other party, tell him about your family, and give the other party the right to choose.

For girls, if they put all their hearts on themselves and devote themselves wholeheartedly to love, they will be happy. In fact, for us, it is not easy to meet someone we really like, and if we can grasp it well, we will get our own happiness. Love should be grasped well, and the other party cannot be used as a spare tire, which is disrespectful to love.

When you talk to her, she shirks and says that she is doing something with other people at this time, and when you are not chatting, she is not accompanied by her friends, and chatting with you proves that you are a spare tire.

Quite simply, it's an ambiguous attitude.

To put it simply, just six words, don't accept or refuse. is deliberately consuming you, never giving you a positive attitude, steady and steady, step by step.

See if your girlfriend is ready to go public about your relationship? And whether you are willing to show affection publicly, if not, it is to treat you as a spare tire.

Or do you usually have to observe carefully when your girlfriend is with you, is she chatting with other boys? Another is that on an important holiday date, does she agree to the invitation every time, and follows you all the time, whether she always procrastinates when chatting with you, or makes excuses that he is busy, and the above can tell if she is a spare tire for your girlfriend?

See if she cares about you very much, will be in front of you when you need it, if she still hangs out with other boys often, if she doesn't care about you very much, and only thinks of you when she needs you, then she will treat you as a spare tire.

I think the best thing you can do is to see if your girlfriend has anything else. It's easy to see if the opposite sex has a spare tire or if she sees you as her partner after life.

If your girlfriend usually cares about you very much, cares about you meticulously, and will not let you be wronged, it means that you are not your girlfriend's spare tire, but if he is very perfunctory and your attitude towards you does not matter, it means that you must be her spare tire.

It depends on whether your girlfriend is willing to pay for you, if his love for you only stays in words, not in actual action, it means that you have no status in his mind, and it is likely to be her spare tire.

If you want to tell whether your girlfriend is using you as a spare tire, you can start from his usual attitude towards you, if he is very happy when he sees you, he is very willing to date you and meet you if you have anything to do, he will also take the initiative, and if he comes to you as the first time, it means that he should not use you as a spare tire.

It's whether the girl is hot and cold to you. If a girl is hot and cold to you, it means that she just treats you as her spare tire. The girl always wants to stay with the spare tire for a longer time, so as not to soothe her wounded heart at any time.

As long as it's your girlfriend, she will be very good to you when she needs you, or ignore you when she doesn't need you, if your girlfriend behaves like this, it means that you are your girlfriend's spare tire.

As long as your girlfriend treats you as her spare tire, she will definitely not consider your thoughts in ordinary life, nor will she respect you, as long as your girlfriend has this kind of performance, it means that your girlfriend treats you as a spare tire, which means that your girlfriend does not love you.

Your girlfriend usually never contacts you, and when she is in need or needs your help, she will go to you and contact you, or he thinks of you when he is lonely and hopes to get your company, which means that you are his spare tire.

Do you want to tell if your girlfriend is using you as a spare tire? It depends on how he behaves with you, does he really care about you? And then will it be willing to pay a lot for you? These are some of the criteria that can be used as judgments.

If your girlfriend ignores her love, often chats with others, and sends ambiguous messages to indicate that she may be your girlfriend's spare tire.

This is very easy to distinguish, if you feel that he is always floating, absent-minded, he just thinks you are a little annoying, or that he doesn't want to be with you, sometimes he will accompany you, but he often goes out, and you rarely meet, so he is generally raising a spare tire.

If your girlfriend treats you as a spare tire, she won't agree to fall in love with you, and you observe the opposite sex in her phone or how much time she usually spends with you.

To tell if you are your girlfriend's spare tire. You can feel how she behaves to you. If she genuinely treats you well and likes to show you in front of outsiders, then you are not a spare tire.

From the frequency of your girlfriend's usual chats with you, as well as her date with you, you can see whether he is sincere to you, don't easily doubt your girlfriend, which can easily affect your relationship.

Learn more about the other person's emotional state, pay attention to her abnormal movements or expressions, observe whether she cares about you, and if she loves you, she can feel it.

Whether it is a spare tire or not, just look at the person's attitude towards you, if a person is very loving to you, and then also cares about your feelings. Then you are definitely not his spare tire, you are the person he loves the most.

If you find that your girlfriend has a lot of boys around him, then surround him. You'll have to be a little more careful at this point. He's looking for a right fit for him? You're not good enough, and you might be his spare tire. Only by turning yourself into a strong can you not be afraid of problems.

I think it can be judged that if I am his spare tire, he will keep a certain distance from me, and he will not be fully engaged, and he will escape at a critical moment, and the replacement tax can judge that he treats me as a spare tire, and is with me when he needs it, and far away from me when he doesn't need it.

If I were my girlfriend's spare tire, then my girlfriend wouldn't usually care what I thought, wouldn't care about me, and would only talk to me when she was sad.

In fact, I only need to see if he is serious about me when he is with me, if he is very attentive to me, then she has little interaction with other boys in her chat history, then I will make it clear that I am not a spare tire.

1. I will only look for you when I need help.

If a girl always comes to you when she needs your help, she hardly thinks about you or doesn't bother with you, and her attitude towards you is capricious, it is difficult for you to know what she is thinking, and she always feels as if she is hiding something from you, then you can basically judge that the girl is using you as a spare tire. She will be in a daze inexplicably with you, will walk away inexplicably, and will not give you an explanation, even if you keep asking the reason, she will only perfunctory you, and she basically only looks for you when she needs help or feels bored and lonely, and she just uses you, so if a girl behaves like this to you, it must be a spare tire.

2. I often ask you for red envelopes.

The girl who uses you as a spare tire not only looks for you when she needs your help, but if she takes the initiative to chat with you, she can always have various excuses to ask you for red envelopes, such as no phone bill, recently fancy a lipstick, it's a birthday, etc. If you think your prospective girlfriend is doing this to you, then you need to be aware that you may just be her spare tire.

3. You can't enter her circle of friends.

You always confide in her, but she rarely mentions her to you, let alone introduces you to her friends. When I am alone with you, I will always choose a place where no acquaintances will appear, for fear of meeting acquaintances. She doesn't treat you as a regular friend, nor does she want to develop you into a boyfriend, but just treats you as a spare tire.

So friends, if your prospective girlfriend has such a performance, you should also be wary of whether she is really your prospective girlfriend.

Basically, as long as there are two of these three situations, you can betray you and be used as a spare tire, and the unsuitable person can leave early to meet a better person, I wish a lover will eventually become a family!

First of all, it depends on her attitude towards you, such as always letting you spend and making you pay. And then I just won't do intimate actions with you, and to put it bluntly, I treat you as a friend. And girls will only look for you if they have something, and they won't take the initiative to ask you out, and in the end, there is something more suitable for her, so they don't hesitate to break up!

If the relationship is not going well, it will come to you.

If a girl always comes to you when she needs your help, she hardly thinks about you or doesn't bother with you, and her attitude towards you is capricious, it is difficult for you to know what she is thinking, and she always feels as if she is hiding something from you, then you can basically judge that this girl is treating you as a spare tire. She will be in a daze inexplicably with you, will walk away inexplicably, and will not give you an explanation, even if you keep asking the reason, she will only perfunctory you, and she basically only looks for you when she needs help or feels bored and lonely, and she just uses you, so if a girl behaves like this to you, it must be a spare tire.

Whether a girl treats you as a spare tire or a friend depends a lot on you, your own description of the problem has already covered this problem, haven't you noticed? It's like if you block her and you don't want to pay attention to her, could she come to provoke you? Even if she wants to use you as a spare tire, can she do it?

If you don't want to be a spare tire, there's no way she'll have a chance to use you as a spare tire. For example, if she asks you to go all the way to help her do something that she can easily do on her own, if you refuse, what can she do to you? But if you don't know how to refuse to go to the, and find that she is not very grateful after helping, she thinks that you deserve it, and then you start to blame others for treating you as a spare tire, I can only say that you are too uncompetitive.

Of course, maybe you don't know for the first time that she is such a person, she is injured, and there is nothing to say, but if you know that you are doing this again and again, and then blame others, I can only say that you are willing to be a spare tire, no wonder others take advantage of you.

If you treat a girl as a friend, if you understand the balance between friends, even if she treats you as a spare tire in her heart, she can't hurt you, and the reason why you will be hurt is actually because you have a period of time (evil) to be treated. Of course, there are many kinds of people, regardless of men and women, they also know that others like them, but they feel that it is impossible between two people, some people will be afraid of hurting each other and take the initiative to keep their distance, and some people will get closer to each other. But no matter what kind of person you are facing, if you don't want to be a spare tire yourself, others can't really force you.

So, there is no right or wrong thing about the spare tire, if you really want to say wrong, both parties are responsible, the responsibility of the spare tire is to continue to make cheap, and it can't stop at all, and the responsibility of the other party is to continue to give the spare tire a chance to make a cheap mistake, and not let the spare tire stop. No matter which party it is, as long as one party does not cooperate, in fact, this spare tire will not be successful. It may sound hard to hear, but that's really the truth, and I've been guilty of being cheap.