What are the bad effects of the one child policy

The negative effects of the one-child policy are mainly manifested in four aspects:

First, there is an imbalance in the sex ratio of adolescents. Under the influence of feudal traditional concepts such as inheritance, there have been repeated incidents of artificially destroying the sex ratio, resulting in an imbalance in the sex ratio of people, and some data show that the ratio of boys to girls is:1.

According to this ratio, there will be serious social problems after 2025, that is, in the "four-two-one" ("four" refers to the child's grandfather, grandmother, grandfather, grandmother; "Two" refers to the child's father and mother; Under the family structure, there will be 12 million "male singles" in China, and it will not only be a problem of gender imbalance, but also a serious social contradiction and crisis.

Second, China has entered an elderly society ahead of schedule. Since 2005, China's elderly people over the age of 60 account for one-tenth of the country's population, and have entered the elderly society. Western developed countries enter the elderly society is "the country is rich first, people are old", China is "the country is not rich, people are old first", the cost of social pension and the burden of family pension are very large.

Due to the lag in social security, the cost of pension owed by China to the two generations of retired working class has reached 2 trillion yuan, and now it can only barely be maintained. Under the "421" family structure, after 20 years, the children of each family will get married and start a family, and the elderly who need to be supported will be 7 or 8 people, and the burden of old-age care will be heavy and the cost will be large. Therefore, China's early entry into the elderly society will inevitably bring new and more social problems and nurture new social contradictions.

Third, there will be a shortage of labor in the future. Some people pointed out that China's rapid economic growth in recent years is the demographic dividend in play, but economic development and labor supply are cyclical dialectic, that is, the supply of labor exceeds demand - labor force is low - product cost is low - the market advantage of products is obvious - rapid economic development - labor supply exceeds demand .......

At present, there is a labor shortage in the developed provinces along the southeast coast, and in less than 10 years, there will also be a labor shortage in the inland provinces and regions, which is not unrelated to the one-child policy.

Fourth, it is more difficult to educate young people. Now that only children are of college age, these children are spoiled by two or three generations at home, making it more difficult for them to be educated in school. When they arrive at university, they are arrogant, conceited, unsociable, intolerant, and psychologically fragile, and are prone to various psychological disorders.

This requires us to pay attention to the psychological problems of college students, so that they can have a healthy mind and a sound personality.

If you want to starve the mountain and think about its benefits, you must think about its harm, and if you want to think about its success, you must think about its defeat. There are two sides to everything, and our policy is no exception, and although the policies promulgated in recent years have led to the rapid development of the country, it is not possible to say that every incident is without its shortcomings.

Nowadays, most parents of one-child families pour out all their love on one person because they have only one child. In one sentence: "If you hold it in your mouth, you are afraid of melting, and if you hold it in your hand, you are afraid of falling."

The manifestation of love for children is to give priority to meeting the various material requirements of children, no matter how unreasonable the children's demands are, they will agree, and hold the children to heaven.

The consequence of this is that children will develop a way of thinking that they can stretch out their hands and open their mouths, and they will lose their self-independence, and this situation will continue until they enter society in the future.

Due to the loss of independence, children have no way to start when looking for jobs in society, and because they have not suffered much since childhood, they do not want to do too tiring work, and finally become unemployed vagrants and are eliminated by society. What's more, he has become a member of the modern "gnawing old family" to shoot Li, and his parents can be regarded as self-reaping.

Families with many children, these 3 benefits are not comparable to that of one-child families, and they are especially obvious in old age 1, the family atmosphere is good, and the family of only children will be close to their parents when the children are young, but they are lonely at home, and as they get older, the generation gap with their parents will become larger and larger. But there are many children in the family, it will be a different situation, no matter what stage the child is in, there will always be endless topics to talk about between the children and the children, and the children's words will always be joyful, so this feeling will definitely affect the atmosphere of the whole family. And this atmosphere is even more pronounced when you get older.

During the New Year's holidays, the home is more lively.

2. Share the pressure of the family, especially when the elderly are old and sick, they can better understand the good theory of having brothers and sisters, and the cost of children's education is indeed a bit high. But to look at the problem to look at the long term, as the saying goes, a child is also a belt, two children are also to look at the wide lift, although when they are young, it is to increase some pressure, spend the same time to see several children, tired is tired, but when they grow up, they are all bigger. When the parents are old and do not have any ability to make money, having more children can play a very important role, and it will not cause the burden of the family to be placed on one person.

3. There will be no risk of losing one's independence, especially some people who are old and have lost one's independence after the childbearing age are even more pitiful, and everything is risky, including having children. Although families with only one child are relatively speaking, they enjoy all kinds of education and all kinds of materials, and they will get better educational resources. But if the only child in the family has an accident, it can be fatal to the family.

Since the strong implementation of the one-child policy in China, the pros and cons of the one-child policy mainly include:

1. The family planning policy has enabled China to enter an aging society ahead of schedule.

Over the past 30 years, the population has been less newborn, and the aging population is increasing, and now the number of people over 60 years old in China has reached 200 million, and it will reach 400 million people in 20 years, and China will become a country with a serious aging population in the world, which will bring heavy pressure to the social pension and family pension, and will eventually drag down economic development and social stability.

2. There is a shortage of young and middle-aged labor, and enterprises have difficulty in recruiting workers and expensive workers.

The demographic dividend is not there, and the labor force has increased by 1-2 times, resulting in a sharp rise in enterprise costs, increasing the burden on enterprises and boosting prices.

3. The education of the only child has become a major problem in the new era.

Each family has only one child, and two generations are pampered and pampered, resulting in lonely, proud, self-centered, high-minded, unsociable, low emotional intelligence, poor communication skills and tolerance skills, difficult to get along with classmates after school, difficult to integrate with colleagues at work, difficult to adapt to the post, and become a frequent group of people with mental illness, which will affect the career success rate of the next generation.

4. The one-child policy leads to an imbalance in the sex ratio of the population.

Due to the influence of feudal culture in China, many families have been trying to have boys, and now B ultrasound and other medical means are developed, artificially destroying the gender balance between men and women, and now the proportion of boys and girls in many kindergartens has reached: 1, 20 years later, China will talk about 20 million male singles can not find a daughter-in-law, which will cause serious social problems in the future, so moderately liberalize the one-child policy to provide policy support for alleviating such contradictions and problems.

I think it is best to have a child in a family, because then there is less pressure on the parents, and there are more resources, and the child is more conducive to growth.

The benefits of having a child.

Only children need to take on these responsibilities alone, but at least they don't have psychological distress. In contrast, children from families with many children face more problems. For example, who is responsible for caring for the parents, or how to divide the responsibilities among the children.

A common phenomenon in society is that families with many children are more likely to have maintenance conflicts and disputes. Even if several children have the consciousness of taking care of their parents, they will have conflicts because of the unclear division of support responsibilities, and eventually shirk each other, and no one is willing to take responsibility.

Parenting injustices are common in families with many children. Because everyone's personality and abilities are different, it is difficult for us to achieve completely just equality when it comes to assigning the responsibility of caring for our parents. This is the saying that it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs.

For example, in a family, one child returns home in good clothes, while the other child lives in poverty.

It is difficult for us to ask them to support the elderly to the same standard. Families with many children often quarrel over this, with some arguing that responsibilities should be divided according to each other's economic conditions, while others believe that responsibilities should be determined taking into account the intensity of each family's work and the burden on the family.

At the same time, these children believe that other siblings should also take on the responsibility of caring for their parents. This kind of thinking can lead them to weaken their responsibilities and hope that others will take on more pressure.

Children who grow up in one-child families don't have this kind of thinking, and they will naturally think that it is their responsibility to raise their parents and do everything they can to provide them with a better life. Of course, from a parent's point of view, the parenting style of a multi-child family and a single-child family is also different.

If a couple has only one child, then it is natural for parents to devote all their heart and energy to this child.

With the love and resources of their parents, these children grow up to be more adaptable and more likely to gain a foothold in society.