How can you forget someone you ve liked for 3 years

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's easy to like someone, but it's hard to forget. So you can only hope for time to help you forget about him. Believe me, deliberately forgetting a person will remember it more firmly, and the more you want to forget, the more you can't forget.

    It's better to go with the flow, and when you suddenly think of him, don't force yourself not to think about it, just think about his good, think about his bad, think about your incompatible personalities, and think about why you failed. One day, you really find that you don't have feelings for him anymore, but it is another boy who makes you feel like a heartbeat.

    I had a crush on a boy I grew up with for 8 years, and I couldn't forget anything, and I never even had a boyfriend, and I was afraid of getting hurt. It wasn't until I met him now that I realized that my heart was not love, but just a simple heartbeat. Now I don't even know what that boy looks like, but I still have this person in my heart, just like a classmate, a neighbor.

    It doesn't make any sense. So, don't worry, sooner or later, you'll forget about this heartbeat like me. I think this is a process that people must go through to become mature, and it should be worth being happy because it makes you understand what kind of person is really suitable for you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Since you and he both know that you are impossible, you should be sensible. It's not that you really like him now, but that you've always been possessive of him. Let's say he's with another girl and you're having a hard time.

    It's not because you really love him, it's just that you feel like your stuff has been snatched away.

    The more you want to forget, the harder it is for you to forget him. Look at this with a normal mind. You will find that you take him too seriously.

    Find someone worthy of your love, and don't waste years for him anymore.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I appreciate you very much, because you really love, only the true heart will be hard to forget, I am the same as you, I still remember my memory!

    Friend, face life, you have begun to mature, take it as a memory, and try to live!

    I believe that you will meet a better partner in your future life!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Is there such a person in your heart?

    You may have loved each other, you may have liked each other, but for what reason haven't you been together?

    Maybe he can't chase you for the sake of righteousness between friends.

    Maybe you weren't together for the sake of your family's opinions.

    Maybe in order to go abroad for further study, he didn't ask you to wait for him.

    Maybe you met too early and don't know how to cherish each other.

    Maybe you met too late and you already have another person by your side.

    Maybe you're too late to turn back, and the other person is no longer waiting.

    Maybe you're trying to get out of each other's hearts.

    But even though you're not together, you're still friends. But you know in your hearts that you care more about this person than your friends. Even if you can't just hold hands with him and go shopping, you can still be friends who talk about everything.

    He has someone he likes, and you will help him chase him verbally, but you don't really know if you really want him to chase him.

    When he is in trouble, you will do your best to help him, regardless of who owes him. When your boyfriend and girlfriend are jealous, you will reassure them that you and he are just friends, but there will be a trace of uncertainty in your heart. Everyone has had this special friend in their hearts in their lives, and they have very contradictory behaviors.

    At first, you were unwilling to just be friends, but after a long time, you suddenly found that this is the best.

    You'd rather care about him like that than you'd be together and break up someday.

    You'd rather be his friend and not be jealous of each other, so you can really talk about everything.

    Especially so, you still know that he will always care about you. can't be a boyfriend and girlfriend, what's wrong with being his special friend? This special friend in your heart. Who is it?

    A lot of feelings, because of wishful thinking, in the end even friends can't become, often feel sorry, but unfortunately some originally good friendships, but in the end because the other party likes you, if you don't react, this friendship seems to be difficult to maintain, it's no wonder that some people will not take this step because of this.

    Because it's like a bet, after confessing, you either become a boyfriend and girlfriend, or you can't even be a friend. Some things are not expected by you, maybe the other person doesn't care, you can still be friends, but it's not as good as before. It's a pity, it's a pity!

    But there is another possibility that you may never be willing to be just friends. .ENDS).

    Dear friends, I hope you can also feel the essence of the article! Please don't forget to send this article to your netizens, sending this silent sincerity and faint blessings

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Like you, people like us are probably stupid and stupid. So what can I do, that's the only way, I have to do it. There are some things that cannot be done by will.

    I've liked him for 5 years, but he's a scorpio who can't figure it out, hehe. Now I don't know what to do, and it's probably become a habit. Leave time to slowly quit this addiction of attachment?

    I don't know, time just buried him deeper in my memory, and it hurt more when I think about it inadvertently. But I don't want to be like this for the rest of my life, I plan to find an opportunity to make it clear, and face it directly, whether it is hurt or not, at least it is an excuse for myself.

    If you don't feel it in person, you can cry on the computer. Hehe, that's what I planned, there should always be an ending. That is, the mission is destined.

    I hope we are all brave enough to face a different tomorrow

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After falling out of love, we always like to ask:

    How can I forget him? I wanted to forget him, but I just couldn't. ”

    If you can't forget him, don't forget him.

    Why so painfully forget someone? Time will naturally make you forget him.

    Now, I ask you not to think about a big stupid pink elephant.

    Excuse me, what do you have in mind?

    You immediately think of a big pink stupid elephant.

    The harder you try to forget, the more you can't forget.

    It is a matter of course to still love him and not forget him, and there is no need to feel ashamed.

    Some people can't forget, but they deceive themselves and say:

    I've forgotten about him. ”

    However, as long as others mention him, she can't control herself.

    One day, you'll forget about him.

    True forgetting doesn't take effort.

    One day, you came out of the bathroom and took a shower, twisted the record player to listen to your favorite **, you suddenly remembered that you once loved someone, ah, it turned out that you loved this person, it seemed to be a very distant thing, and you didn't feel it at all. That's forgetting.

    One day, when someone mentions so-and-so, you suddenly remember that you once loved this person, but now you don't remember. That's forgetting.

    If time can't make you forget those you shouldn't remember, what's the point of the years we've lost?

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Damn, what are you afraid of, there is nothing impossible in the world, be brave, tell him that you like him, and try to get him done, or that's it! Even if you can't figure it out, and you give up in the end, it's much easier to forget about him!!

    Attention, you can't forget him, because you still have him psychologically, because you feel that there is still a little hope, because you haven't done anything, you are unwilling!!

    Therefore, you just fight hard, love to fight to win, maybe he sees your brave side, will change the impression of you. Most of the time, it's harder for guys to resist girls who are very active!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'm also a Scorpio, a person who also disappoints me and we're in a similar situation.

    I think we can't forget it for the rest of our lives, at most, it's just to hide him for the time being, but he will always jump out at some inadvertent moment, filling your brain, and forgetting can't do it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think everyone has things that they want to forget and can't forget, it may be emotional, it may be things. We all try to forget about these unpleasantness.

    But at the same time, we will be very helpless to find that we can't forget at all, and I think to say that forgetting is self-deception, because whether we see or come into contact with some previous things or things, it will remind us of those unpleasant things or people.

    But I don't think anyone will live in their memories forever. I think we will downplay it and replace it for different reasons, it may be time, it may be someone, or something or something. So when we want to forget, I think the most important thing to do is not to deliberately forget, that will only make you deepen your memory, do something you like, or play more, relax, maybe you will find people, things, and things that can help you get out of your memory. ls

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'm a boy and had the same experience as you when I was in high school. I had a crush on the same table for 2 years, and later, I learned to smoke, and after becoming addicted, I quit smoking, smoked again, and quit smoking again, which worked. You can give it a try.

    Until now, I'm still alone, and although I often reminisce about the past, I smile at it.

    Bless you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Find something meaningful to do: Deflect your attention from him and try to meet him as much as possible.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hehe! Just make it clear to him that there will be two results!

    You're all right! 2.You two are not okay!

    But you know what he does to you, and it's not worth thinking about him!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You are theoretically a crush, and your current mentality towards him is not just love, you have developed a possessive desire! You want to get him, it's not that you really like him, you have forgotten about him

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Let time slowly dilute everything.

    You can also exercise to exercise you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you know it's impossible, why do you want to be persistent? Keep this feeling in your heart.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When a relationship ends, it is when a new relationship begins. It's as simple as that.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You just like it, it's not love, it's not that you can't get rid of it, it's that you can't accept reality.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Think about his shortcomings!

    Treat the advantages as the disadvantages!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Like a person for only one day, forget that a person has to use it for a lifetime Hey

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Time is the antidote to any problem.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I'm also a Scorpio, has my true destiny appeared? Someone who also let me down.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I'm the same way, I can't forget it, keep it up with him!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I have the water of forgetfulness.

    Do you want to joke pull.

    Since you've liked it before

    Is it really that simple to forget?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You're just like me. We are all lonely.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I want to say to you that self-directed and self-acted funny is dead I look down on you la ji

    jian b

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Forget that someone you like is studying and working, traveling, starting over with another person, and getting together with friends.

    1. Study and work.

    The way for many people to fall out of love is to turn themselves into a workaholic, and let themselves temporarily forget that person, forget the pain he brings them, forget his smile and all the moments that make you feel excited. However, this method may cause damage to the body and is very detrimental to one's health. You can increase the workload appropriately, but don't do it too much.

    Sogou asked. 2. Travel.

    Do you believe in the power of nature? Magical nature can help forget everything with its charm. When you are in an endless wheat field and an endless sea, it will make your whole person very transparent, and even let you understand a lot of things.

    Feel the touch of nature soothing your wounds and feel the warmth of being cared for by nature.

    3. Start over with another person.

    The best way to forget a person is to start over with another person, there are many people around me who have chosen this method, but the results are not the same, some people are spoiled like a princess because they found someone who loves them more, but some people still can't forget it or their personality is not suitable. However, this method may not be fair to that person, so use it with caution.

    Sogou asked. 4. Gather with friends.

    The time spent with friends is the most carefree and worry-free. The first bend of the wine is a song, and life is geometric. How can you have friends when you are happy and have amnesia.

    Cherish your friends Ziqin Tuanran will not let you be sad alone, drag you out to party, relax, even if it can't help you a lot, but being with friends is better than sitting alone on the sofa in a daze.

    Sogou asked. Pay attention to the stuffiness of rent.

    1. When you have to contact him, try to treat him as an ordinary friend with a normal heart.

    2. Try to discover your hobbies, do something you like, and work together to empathize.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It can be said that it is very difficult to forget a person who likes to ruin the four years, but many things will be slowly forgotten over time. As the saying goes, the quickest way to forget a person is to invest in a new relationship, and you can try to invest in a new relationship and find a high-quality lover to forget about him. The second is that time is the best medicine, it will ** all your unhappy, but.

    This method will not be as efficient as the first one, allowing you to quickly forget about someone. The third way is that you have to think more about how many shortcomings there are in this person. Dig into your strengths.

    Put the rest of your attention on yourself, and do something that will enrich you to divert your attention. Socks laugh.

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