What education needs to nurture most at present

What abilities do children have?

1. One of the most important things for children is to learn, and the difference in IQ of children is not too far, just to see whether children are willing to learn. Learning ability is cultivated, parents should be based on the child's interests, and the surrounding things so that children develop the habit of being good at observation, like to use the brain, if always like to ponder the problem, slowly will become interested in learning.

2. Parents can put a little pressure on their children appropriately, just like if their children want to get something at home, parents should not help their children. Let the child do it by himself, there is no one to rely on, the child must rely on himself. Gradually, children have more independent ability, and with independent ability, their mood will become stronger, and they will be able to bear many things.

3. From an early age, you should often tell your children that you can't run around alone, and you must follow your parents or peers. You should also remember the address of your home, your parents' unit, **, and your name. Tell your child that if he gets lost, he will call 110 to find the police uncle.

If conditions permit, you can also let your child learn martial arts and the like, so that you can defend yourself.

What to pay attention to in raising preschoolers.

1. After the child falls to the ground, before the age of 1, it is the stage of rapid growth and development, and at this stage, we should pay attention to cultivating the child's sense of security. There are many parents who are busy with work and leave their children to the elderly at home or ask a nanny to take care of the children, which is not conducive to the cultivation of parent-child relationship.

Between the ages of 2, parents should learn to develop their children's sense of humor and make them laugh often. You can often make some grimaces, funny little gestures, or deliberately become very clumsy in behavior, deliberately make your child laugh, let your child find fun, and maintain a happy mood.

3. Between the age of 2 and 3, it is necessary to start cultivating the child's creativity, and let the child gradually develop the habit of thinking.

It is most important to develop children's self-confidence.

One is to be independent and do your own things. Second, politeness, take the initiative to greet people, third, persistence, and perseverance. Fourth, be honest and never lie at any time.

Fifth, thrifty. Food cannot be wasted. Sixth, good things must learn to share.

7. Wisdom must find a way to solve problems when encountered. 8. Enthusiasm and initiative to help others.

First of all, it is necessary to discover and educate in time. Many parents may not notice that most of their children's bad habits start from the first bad behavior, and because parents do not stop it in time, they mistakenly think that it is reasonable to do so, so they go further and further down the wrong path. When children are young, they generally have no concept of right and wrong, they don't know that taking other people's things casually is "stealing", they don't know that making a lot of noise will affect other people's work and rest, and they don't know that littering is an act ...... destroying the environmentWhenever this happens, parents should deal with it in time to nip it in the bud.

Secondly, when the child is grossly negligent. When children make serious mistakes, they generally have a sense of guilt and guilt, and are often more receptive to criticism and opinions from others. If parents seize the opportunity to educate them patiently and meticulously, they will definitely receive unexpected results.

Third, when the child encounters setbacks. When children encounter setbacks, they are most likely to have negative emotions of discouragement, pain and despair, and parents will blame them, which will definitely make the children worse. But if parents show understanding, give comfort and encouragement to their children, and affirm their efforts, I believe that most children will regain their confidence and move firmly towards their goals.

Fourth, when the child is interested in something. A large number of facts have proved that many scientists and artists have achieved their careers because of their childhood interests. Edison is a prime example.

Interest is the best teacher. When children are young, they often have a strong interest in something, and at this time, parents must seize the opportunity to motivate their children to persevere.

Children's education should be taught according to the characteristics of the child, and if the child has leadership talent, the child's leadership ability can be cultivated.

The most important thing in educating and nurturing children is to cultivate their character and values. Children's moral character and values are the foundation that affects their entire life, determining the way they get along with others, their attitude towards life and their requirements for themselves. Therefore, education should focus on cultivating children's moral character and values, laying a good foundation for their future development.

Cultivating children's moral character mainly includes the following aspects:

Cultivate children's honesty and trustworthiness: Educate children to tell the truth, do practical things, do not lie, do not deceive, and let children understand the importance of honesty and trustworthiness.

Cultivate children's courage and tenacity: Teach children to face challenges and overcome difficulties bravely, and cultivate their perseverance.

Cultivate children's sense of responsibility: Teach children to take responsibility for their own actions, know how to take responsibility, and cultivate their sense of responsibility.

Cultivating children's values mainly includes the following aspects:

Cultivate respect and tolerance in children: Teach children to respect the differences of others, be tolerant of different cultures, beliefs and perspectives, and cultivate tolerance and inclusivity.

Cultivate children's justice and fairness: Educate children to recognize the importance of justice and fairness, know how to treat others fairly, and cultivate their sense of justice.

Cultivate children's efforts and pursuits: Educate children to recognize the importance of efforts and pursuits, stimulate their interest in learning, and cultivate their enterprising and innovative spirit.

Cultivate children's patriotism and national spirit: Teach children to love the motherland, respect national culture, and cultivate their patriotism and national spirit.

As mentioned above, the most important thing in educating and cultivating children is to cultivate their character and values. By focusing on children's moral and values education, it can help children establish a correct outlook on life, values and worldview, and lay a solid foundation for their future development.

To educate and nurture children, the following aspects are the most important:

1.Moral development. Moral cultivation is the cornerstone of education, and parents should cultivate good qualities such as honesty and tolerance, respect for others, and concern for society from an early age.

This requires parents to demonstrate these qualities themselves and to create positive values in their children's minds through daily interactions and examples.

2.Study habits. Good study habits and motivation are the foundation for improving knowledge and skills.

Parents should cultivate their children's attention span, active learning attitude, and conscientious and responsible habits from an early age, so that learning becomes a way of life. This requires parents to participate in and guide their children's learning process and gradually develop their self-directed learning ability.

3.Communication. Good language and interpersonal skills can not only promote the healthy development of children, but also an important condition for future career success.

Parents should have more conversations with their children, listen to their children's ideas, and guide their communication styles appropriately to help them build self-confidence and grasp the sense of proportion.

4.Hobbies. A wealth of hobbies can broaden children's horizons and cultivate their sense of innovation.

Parents should observe their children's interests and hobbies, and give appropriate guidance and support. Classes or activities such as arts, sports, and crafts should be selected according to the child's interests and personality to help the child explore his or her potential talents.

5.Sense of independence. Appropriate sense of independence and self-care ability can promote children's growth and progress.

Parents should give their children appropriate difficulties and responsibilities, and cultivate their courage and ability to solve problems. As children grow older, they are given opportunities for self-management to help them build self-confidence and independent personality.

To sum up, the most important thing in educating children is to cultivate their good qualities, solid knowledge, practical skills, prudence and sound personality. This requires long-term investment and rational guidance from parents, so as to influence children imperceptibly and make the results of education significant and long-lasting.

Independence should become a habit for children from an early age. We must know how to let go and let children break through from an early age. Sooner or later, society will have to be left alone by children!

Wrestling is a compulsory course for children to become strong. Children who are beaten from an early age will grow up to be less beaten. Children can learn to be strong in the fall, and the flowers in the greenhouse can never withstand the wind and rain!

Love and responsibility must be cultivated from an early age, and only when they grow up can they become a concept of action!

Learn to be grateful, in order to know how to repay gratitude. Let children learn to be grateful from an early age, and only when they grow up can they know how to repay their gratitude!

Respect and love children, the purpose is for the healthy growth of children, not to let children do whatever they want!

Reading should become a habit for children from an early age, and reading affects children's behavior and the future of the country and the nation!

The awareness of rules and equality should start from the child, and be strict with the child. It should be implanted in the child's brain in a moisturizing and silent way! When the sense of rules and equality becomes the concept of every child today, it will also become the spirit of tomorrow of the country!

The spirit of collaboration is the basic spirit of the development and progress of human society, and children should understand from an early age that there is no bright future without the spirit of cooperation!

Of course, it is to let the children have a life that they like and strive for.

To cultivate a child, there should be a macro goal, and this goal should be guided to cultivate the child's corresponding qualities and abilities.

In good shape. Have a vigorous and toned body.

When a child is born, parents are very concerned about the child's physical health. But as the child grows up, the attention of parents is stolen by "learning".

No matter what your goal is in raising your child, good health is a top priority. Nothing is possible without a healthy body.

In the long run, everyone will have certain work tasks in society, and if they are not healthy enough, they may not be able to take on some work, or they may be overwhelmed by heavy work tasks.

From the perspective of personal life, if a person is not in good health and often gets sick, he will have additional expenses financially, even huge expenses, and may have to be taken care of by his family, affecting the normal life of the whole family.

Health and peace are the foundation of a person's happiness in life.

Psychoeducation. Positive and optimistic personality and psychology.

More and more examples prove that children's psychoeducation is very important. Psychoeducation includes two levels, one is basic mental health, and the other is to cultivate children's positive and optimistic personality and psychology.

On the basis of ensuring the physical and mental health of their children, parents should focus on cultivating a positive and optimistic attitude in their children.

There will be many unpredictable things in life, parents give their children protection, wealth is temporary, only to give the child a good attitude, he can face all kinds of possibilities of life freely, not to be defeated by life.

Parents can cultivate a good attitude in their children from four levels:

Target layer: guide children to establish their own ideals according to their characteristics, so that children have the ambition to strive for their ideals;

Ability layer: "use" more children, so that children continue to accumulate a sense of accomplishment in daily small things, and have the experience of "I can";

Relationship layer: create a relaxed living environment for children;

Psychological layer: Implant a positive and optimistic belief system in children from an early age.

To be liked and respected.

Good interpersonal interaction.

With a healthy body and mind, children also need good interpersonal interactions.

A person's strength is limited, and interpersonal relationships are an extension of a person's abilities. No matter what you do, there has to be a human element.

Spend more time on the child's character, character, attitude, way of doing things, etc., so that the child can be liked and respected no matter what kind of situation he is in.

These are intangible wealth for children, and good interpersonal relationships are not only a boost to career success, but also provide us with good emotional value, reduce irritability, depression and other negative emotions, and keep the body in a positive and lively state.