Tell me when I felt like I could only rely on myself?

When I was in Shenzhen in 14 years, I had a very difficult life for half a year, and I was almost kicked out by the landlord to sleep on the street for a month. The mobile phone is down in arrears, the bus card has no balance, and there are only a few dollars on my body, I walked three miles with a few coins to a dessert shop to eat the cheapest three-dollar dessert, because the money for a meal is not enough, and the purpose of eating dessert is to rub the store's wifi, only in this way can I contact the outside world. I didn't dare and didn't want to tell my family, I took advantage of the time to eat desserts, I rummaged through the address book, but found that no friend could open his mouth to borrow money, at that time, I felt that people could only rely on themselves. ‍‍

Many times, such as when I am looked down upon by others, when I want myself and my family to live a better life, when the work situation is not recognized by colleagues, in fact, no matter when, I must imprint everything in my bones Only by myself is the most reliable. ‍‍

When a parent is sick; In the event of a failed exam; When watching others show affection; In short, in a few moments when you feel small, you will only want to become stronger if you find your own shortcomings.

After giving birth, I had to go to work, and I had to take the baby, and I wanted to break myself in half, and at that time I felt that I could only rely on myself, and sometimes it was really difficult to ask for someone, so I learned to be strong, and I had to bear everything by myself.

I have this feeling a lot of times, sometimes when I am in trouble and helpless, I think I have to rely on myself, others help you with love, and it is your duty not to help you! Life is always going through and making people grow! Constant maturation.

When I was a child, my parents were very busy with business, and then they sent me to live at my uncle's house, but after all, they were not my biological parents, so I could feel the gap many times, and after I went to college, I felt that I had to rely on myself.

Working alone in a strange city, with a fever in the middle of the night, he can only get up and go to the hospital alone, and he has no relatives and friends in this strange city, so he can only rely on himself. ‍‍

When I graduated from university, I came to Beijing to work alone, and in this city where I had no relatives and friends, I felt a burst of cold, and when my work didn't go well, I was completely on my own.

I think about it many years ago, not long after I got married, and then my partner felt that I had been staying at home and not looking for a job, and I really felt very sad at that time, and sometimes I even got married wrongly, and it was best to rely on myself.

When I was nine months pregnant, my husband suddenly went on a business trip for two days, and I was left alone at home, and I didn't want to trouble my mother because my sister-in-law had just given birth to a big nephew.

1. You have to work hard and try to give yourself what you want. No one can count on it, and no one can rely on it.

2. Is there still true love in this world? I don't think anyone is particularly realistic, so face the reality and be the best version of yourself, don't expect to rely on anyone because you can't count on it at all.

3. Don't expect others, no one owes anyone, only by working hard, helping each other, tolerating and respecting each other, can you get what you want!

4. I can't count on anyone, and it lasted for a long time from 9 to 5.

life. Is it wrong to stick to the way you want.

5. I'm so tired, I can't count on anyone, and I'm blocking them one by one.

6. Sometimes I feel that people like me are precious, sometimes I feel that I am really rubbish, 2. I can really only rely on myself at any time, and I can't count on anyone7. Adults, it's time to quit emotionally. Don't show the dew, don't be angry, don't expect others to block the wind and rain, and live as your own eaves.

1. Life is like this, there are laughter and tears. Some people are mainly responsible for laughter, others are mainly responsible for tears.

2. Only those who are good-looking can be called foodies, and those who are not good-looking can only be called rice buckets.

3. The most reliable is money, and the most unreliable is people's hearts.

4. I chased my dreams, and others said I was naïve and ridiculous, but I persevered. In the end, I found out that it was really my previous childish and ridiculous.

5. You just need to watch others wonderful, and God has other arrangements for you.

6. I used to think that people who relied on relationships must be very incompetent, but after contact, I found that others were better than you.

"Lu Yao knows that the horsepower will see the hearts of the people for a long time", this sentence probably means that after getting along for a long time, you can see the people's hearts more clearly.

Those who are willing to help you in your most difficult times must be the most cherished people in this life.

Everyone hopes that in this life, they can meet a lover and best friend who is sincere to them, who can give you warmth when you are cold, and guide you when you feel dark.

Many times you have also fantasized that you have to rely on them to get through the difficult situation in front of you, and as long as you have them by your side, you can ensure that everything is worry-free.

Unfortunately, their patience is always limited.

After you make repeated calls for help, they start to get tired of you and even deliberately avoid you.

After having no way to ask for help, you start to complain frequently: What relatives? What friends? In the end, it's not all unreliable!

Later, you start to realize that you can't be trusted by anyone but yourself!

Although such a result is cruel, it does exist objectively, everyone has their own way to go, everyone has to complete the set task, and you ask for help again and again, which will only break the order of other people's lives and disrupt the rhythm of their lives.

They are able to help you out of the enthusiasm of relatives and friends, but they are not obligated to serve you.

Everyone's life path has always to rely on their own to walk, as for the future on this road, what kind of harvest can have, what kind of adventure will happen, all depend on the way forward, the sweat and hard work.

By taking every step on your own, your life's journey will eventually blossom and eventually you will reach the top, but these are not possible by others.

1.As my smile slowly turned to tears in the wait, I thought it was time for me to leave you. Yet, you are so touching that I still stay in love.

2.Parents will leave us one day, so we can only rely on ourselves, and we don't have to look at other people's faces to come and go freely.

3.You should learn to be grateful when others help, and don't be resentful if others don't help you.

4.People are willing to help you, that's love, people don't want to help you, that's duty.

5.The backers will fall, everyone will run, and only yourself is the most reliable.

6.The biggest sense of security is: you have money! The harder you work and the more you earn, the fewer problems you have.

7.No one will accompany you for a lifetime, so you have to adapt to loneliness, and no one will help you for a lifetime, so you have to struggle for a lifetime.

8.Instead of regretting yesterday with tears, it is better to fight today with sweat.

9.When the tears run out, what is left should be strong.

1. It is better to rely on yourself than to rely on anyone, society is a collective that uses and is used, and it will inevitably be eliminated if it has no value, so try to make yourself useful.

Second, there are thousands of friends, it is better to have a confidant, as the saying goes, it is easy to walk when you have more friends, rely on your parents at home, and rely on your friends when you go out, but not everyone will treat you sincerely. A true friend is one who helps you when you are in trouble and shares with you when you are happy, although not necessarily all the time. It is better to rely on yourself than on the road of life.

3. There are thousands of roads in this world, and only those who come out by themselves are the most real, and it is better to rely on no one than on yourself. May the future be bright, and the people who love you will always be there.

Fourth, life always uses different methods every day to force you to grow and be strong. However, this is fine, after all, it is better to rely on no one than on yourself.

Fifth, high-rise buildings rise from the ground, and it is better to rely on yourself than on anyone.