I m going to get better and better, not to make anyone regret it from zx

It was nearly ten o'clock, and the thoughts in my head were about to be filled.

Since last Thursday, I have listed all the products that I plan to organize on the international site, replace the relevant **, and add or change the information. Before I leave work, I write down my to-do list for tomorrow and wait for the next day to tick them all one by one.

Many times, when looking at a product that is already messed up and at a loss, I just don't know where to start.

But I understand that if you don't get it sorted out, it's only going to get worse.

Many times, when the mess is there, I habitually choose to run away, pretending to turn a blind eye, day after day, as if it really disappeared.

Suddenly, one day, I will find that this mess has not gone away, but has become bigger.

At this time, I will regret my laziness and regret the time I was discarded, but I forgot to win in the moment and set off immediately.

Later, I realized that when I tried to operate the product, even if it was just one release a day, the feedback was good.

I gradually understood that what I needed to do was not to stay where I was and regret it, but to continue with courage.

If,If you feel that you have wasted time today, you will immediately start acting to regret the next second. Every second now determines the next.

If,If you feel fat, don't bother with snacks and put on your tracksuit and go for a run, even if it's just for a walk. Instead of holding snacks, watching TV, and lamenting that the heroine in the play is so thin.

If,If you don't like your current life, then go for a change, change your hairstyle, change your job, change your mood.

If,If you don't like who you are, then stop, hug yourself, say sorry to yourself, and make yourself better.

Do not imitate the tube in what caseYou all need to get better

Instead of regretting it all the time.

When I was exercising at keep, I met a very inspirational girl by chance, before and after exercising, I was like two people, and she said a sentence called: You need to get better, not regret it all the time. The first time I saw this sentence, I was deeply moved.

Now since the era of ** is so developed, in fact, we have seen a lot of inspirational stories like this on various platforms. Every time I see it, some people will question it, and some people will worship and admire it, and I belong to the latter. Among these people who admire, there are some people who just like it and sigh that it is really amazing, and then there is no more; There is also a group of people who use this power to constantly motivate themselves to take action and make changes.

And I belong to the former.

Every time I want to use this power to motivate myself and try to change myself, I may have given up unconsciously after two or three days. As long as we are unwilling to persist in a thing, there will always be various reasons, such as busy, tired, and all kinds of strange tassel-shaped reasons. So even though I started many times, I didn't reach the end once.

Like I said I like to climb mountains, but I started many times, but none of them actually reached the top. It's like I said I want to improve my cooking skills and cook a big meal for my family, but I don't really make a good dish at a time.

Sometimes the expectations for myself are quite high, but gradually, because of my own irregularity, I slowly lose my expectations of myself, and sometimes I can't even believe that I can complete it. When you don't know how to do it, then of course you will never be able to do it.

So, again and again, I wandered between hope and disappointment and regret. This is human, but it also explains why there are only a few successful people.

Maybe next time, I can say to myself, don't rent people can do it, I will definitely be able too!

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Psychological research has found that people have the ability to exhibit personality traits that are very different from those of the past when they encounter difficulties, which is human plasticity.

Self-development is a process from balance to imbalance, and then from loss of control to re-mastery. ”

Plastic Me" Chen Jiejun.

It's been a while since I didn't log in to sell updates.,Just came up and looked.,Just yesterday,Toutiao actually canceled my yellow V certification.。 At the beginning, it was also hard to get the code word, but now it is gone all of a sudden.

It's a lie to say that you're not frustrated, but when you think about it, you deserve it, in fact, as early as a few months ago, when I was often changing, I would also receive a notice that the headline relationship interest certification did not match what was written. And through this incident, I found that the speed at which I can adjust my mentality is really much faster than before.

Because I realized that there is a scumbag principle, that is: at any time, don't give up hope - I can change, I can become better.

Now, I have experienced something similar to the one in the preface to "The Malleable Me", although it is small, but it is also a difficulty after all, and according to my previous character, when something similar happens, I often feel chagrin and regret - why can't I keep it up every day? Why stop changing? Why did I write it for more than a year, but I still didn't fix my field?

Why doesn't everything end well? ......

100,000 whys come to mind, bring yourself to an unbalanced and out of control situation, internal friction makes you unable to do what you should do normally, so you are irritable, looking at your husband and son is not pleasing to the eye, one is willing to be a salted fish without a sense ......of responsibility, and the other is not good at studying and becomes a scumbag

So, because of one thing, everything is not good.

Now, I have quickly adjusted my mentality, and according to the book, it should be said, is also to complete a small round of self-development process.

Writing rules update (balance) - stop and lose yellow v depressed (unbalanced) - see nothing pleasing to the eye (out of control) - realize that the root of the problem is still in yourself, adjust your mentality and emotions, set a new writing plan, and strive to reapply for yellow v qualification (regain control) after 30 days

Start with every little thing, reinvent yourself, and regain control of your life. Because, when we find that life is out of control, we will know that it comes from every little thing in the past, every choice we made, those mistakes that we have unconsciously made, or habits that we have built since childhood.

Losing control is a process that accumulates over time, and it can't be achieved overnight to regain control of our lives.