Methods and strategies for emotional management in young children

1. Parents should first realize that tantrums are a common psychological phenomenon in the process of children's growth, and do not regard children's easy tantrums as a failure of family education, and according to the American parent-child communication expert Patti's Liang Jieyou, tantrums are actually one of the child's psychological mechanisms, with the help of this process, children will vent many bad emotions, such as frustration and helplessness. So don't just force the process to end it.

2. There is no unprovoked temper, when the child has a tantrum, parents should also learn to find the reason behind the temper, for example, whether they ignore a certain need of the child? Does Mieda handle conflicts in her own way makes your child feel unfair? Does your child experience any learning disabilities?

And so on, this kind of questioning is easier to help you prescribe the right medicine, and the child will learn to put himself in the shoes of his parents from the understanding way of dealing with them.

3. It is important to learn to accept the child's temper, but if you don't have enough patience to deal with the child's temper, don't hold on, you can let other family members help pay attention to the safety of the child in the temper storm, go to another room to calm down, and explain to the child before leaving, such as "Mom feels that her head is almost **, it seems that Mom needs to calm down" and the like, but don't say something like "I don't like you if I cry again", "Come to me again when I cry enough" and the like, We can let the child see the limit of his patience, but we cannot deny the child's emotions and add to the child's pain.

First of all, parents should not often be in front of their children, compare with other children of the same age, this behavior will add invisible burden and pressure to the child's psychology, and even produce inferiority complex, parents should praise the child in a timely manner in the case of the child's good performance, give him her inner self-confidence and happiness.

Secondly, children's emotional control can be exercised through small methods such as clay plasticine sculptures, breathing relaxation and regulation and doll dialogues, and at the same time, the pressure accumulated in children's hearts can be well displayed and vented.

In addition, you can sign up for some targeted children's emotional management courses, so that specialized preschool teachers can enlighten children's emotions and develop a brain thinking training mode for thinking problems, maintain a balanced and happy mood, and also have more opportunities to interact with children to play, so as to enhance children's emotional guidance and understanding ability.

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When a child is angry, what kind of changes are taking place in his body and heart? What should parents do when their children are not cooperative? How do children spend their lonely moments?

In the places where parents don't know how to guide, in the corners that parents tend to ignore, we use the intangible things such as emotions and character to concretize the emotions and character with easy-to-understand plots and suitable character images through the study of children's psychological characteristics, and guide children to correctly handle their various emotions from the perspective of understanding children, and consciously cultivate excellent characters such as outlook on life and values.

The methods and strategies for managing emotions in kindergarten children are as follows:

1. Positive guidance method. Guide children to transform from negative emotions to positive emotions, and teach children to look at problems with an optimistic attitude. For example:

The bird in the cage flew away, and the toddler was very sad, and the mother told him that the bird also missed his mother, and that it would be very happy when it flew out with its mother, so that the toddler was also happy for the bird, and was no longer sad. There are two sides to everything, and parents must guide their children to face problems positively and optimistically, and work the good side.

2. Catharsis. Guide children to vent their emotions reasonably. Children's ability to deal with negative emotions is still very weak, if adults do not guide them, wild and clever so that negative emotions can not be vented in children's hearts, which will affect children's physical and mental health.

Of course, we can't let children vent their emotions casually, we have to grasp a good degree, we have to do a scientific positive guidance, and teach children to vent their negative emotions in the right way. Give children the time and space to vent, listen to the words with their hearts, and give them love, understanding and guidance.

3. Game transfer method. When a toddler has negative emotions, we encourage him to play and do things that interest him, so as to divert his attention. In the game, children's cognitive level and ability to deal with troublesome problems are improved, positive emotions are generated, and the adverse effects of negative emotions are eliminated.