What should I do, tangled up worries. Can t forget, and can t get it! I don t want to force it, I ju

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Friend, I can understand your current mood, whether you are the first love, if so, your entanglement will last for a long time, and you will remember that she will never forget for the rest of your life, your current situation is that you are used to the feeling of her being by your side, you didn't cherish it before, and you only regret it when you lose it, which is a mistake that everyone will make. In fact, you are now and I was in a situation back then, I have experienced your emotional experience, but it doesn't matter, I have grown up for so many years, I have understood that this is just an illusion, if you don't love, you don't love, in fact, you really don't love her, you won't love after you didn't love before, so why do you love when you leave, the reason is habit, too used to the previous bits and pieces, so you can't forget, but that's really not love, because if you really like a person will be very strong, You can't see all her shortcomings, you will like it, you can wait to meet the next relationship, to find someone who really likes from the bottom of your heart, and you will be relieved of today's feelings and entanglements.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Bad for her. She used to love me very much, but then she didn't feel good for me because we were separated from me for a year in college! She said she felt tired with me, and I knew it was because I didn't contact her often and was cold to her.

    Our family is in the same town, and it turned out that we were classmates in high school for 2 years. I'm looking for her now and she's blocked everything from me and it's not good for her. She used to love me very much, but then she didn't feel good for me because we were separated from me for a year in college!

    She said she felt tired with me, and I knew it was because I didn't contact her often and was cold to her. Our family is in the same town, and it turned out that we were classmates in high school for 2 years. I'm looking for her now and she's blocked everything out of me

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Relax and be confident.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Emotional matters can only be solved by confronting them, and worrying and struggling alone cannot completely solve the problem.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You like others, that's your own business, it has nothing to do with others, why interfere with other people's freedom and ask others to like you too?!

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's really tiring to like someone who doesn't like you, and sometimes it's not worth it, depending on how he treats you. Do you think you're willing to pay for what he did? If yes, then there's nothing to dwell on.

    If not, try to let go, no one can't live without anyone, it's just a matter of time. Love does not blindly give, and blindly paying cannot become the ultimate love. If you think he doesn't care about you, why are you stupid?

    If you can't please him, you still belittle yourself, why bother? You're not wrong, he doesn't love you, that's his biggest fault.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is no grass at the end of the world, this kind of person is so boring to chase and you have no common topic, let it go!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It is your right to like others, not an obligation, so others also have the right not to like you, and there is no obligation to make him like you, because every girl is unique, maybe you are really not the type that the other party likes, why bother to force it, time is the best doctor, I believe that you can't forget it in one day, you can't forget it in a year, what about 10 years, 20 years, one day you will really forget him, don't want him, not to let you forget his name, but let you one day find that he is really nothing, pick him up is a mushroom, If you don't pick him up, he's a mountain goods!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It can be solved with IQ, so why bother with affection.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Listen to the mask, although it is a stick song, you go to feel the meaning of the lyrics, don't be reluctant, don't forget, maybe years later, you will laugh and think about the past, calm beauty.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Since you can't forget it, don't force it, it's better to bury it deep in your heart as a memory, if you forcibly forget it, it will only be painful, and it is impossible to forget.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Time is the best antidote. You're an adolescent now, and it's inevitable that there will be a commotion, but you're at that school, shouldn't it be summer vacation now? What you have to do is divert your attention.

    Put your mind to your studies or develop some positive hobbies. Attention. I'm talking positively.

    Don't be negative and do something bad, for example, when I fell out of love in high school and went to play games online, which led to my grades dropping from the key class to the middle and lower reaches of the ordinary class, it would be too sad.

    Do the right thing at the right time, can't we wait until we have the ability to make the person we love happy?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Maybe you can only leave it to time to deal with your sadness. If it's long enough, my heart doesn't hurt too much. But there are times when time is useless. I'm worse than you, I've been thinking about him for a whole year, and I'm crying every day, he's the same as me, but we can't be together.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You like her so she accidentally sees you in class, and you think he's looking at you, but it's not. And send you and his ** into the space, maybe she thinks it's fun, so don't think so much, she really doesn't like you to refuse to accept you, now you still have to focus on your studies, don't let yourself regret it in the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Girls have the logic of girls, if you get close to you, she will naturally take the initiative to approach you, if you feel tired of chasing her, it is that she deliberately stops you. You find another real hobby, and she only treats you as an ordinary friend of the opposite sex, so don't think too much about men.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Ignore it, pretend you don't care, it's really important to learn, after all, there are so many possibilities for your future.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    At least you can continue to chase her, use your sincerity, try to be good to her, and don't be cheeky to her.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Child, wake up, you are a self-inflicted manifestation of affection, there are many women, there is no need to be so entangled!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't think she's necessarily expressing a liking for you when she goes to class Besides, there are many good girls, don't give up a forest for her How do you know that no girl likes you silently.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Let go of ego, what belongs to you, and you don't have to work so hard at all.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Self-inflicted affection Let go of ego, it belongs to you, and you don't have to work so hard at all.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Time changes everything, and everyone will come from here.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Actually, I've felt like you, too.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Can you please make the point more detailed and don't write some unnecessary words?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Let's put it this way, even if he re-accepts you, you will "miss" again!

    Breaking up says a lot.

    Find a new one or give a new chance.

    A new start is better than filling the cracks and then starting again, and the shelf life will be longer, and the feelings of the "old people" are often "old wounds"**

    Don't be naïve, the estrangement in your heart can't be erased.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Learn to let go.

    What is missed is missed.

    Keep going, and if you stop because of something you've missed, you'll continue to miss the view at the next stop....

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's not yours, don't force it, if it's not good for you, find a new love, if you can, I can also communicate with you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you miss it, you miss it, it's nice to listen to, you have no fate, don't eat back grass.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    There's nothing you can't forget, it's just the length of time!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The best way is to silently keep him in mind and bless him every day.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I forgot to put it, it's not that you can't live without him.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's up to you to decide. It's useless for others to say anything.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Obviously, I said that I looked away and put it down, but every time I always unconsciously thought of the person who gave warmth. I always see the reality when I smile and get drunk, I think of the pain, and then, the cold feeling can no longer be warmed. So repeatedly, the heart, finally tired, the reality is like this.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I feel like you've said so much, it's a girl you really love, but it's a pity that you didn't meet your real prince. But that's how life is, God closes one door and opens another door to you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    The unforgettable things that have been experienced and the people who have known (loved) each other can only fade slowly with the passage of time, and no one can forget them in an instant; Besides, some people or some things, the more you want to forget, the more unforgettable they will be; So, hang out with friends and chat more, make your life more colorful and fulfilling, and let everything go naturally, so that you don't have too much time to think about it and forget the past!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Hide in the bottom of your heart and divert your attention, life is not only about love, but also about family and friendship. Spend time with your parents and go shopping with friends. Time will help you with everything. You're just a momentary frustration.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Then don't forget it, leave it to dry, don't worry about it, keep moving forward, make new friends, accept new challenges, add new experiences, let yourself study hard and work hard, one day one new window after another has been filled with your rich life, you are about to find the unforgettable one, when the time comes, forget him, what's the matter.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    You don't forget, you're going to forget, you're going to forget, you're not forgetting, it's just a name.

    We just tend to remember what we should remember, not remember what we shouldn't remember, remember so well.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    When I was twenty years old, I fell in love with a woman, and I was willing to die for her. But after two years, I couldn't even remember her name.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    True love doesn't have to be a perfect match in the eyes of others.

    It's about the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other.

    It is to make the other party's life better and silently dedicated.

    This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts, and true love is to know how to cherish when you can love.

    True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

    Because, letting go is having everything...

    When you cherish it, please love it well.

    When you let go, bless well....

    True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words.

    Feel it with your heart!

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    The true meaning of love!

    If you really can't be together, then the long pain is better than the short pain! Don't push yourself! Bless him!

    If you love each other very much, try your best to redeem it! Don't let yourself regret it! Love: do not run away;

    If you really love each other. But not together. That can't help but treasure this relationship!

    If love. Just love it from the bottom of your heart! Be happy.

    Love you will always lead the starring role!

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  42. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    If it's not yours, why force it? Is it possible that the poor are eager to take their money home from the bank?

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Don't take everything too seriously.

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