Is it time to think about breaking up? What would you consider breaking up for?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-03
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's only been a month since you met your parents? You're really anxious!! She doesn't seem to care much about you!

    You must know that girls love the protection and care of their boyfriends! If you don't care about any of this, it's no fun... Maybe she doesn't even know how she feels!! Aren't you annoyed too?

    Then try it separately! If it's easy to separate from, then it's over completely! If you find out the good of the other party after separation, you will find out what you really feel in your heart, and it is never too late to start again!

    After all, you're not in a good place right now! Proper conditioning is a must!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you feel tired, break up!

    If you say that, it means that she is not suitable for you at all.

    Two people should be very sweet and happy together!

    Think it out for yourself!

    My advice is for reference only, but you should talk to her before you propose to break up, so that it won't be awkward to meet ...... later

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Can't stand it after only a month? If you don't like it, divide it, so do you like her or not?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I want to ask you, how much do you love her, and you don't share hardships, if you have, don't give up, if not, I suggest you, give her the matter to solve, because, I think it depends on whether she will change for you, then, you are looking at what you think, the right to decide, in your hands, success or failure, do not be influenced by others, other people's, can only be suggestions, this point should be remembered.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Let me tell you this, you don't have much chance of being together, you can think about your relationship carefully, maybe she doesn't have feelings for you. Purely personal opinion ...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think you're going to split it up. It feels like she's not very attentive to you. That is to say, he doesn't have much feelings for you, I think your relationship is either introduced, or it is still a blind date, hehe, find someone who likes yourself is also the type you like, I believe there will be, think about it.

    Your relationship. I need to find it for my own happiness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There is also a possibility that he really likes you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I would consider breaking up because the other person's original family was not good. Marriage is not just a simple union of two people, it is a matter of two families. And if the other party's family of origin has problems, then it means that the person has grown up in an unhealthy environment of the family of origin, and his body and mind will be affected by the family of origin.

    Therefore, the other party's family problems will also become a key issue to consider in a relationship.

    In fact, this is very similar to the "family pair", the original family can actually reflect the other party's growth environment and character, if the gap between the two families is too big, then the education is not the same, the attitude towards things is also different, it is difficult for two people to get along, and it is inevitable to encounter differences and contradictions. The point is that neither side has a way to understand each other, after all, two people grew up in different environments and cannot empathize and understand each other.

    Many people feel very happy when they watch the story of Cinderella when they are young, but the probability of success in real life is extremely low, a rich second generation and the daughter of a poor family, even if they get married, their married life will not be happy, it is inevitable that there will be a rich mother-in-law in the TV series who looks down on the poor family and daughter-in-law, this is the reality, fairy tales are just fairy tales.

    The influence of the original family on a person's mind is a lifetime, although many people are not aware of it, but this influence is in the bones, and it is not something that can be changed by oneself after adulthood. Many children of domestic violence families will also have a tendency to domestic violence, and many children from divorced families have a weak concept of family, some people are very eager for the family, and some people have no sense of responsibility for the family, which is the impact of the original family, and there is no way to change it in a lifetime.

    In fact, to a certain extent, the relationship between parents and the mode of getting along will have a very serious psychological impact on the child, although it cannot be seen on the surface, but it will slowly manifest itself after the child gets married and grows up. If the difference between the two families is too great, then there will definitely be problems in the process of getting along. Many children learn from their parents' behaviors, and this unconscious behavior often has the deepest impact on children.

    So when the other party's original family is not good, I will always worry, even if there is only a one percent possibility, I will give up because of this. After all, after getting married, no one can guarantee that they will not be affected by the original quiet pants family.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Definitely take into account the feelings of the other person.

    Because after all, this is a former lover, and I still hope that everyone can break up peacefully and give each other a decent ending.

    1. Considering the other party's feelings is also respecting your own dedication to the relationship.

    When falling in love, he will always consider the other person's feelings in many ways, hoping that he can feel his love and care in it.

    But considering the other person's feelings when breaking up is to respect your own dedication in this relationship. will choose to break up, it must be that after making various efforts, I found that I still can't change the status quo, the relationship between the two people is getting farther and farther apart, and there is no better choice than to break up. In this case, you may regret the time you spent on this relationship, or you may secretly resent why the other party no longer likes you, and you may even secretly swear that you will never meet the person in front of you again.

    All kinds of emotions may come to mind, but the past will eventually pass. Instead of facing each other with these negative emotions, it is better to think about it, remember the good things that the other party once gave, forget these unhappy pasts, and give yourself a chance to start over.

    Second, I hope to give my former lover a decent look.

    In fact, when you fall in love, you can't predict the final outcome at all. Therefore, it is difficult to distinguish right from wrong in the relationship, it is better to give the other party a decent one when they finally break up, and everyone reaches a consensus and breaks up peacefully. Considering the other person's feelings when breaking up in person does not actually represent a softness in one's attitude.

    In fact, on the contrary, at this time, your heart should be particularly resolute and sober. Know what you need and what you should give up. No matter what the other person will say, they will not change their minds.

    So I personally think of the other person's feelings as my last tenderness to the other person. After the breakup, everyone is a stranger and will not contact each other again, so it is best to give each other a perfect and peaceful ending.

    All in all, I'm sure to consider the other person's feelings. On the one hand, it is to respect what I have paid, and on the other hand, it is also my own relief, and I hope everyone will end it decently.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If these problems arise between couples, there is a high probability that they are not far from breaking up. If you don't want to be a victim in love, then it is better to learn to stop losses in time in this bad love, which can also reduce the damage to your feelings. If you are hesitant to break up, it is okay to recognize the signs of a breakup.

    If you meet these 5 points, consider whether it's time to break up.

    Words are not speculative. Don't speculate for more than half a sentence, whether it is a friend or a close lover, if you say that you are talking about things and talking about things, and more and more times, then this bad relationship will also affect your mood and thus affect your work and life, and your personal growth is extremely unfavorable.

    Turning over old accounts. There are contradictions between two people together, if there is a person who often does not contain the contradictions, but to intensify the contradictions, to clarify that he has no hope for this kind of feelings, everyone has certain flaws, he has long grasped your flaws, and clarified that he basically does not care about you, and your relationship also has certain problems.

    I don't care about the mood of the other party.

    If two people are together and lose their care, the other person's affairs are not interested, whether you are happy or painful, the other party has not wanted to ask, this time it means that there has been no affection between the two people.

    No longer trust each other.

    If there is no trust in your relationship, for example, if he thinks that you are always hooking up with others, and you seem to see him flirting, then this will exacerbate the feeling of distrust between them.

    Can't communicate. Communication is an important way to build and maintain any relationship. Without communication and communication, it is difficult to say that we can deal with the contradictions between each other, let alone have any spiritual collisions. Feelings that don't communicate effectively must be terrible.

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