Why does everyone like to drink and I don t?

33 pcs. Heart-to-heart psychology.

Concern. A small drink is pleasant, and a big drink hurts the body.

It looks like you used to like to drink.

So why don't you like to drink it all of a sudden?

It seems that I don't like to drink and bring a little regret.

In fact, it's not a big deal not to drink, because it's difficult to control yourself within a moderate range when you drink, and the result is hurting your body and feelings, and finally hurting your heart.

I don't like to drink alcohol because I realize that drinking brings all kinds of bad feelings in my body and mind, especially in my heart. We always like those who like us, we always like those who don't like us, we always like those who like us more and more, we always like people who like us less.

So which one would you prefer more than the one who has always liked us and the one who has been liking us ever-increasing?

Psychologists Aronson & Linder (1965) conducted such experiments and discovered the pattern of increasing and decreasing levels of interpersonal attraction.

In the experiment, the researcher skillfully arranged that the participants could be evaluated repeatedly by the partners in a natural way, and at the same time, the participants were reasonably arranged to "overhear" how the partners evaluated themselves every time. The variations and properties of repeated evaluations constitute four different experimental scenarios:

1) The evaluation is always positive; (2) the evaluation is always negative; (3) the evaluation gradually shifts from negative to positive, and finally reaches the positive level of the first case; (4) The evaluation gradually shifts from affirmation to negation, and finally reaches the negative level of the second case. Finally, the participants were asked to rate their impression of the partner, with a maximum score of 10, and the results were as follows.

The results showed that people liked the partners who originally denied themselves and eventually became affirming themselves, even higher than the partners who had always affirmed themselves. The degree of liking for the person who changes from affirmation to denial is the lowest, even lower than that of the person who has always denied himself.

Now for the opening question. We may prefer people who like us more and more than people who have always liked us; We may hate people who like us less and less than those who hate us all the time.

In this world, some people like to drink, and some people don't. Not everyone likes to drink, so it's normal that you don't like it.

Drinking alcohol is inherently harmful to the body, and some people become addicted to drinking alcohol, and if they don't drink, they won't get used to it. You don't like to drink, it's also a habit, and if you don't get used to drinking, he won't drink.

Everyone knows that drinking alcohol is harmful to people's bodies, and how good it is to not drink alcohol like you! Alcohol won't hurt you! And some people are drunk and easy to make mistakes, alcohol is very nerve-wracking, and generally people who drink alcohol for a long time will have memory loss.

This cannot be generalized, not all people love to drink. It has a lot to do with the people you're dealing with. Or your own circle has a relationship.

As far as I know, the proportion of young people who like to drink alcohol is declining. It shows that not everyone likes to drink. It's very normal that you don't like it, you don't like to delay things if you don't like to drink, and you don't like to do bad things after drinking.

It should be good to maintain this advantage.

In fact, not everyone likes to drink, and the reason why you don't like it is personal hobbies and interests. Some people or most people are now under pressure in life, and there is no way to tell others about the depression in their hearts, so they hope to release their inner depression by drinking. This can get some relaxation and decompression, maybe you are a simple person at heart, there are not too many worries, so you don't have too much love for wine.

This person everyone likes to drink, not the taste of wine, and likes the feeling of being drunk without any pressure, you don't want to drink yourself, you don't like the taste of wine, that's why you hate drinking.

First of all, not everyone likes to drink, and it is relatively difficult to drink, but of course, those who like to drink may be able to get into good drink.

It shows that you are a person with strong willpower, you are not interested in drinking, you put your body first, especially cherish your body, and drinking too much alcohol has a great impact on your body, so it is right not to drink.

It's not that everyone doesn't like it, it's just that life forces it, and on some occasions it is to drink, and if you don't drink anything else, then you just don't fit in.

Liking to drink and not liking to drink are personal hobbies, and there is nothing wrong with it, and mastering a little drunkenness can affect health.

Everyone's preferences are different, and I think it may be because of some of my habits.

I think drinking alcohol is a kind of happiness, so I think there are many people who may have such feelings because of a habit, because they may like this thing since they were young, but there are many people who don't like it, they may just not like the taste, but there are many people who drink alcohol and may feel that there are some stories in it, so they will have such some preferences.

I think it's also very normal, so no matter what, I think you can find a state that you like more, because although I don't like it, I think that drinking a moderate amount of alcohol every day is good for our body, and if you drink too much, it will definitely not work, so I think I usually have to find a state that I like more.

The people around you like to drink, I think it may be a coincidence, because there are many people who may not like it either, so I think it is actually necessary to find a better way, because I think no matter what the situation, it is to make yourself happier, so that it can be regarded as a happier life in the real sense, so I think it is better to find something that you like more, so that you may maintain some happiness for yourself.

You still drink, I think it's also a very good thing, because now there are a lot of people who drink alcohol is easier to drink more, so in this case there are a lot of disadvantages to our health, so I think we should pay attention to it, only in this way can we better develop, and I think the most important thing is to let us find a better state, because there are many people who may not know what kind of healthy way it is, So I think it's better to take care of your health.

In fact, the people around you like to drink, maybe it's because of his usual preference, because after all, everyone writes differently, because there are many people who like to drink, maybe they like this taste, and there are many people who don't like it, maybe they just think that the taste is not so good, so I think it may be a state of their own.

In fact, you still have to find a model that you like more, only in this way can you develop better, and you can let yourself better understand some of your own states, so I think they are actually very good, and I think that people who don't like to drink may also be because they don't usually have anything else, so they don't like it.

So I think this is a personal preference, not necessarily everyone likes it very much, but I think there may be a lot of people who like it because they like it, because of some other things, so I think this has a lot to do with some of their own ways of life.

Since the people around you like it, I think it may be different from your hobbies, and you yourself may have various hobbies, so I think there is still a big gap.

1. When alcohol enters the body of this kind of person, for a long time, it will be the same as smoking, which will make people feel like it, and slowly people will become dependent on wine, and these people like to drink not because of the taste of wine, but because of a kind of dependence, a kind of addiction to alcohol.

2. Wine is an ethanol-containing beverage made by fermentation of starch or sugar-containing substances such as grains and fruits.