What does the meaning of Tomoko s suspicious neighbor mean?

In the event of an incident, it is necessary to investigate and study, and not to make subjective assumptions.

Listen to the right opinions.

The moral of "Zhizi Suspicious Neighbors" is: you can't use relatives and distance as the standard for judging others, you should treat the opinions of others politely, start from reality, and treat all kinds of opinions around you without discrimination, so that you can clearly judge the status quo and make correct and appropriate decisions.

Zhizi is an idiom allusion, from "Han Feizi: Difficult to Say". As the name suggests, in fact, the title of this story has revealed its moral of it, Zhizi suspicious neighbor means: "I think my son is smart and witty, but I doubt my neighbor", which reveals that Lu Shi's "Zhizi suspicious neighbor" is a story that divides good and bad because of kinship.

When giving the right advice, you should consider your relationship with the listener, otherwise it will cause unnecessary trouble. Listening to opinions should only be heard from the right ones, not by who made them, and should not be biased against people.

The original translation of "Zhizi Suspicious Neighbor".

1. Original text. There are rich people in Song, and the sky rain wall is bad. His son said:"If you don't build it, there will be thieves. "The father of his neighbor is also Yun. In the twilight of his life, his family is very wise and his son is suspicious, and he is suspicious of the father of his neighbors.

2. Translation. There was a rich man in the Song Kingdom, and one day it rained, and the wall of the rich man's house was destroyed. His son said:

If you don't build it quickly, thieves will come in. The old man next door said the same. Sure enough, a large amount of belongings were lost that night.

His family admired their son's cleverness, but suspected that the old man next door had committed the theft.

We warn people that if they do not respect the facts and only use intimacy and affection as the criterion for judging right and wrong, they will make subjective assumptions and draw wrong conclusions. Listen to other people's opinions, choose the right one, and don't look at the relationship between the people who put forward the opinions and the relationship between the people who put forward the opinions and the people who read the divination, and you can't be prejudiced against people.

The moral of Zhizi's suspicion of neighbor is that when giving correct advice, it is necessary to consider the relationship between self-leasing and the listener, otherwise it will cause unnecessary trouble.

Zhizi is suspicious of neighbors, is an idiom allusion, from the "Yan Zexu Chapter" in "Han Feizi Says Difficult".

Original text: Zhizi is suspicious of his neighbor, Song has a rich man, and the sky rain wall is bad. His son said, "If you don't build it, there will be thieves." The father of his neighbor is also Yun. In the twilight of his life, his family is very wise and his son is suspicious, and he is suspicious of the father of his neighbors.

Translation: There was a rich man in the Song Kingdom, and one day it rained and the wall of the rich man's house was destroyed. His son said:

If you don't build it quickly, thieves will come in. The old man next door said the same. Sure enough, a large amount of belongings were lost that night.

His family admired their son's cleverness, but suspected that the old man next door had done the theft.

Analysis:

From the old man of the neighbor said, kindness is not rewarded, it comes down to the shallow words, from the reputation of this person, silence is golden. This layer is not to say. This clearly shows that it is wrong to criticize the master's family, and the same opinions have different attitudes because of the distance between relatives, the so-called "thin people are suspicious".

It means that intimacy is a kind of hindrance, hindering the master's understanding of the truth and falsehood.

In fact, Han Fei's original intention was not to criticize the master's family of "Zhiqizi suspicious of his neighbor", this fable is found in the chapter "Difficult to Say", which means how difficult it is to persuade others, because everyone is in a different position. This was accepted by Han Fei as a fact, so his main goal was to study the precautions that would help others listen to him. The shallowness of the relationship is one of the precautions, so the original intention of Han Fei's fable is to criticize the practice of the rich - they are treated differently because of their different identities.

"Tomoko suspicious neighbor" means to give the same advice for the same thing, and in the eyes of the master's family, the son is very intelligent, while the neighbor's old man is suspicious. It is usually used as a shallow and indescribable sophistication lesson. To listen to the opinions of others, we must choose the right one, and we should not look at the relationship between the person who put forward the opinion and ourselves, and we should not be prejudiced against others.

Source: Yan Zexu. It means:

There was a rich man in the Song Kingdom, and the wall collapsed due to heavy rain. His son said, "If you don't build it, thieves will come in."

The old man in their neighborhood said the same. The rich man's house had lost a lot of belongings that night, and the family thought that their son was very witty, but suspected that the old man of the neighbor's family had stolen it. This story is often used as a shallow and indescribable lesson in the world.

Background: The Spring and Autumn Period.

Excerpt from "Han Feizi: Difficult to Say" ("Han Feizi's New School Note", Shanghai Ancient Books Publishing House, 2000 edition), the title is added by the editor. The author is Han Fei (Han Feizi) (c. 280-233 BC), a famous thinker at the end of the Warring States period and the culmination of the ideas of the Legalists. His works are included in "Han Feizi".