What can liberate one s soul?

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun.

Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love.

We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness of the other person.

And happiness, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

Look at the world with a different mindset, change your mood, don't need to be too serious in the face of some confusion, learn to self-regulate...

What is liberation? Liberation is when your body and mind are bound by something, and now you are free from what is holding you away.

There is a kind of human bondage that is tangible, and others can release it for you. There is something intangible, such as inner troubles, spiritual bondage, which cannot be lifted by others on your behalf, nor is it inflicted on you by others, which requires you to liberate yourself.

How can I get liberated? ”

When this man heard this, he thought to himself, "Yes! Who tied me up, why should I be like a silkworm and bind myself to myself? ”

You can be free from obstacles, without obstacles, without people, without sentient beings, without longevity, and this is liberation. That is, as mentioned earlier, there is no self-grasping, there is no dharma-grasping, there is no attachment to everything, which is liberation.

The reason why people can't get liberation is because of my attachment. Without dharma attachment, without previous attachment, it is liberation. The reason why we can't get liberation is because I have too much attachment, this thing is mine, my body is mine, my house, my land, my property are all mine, and I am so enchanted that I can't get liberation.

If you can know that everything is fake, that everything is a law, that it is all "like a dream bubble, like dew and electricity", who can tie you up? You have to go to heaven and earth, to the east to the west, to Europe without a plane ticket, to Australia without a ship, without entering and not being contented, how comfortable it is! In this way, it is liberated unhindered.

So, what is there to ask for, what is there to cling to? Anything can be put down.

Learn to quiet yourself, immerse your mind, and slowly reduce your desire for things. Reset the self to zero often, every day is a new starting point, there is no age limit, as long as your desire for things is appropriately reduced, to slowly relax and liberate. (The so-called step back is naturally wide).

Learn to care for yourself, only by caring for yourself more, can you have more energy to care for others, if you have enough ability, try to help the people you can help, then you get a few happiness, help others more, treat yourself well, is also a way to reduce stress.

When you encounter an irritable situation, you drink a glass of white water, put a soothing light**, close your eyes, reminisce about the people and things around you, and slowly lose the new future, which is a kind of rest, but also a kind of calm forward thinking.

Love life, absorb new nutrients every day, have different thinking every day, learn to empathize, try to find new things to meet the novelty and mystery of the world.

Only by facing your life with sincerity, love, and personality will your life be more exciting!