How should we face real life after the 90s?

No matter what we do, we have to face life, escape is not necessarily hidden, facing is not necessarily the most uncomfortable, loneliness is not necessarily unhappy, getting is not necessarily long, loss is not necessarily no more, turning around is not necessarily the weakest, don't rush to say that there is no choice, don't think that the world is only right and wrong, there is more than one answer to many things, so we have a way to go, you can find a reason to be sad, you can also find a reason to be happy! People who know how to relax find relaxation, people who know how to forget find freedom, people who know how to care find friends, the cold weather is not cold, the heart is cold, and there is love in the heart to not be lonely! Life is short, and everything is fleeting.

Life is accidental, and death is inevitable. Why bother asking questions about some unnecessary people, things, feelings, and hearts? What if you get it?

What if you can't get it? Life is an accident, death is an inevitability! The process of living, this is life!

Don't ask yourself to take every step is right, only ask yourself to take every step is no regrets, life is enough! Find the value of your existence while you are alive! Make your life a little fuller!

Since you have come to this world once, you can live with him once! To live, you must have your own "goals" and "dreams", and paint a few colors on your life! If you can't find the value of your own existence, think about yourself, give yourself an explanation, give your parents, friends, and the one you love the most!

Man, live for yourself. Meaning is working towards one's own goals. Success takes sweat.

Success, failure, laughter, crying, every link to the fullest, enjoy. On the contrary, if a person does not have ideals, what is done is to do it for others to see, what can he experience, people can not even experience these by themselves, enjoy, 2) look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you walked, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you is actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, Why don't you be happy every day". 3) Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. In a word: people want to live a wonderful life, come on!.

Just send a text message to her (him) on your phone. That way, no one will be embarrassed. Good luck, I am sincere and sincere, and I hope to get your affirmation.

The current situation of the post-90s generation is that they have no money, no sex life, and are bald.

Some time ago, I saw a news report saying that the young generation of the post-90s generation has less and less sex life. The post-90s, who were once labeled as open and advanced, have less and less sex life, which refreshes the public's perception of the post-90s.

The data in the report underscores that young people are having less and less sex in Japan. In 2015, 43% of Japanese youth aged 18 to 34 had no sexual experience. Ten years ago, it was only a third.

In the 35 to 39 age group, 26 percent of women and 28 percent of men have never had sexual experience. At the same time, the proportion of unmarried people is rising.

What's more, this phenomenon is not only happening in Japan, but also in China today, where the proportion of young people who have sex is comparable to that of Japan.

The term "asexuality" is a word invented in Japan. The original intention was to describe the indifference of young Japanese people to intimacy and sexuality.

72% of office workers in China are dissatisfied with their sex life, 30% have no sex life and have been single for more than 5 years, and 12% have been single for more than 10 years.

Forty-three percent of 18-34-year-olds surveyed have never had sex, and 50 percent under the age of 30 have never tried dating. And among those who have had sex, about 48% have sex less than once a month.

Most participants said they were "sexless" because they were "working too hard" or because sex itself was "not enjoyable".

In today's China, young people are less and less interested in intimate relationships between sex and love. They are bald for life, exhausted for work, and crawling on the road to riches.

1. Even though he is only in his 20s, he has played multiple roles.

Although he is only in his 20s, people in the early 90s have begun to run for three, many people have already married and had children, the ties of firewood, rice, oil and salt, the crying of children in the middle of the night, the disturbance of family trivialities, ** and the energy to read more books, thinking about how to work, how to take care of children, and how to ...... every day

Although he is only in his 20s, he plays many roles, different times, different places, different roles, and he must always consider which role is more important, do the important first, and gradually forget to do the unimportant ones, huh? How do I feel that my memory is not as good as before.

2. On weekends, I can't sleep for a long time, and the bedroom is at home for a long time, so I go to the living room to relax.

It is said that 9 to 5, how much time is really such a job, if it is really like this, I am afraid the salary will not be too high. Regardless of whether it is urban or rural, it may be difficult for civil servants to do such work. So, the usual work is really tiring.

3. I didn't get off the list in school, and now it's more difficult to rely on myself.

We found that in first-tier cities, there are more and more single people. It's not that they want to be single, it's just that it's too difficult to meet someone with the same trajectory as themselves. In life, everyone has their own way of life, and no one wants to interfere with others, let alone force others into their own lives.

Gradually, I got used to the life of a person, and gradually the grades became bigger and bigger, and I gradually wanted to live alone.

That's it, I get old when I walk, and in this way, the nagging of the family urging marriage has turned into a sigh, and just like that, holding my hand and envying others. In this way, watching the sunset by the stream alone, I gradually got used to my current living state, and comforted myself in my heart, "Actually, it's good to live alone", thinking about it, tears unconsciously flowed down.

The current situation of the post-90s**: no house, no deposit, no object, no face to go home!

Sleep as late as you can, watch as many TV series as you want, get up as late as you can, get up as late as you can, it's impossible to get up early, unless you are forced to be helpless, otherwise there is no post-90s generation who is willing to get up early to waste time sleeping at night.

The post-90s generation is burdened with the responsibilities of the post-80s generation and lives the life of the post-00s. The post-80s generation is now almost all in pairs, giving birth to babies with babies, and living a harmonious family life. But there are also many who are still in debt.

Now the post-90s generation is in the most embarrassing era, it is too late to fall in love, too early to get married, and it seems that they are too young to follow the post-80s, and they are too old to follow the post-00s. I swore all day long that I didn't want to be a moonlight clan, but at the end of every month, I was always worried that the bank card balance was insufficient, and on the one hand, I said that I wanted to get rid of the single, and on the other hand, I said that I was a single aristocrat, and I obviously admitted the fact that I was old, but the next second I said that I was still a baby.

All of these represent that the current situation of the post-90s generation is "no car, no house, no money, single hair loss, and getting older".

People in their 20s still have to worry about their parents, and they are no longer worried about not having enough food and clothing, but worrying about whether their children are happy when they are outside.

Although poverty alleviation and hair loss are very sad, it is easier to get lucky than to get rich, and there is no happier than these while working hard and eating and drinking healthily.

Although retirement was delayed as soon as he was employed, the speed of wages can never catch up with housing prices, and he lives at an age when he is at a loss, and everything is very hesitant. People who are employed did not expect that they would step into society so quickly, and people who got married did not expect that they would enter the palace of marriage so quickly.

Who will understand the current situation of the post-90s?

The current situation of the post-90s generation is relatively lazy but difficult, their generation faces a lot of difficulties, neither the opportunities of the generation, nor the opportunities of the post-family, so the post-90s are more difficult, but they are very lazy, they only like to hold the mobile phone as a whole, fantasies.

The current situation of the post-90s generation is that they are only in their twenties, but they are thinking about a successful career in their forties and fifties, but at the moment they are looking like a muddy nightmare, and "debt" has become synonymous with them.

The post-90s generation began to run for three, and our generation is struggling in the sea of hardship of the examination for the public entrance examination, running around in the life of two points and one line, and is anxious about the marriage urging of parents and relatives, and is busy every day as if they are at war.

This was the way people lived in the 90s, and open-air toilets were out of place.

The post-90s generation is not the fate of the little emperor as the older generation speaks, but in the era when they lost themselves with the clock, they went to school, wrote homework, and went to cram school every day. In this high-tech information age, the 90's is facing fierce competition.

The post-90s generation is facing competition, although they have a rich life, a computer, and a mobile phone, they have lost their innocence, because most of them are only children. There are no brothers and sisters to play, and the face is just some machines, and life is rich, and the pressure is great.

Spend in advance, what credit cards, all kinds of loans.

1. Do whatever you want.

Compared with the post-80s, in fact, the conditions of the post-90s are much better, and there are many post-90s who are born with good conditions and grew up with a golden key in their mouths, and their life path is very smooth.

Because they don't lack anything, don't lack RVs, and don't lack material girlfriends, they can live their natural life without getting up early every day, without worrying about the cold winter and the moon, and without worrying about when their wealth will be spent, so for some post-90s, doing what they want is a daily state.

2. Never compromise and resist desperately.

There is also such a group of post-90s generations, they have been tortured since childhood, spent every day in ridicule and ridicule and uneasiness, have no material foundation, were not born in a warm and happy family, and endured the strange eyes of the public when they grew up, not expected or favored.

Then, the attitude of these people towards life is naturally that they must resist, they must rely on their own will and ability to get out of the predicament, and use their best efforts to prove their meaning, they work hard to make money, and use their hands that have suffered many vicissitudes to try to live like a normal person.

3. Escape from your comfort zone, dream firmly, and never give up.

The post-90s generation was once looked down upon and called the Adou who couldn't be supported, just like the post-80s generation who were questioned at the beginning, no matter what, every group will have a bad side.

There may be some ordinary post-90s generations, who do a fixed job every day, get a meager salary, have no house or car, live in a dilapidated rental house, and don't even dare to expect such a thing as marrying a daughter-in-law, and even depressed and drunk every day.

But as they grow up, more post-90s generations are living more and more self-disciplined, they can get up at six o'clock in the morning every day and exercise for an hour; You can go to work in advance, do a good job of daily work planning, and do work summary and learning; It is also possible to choose not to play games, watch TV, and so on after work, instead of playing games, watching TV, and so on.

With the comprehensive growth of the post-90s group, the positive energy they show is becoming more and more obvious, and more post-90s choose to take life more seriously, have an indomitable heart, firm dreams, and no fear, no matter how rugged the road is, they can go on fearlessly.

The post-90s generation believes that life is full of opportunities, and they will go to the adventures, not afraid of the difficulties and dangers ahead, only have their own goals in their eyes, and do not give up easily.

Enjoy life, don't think too much about the future days, pursue the happiness of the present life, see the difficulties of life clearly, but be full of hope for life.

The attitude of the post-90s generation towards life is like an unbeatable Xiaoqiang, although they will be lost for a while after encountering setbacks, they will quickly resurrect with full blood and strive to make themselves better.

The post-90s generation will not be as diligent and thrifty as their parents, they pay attention to enjoying life, paying attention to consumption, and they are consuming ahead of time.

I think the attitude of the post-90s generation towards life has a kind of calmness after encountering it, and they clearly recognize the reality and know their future direction.

Know how to enjoy life, can't endure any hardship, treat life positively and optimistically, and be full of hope and expectation for the future.

The attitude of the post-90s generation towards life is more casual and purposeless, after all, people's living conditions are better now, and they spend money lavishly.

Believing that life is full of opportunities, they welcome challenges and change, and are always fully armed to break new ground.