Why is it still sad to break up with a boyfriend you don t love?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-25
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The most cherished person in the world is someone who can give you life or what others in life can't give, and who also understands what it is to cherish and what it is to be grateful! If you don't understand what cherishing is, you won't understand your heart and won't learn to cherish you! A person who does not know how to be grateful is not worthy of your cherishment, because he will never feel your heart!

    In fact, there are many people to cherish, not necessarily a single person, but your parents should be the most worthy of your cherishment! They can give you love and love that no one else can give, and they are the only people in the world who can give everything without a little bit in return! They are also the only ones who will never remember all the wrong things you have done and misbehaved!

    They are also the ones who sincerely wish you a happy and happy life! They are the ones who will always remember to hold your hand and never give up, no matter what happens! They are the ones who will always keep the sweetness to you and the pain to themselves, and try not to let you know that they are afraid that you will be sad!

    They are the only ones who can take care of you when you are sick or disabled! Only they can give you all their most precious things! Close your eyes and think quietly, what would happen to you if your parents, who could give so much for you, were to leave you?

    That's when you really understand who the most cherished person in the world is. v

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I agree too! Just get used to it! Suddenly, there is one less person, and the heart will be lonely. This is normal.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    After all, it's been a long time, and it's been a little emotional.

    It's always hard to recover from getting used to it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The details are as follows:

    Method. 1. Calm down and think.

    For girls, the world of feelings is very important, and if you want to make yourself happier and happier in life, then your emotional life plays a great role.

    When you have the idea of breaking up with your boyfriend, it means that there are some small problems in the relationship between you, and if you want to solve them better, then you need to think about it and think more about the relationship between each other, so that the two of you can live a better and happier life.

    Method. 2. Talk to your friends.

    As the saying goes, "the authorities are obsessed with bystanders", it is difficult for one party in a relationship to know exactly whether they love each other very much, and if there is an urge to break up, then they need to communicate well with each other. If you just have such thoughts, you can share them with your friends, maybe they can give you some good advice, so that you can know exactly how to do what is right for each other.

    Method. 3. Be independent.

    Women have a lot of very important things besides love, don't always focus on love, improve yourself more, if you want to separate from your boyfriend, then you should also think more, make more decisions, and make yourself more independent, so that you can live a happier life. If you want to separate and are reluctant, it means that the other party still has a status in your heart, so you should analyze it well and think about it carefully.

    Method. Fourth, calm down for a while.

    To calm yourself down first, is it because your boyfriend doesn't care about you for a while? If that's the case, then try to learn to calm yourself down.

    The emergence of problems is not very accidental, it will only explode after a certain accumulation, so to calm yourself down, calm each other down, and the relationship needs to be experienced, this is just a small step.

    Method. 5. Have a good chat with your boyfriend.

    No matter what the reason is, it is normal for you to have such thoughts, and if you want to live a happier life, you need to let your boyfriend know some of your little emotions.

    Maybe it's just that I have such an impulse because of some of my own reasons, so I have to learn to chat with my boyfriend. Share some unhappy things in your heart with him, and he will also give him some small suggestions.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You may not particularly cherish your boyfriend, or you have been with your boyfriend for too long, or you should leave your boyfriend for a while, you should still think about your feelings, you must still like your boyfriend, but you don't feel it yet, so don't go with it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Ask questions to share yourself with other girls, and that girl is interesting to him.

    What do you think? Asked a question, got it.

    Asking questions, alas, or tangled.

    So if you don't be cruel to yourself, someone will treat you very well in the future.

    Asking questions together for three years.

    Did you tell him that this is your bottom line problem, and then let him change it.

    Ask him and he will change, but I can't trust it.

    You can go and make a comparison table, write the benefits on the left, and the bad points on the right, compare the two, and then make a choice.

    Once you feel bad in your heart when you ask a question, it is difficult to think of other good things.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Maybe it's because you're used to it, you're unwilling, you're reluctant, you want to love it, you love it well, and if you don't want to love, you will separate immediately, otherwise both of you will hurt more deeply, you just don't get used to it now, you need to have his life, that is to say, if there is another excellent boy chasing you now, good to you, and can completely replace your current boyfriend's position, you won't be so entangled.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can talk about it well and see if the problem between you can be solved, if it can't be solved, it is best to separate. Since you don't want to be separated from him, you have to make some changes for him, so that the two of you will be happier when you live together, otherwise you will break up because you are unhappy after a long time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you are very reluctant to part with your boyfriend now, then you don't want to separate from your boyfriend, then go to a good relationship with your boyfriend, maybe you will change your boyfriend's attitude, and you will like your boyfriend again, so try to do it once.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you are not willing to give up, you must also be willing, a relationship without feelings is unlikely to have results, and sooner or later there will be a day when you break up, so if you are late, it is better to separate earlier, and don't waste each other's time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you don't like your boyfriend, then you have to make sure that you really don't like him, not a momentary impulse, otherwise it will cause regret. In addition, he is reluctant to score because he has made too many comebacks, so it is difficult to choose for a while.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think you don't like him anymore, so break up with him, you are reluctant to break up, it's just that you're still thinking about a little memory from the past, but the two of you have no feelings now, so you can't create new memories.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you are particularly reluctant to have this relationship of yours, it means that you still have this kind of feeling for your boyfriend, but you don't like your boyfriend anymore, so I think you should still stick to it, as long as you particularly like your current life, you can be with your boyfriend again.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you don't like your boyfriend, then you should break up with him, don't force the two of you to be together because you are reluctant, so that you can't give him happiness. You won't be happy either.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If we don't like the things we usually use, we will throw them in the trash without hesitation.

    Falling in love is similar to everyday life.

    If you really don't like your boyfriend anymore, you can't wait to break up with him, but you can't help it now, which means that you don't like it anymore, but you have something that needs to be run in, and there has been no way to solve it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Since you've lost the novelty of your boyfriend, you shouldn't be with him because you can't give him your heart. It's time-consuming, and it's a disservice for both you and your boyfriend.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you have such an idea now, I think you should still go to be with your boyfriend, you must have your boyfriend in your heart, but the two of you will get a little tired of getting along for a long time, so it's better to stick to your own idea of getting along.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Since you chose to be together in the first place, it proves that you love each other. The feeling of liking someone may slowly lose the excitement and excitement of the first meeting as it was at the beginning, and it is more of a tacit understanding and tolerance of each other, and that kind of vigorous love may become a family affection. Since you are reluctant, it means that you still have him in your heart!

    So it's best not to break up easily.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    After the fresh stage of the early stage of love, there is no strong freshness of you and me, and it is not possible to break up, after all, you have been together for a period of time, you know each other so much, you will not be separated directly, you feel reluctant, that is, you don't really dislike your boyfriend.

    Finding the right other half, it's not easy, cherish it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you are reluctant to break up, it means that you are still very concerned about your boyfriend, or you still like him a little, this is your true inner thought, you don't like him may be your temporary decision, it is your superficial thoughts, you are reluctant to break up, it means that you still have memories, there are still concerns, there is this feeling, you should not break up, you should continue to deal with.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't like my boyfriend anymore, but I am reluctant to break up, which means that you still like him, but as the time between you continues, the relationship becomes a little weaker. It's not as enthusiastic as it was back then.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Maybe in the process of getting along with each other, you slowly actually have a sense of family affection or dependence, so even if you don't like it, you will still be reluctant to break up.

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