The rise of two headed marriage in Jiangsu and Zhejiang regions, do you think it will become a new

Nowadays, many young people do not have much yearning for marriage, and everyone is afraid of marriage. A new type of marriage model has emerged in Jiangsu and Zhejiang, and it is being accepted by more and more people. The so-called two-headed marriage means that the husband and wife can still live in their respective homes after obtaining a marriage certificate, and both parties are generally only children, and the two-headed marriage family has no marriage, no bride price and no dowry.

They generally have two children, one with the father's surname and the other with the mother's surname, and both of them will raise each other. In a two-headed family, the children call both the parents grandparents. Regarding the rise of "two-headed marriage" in Jiangsu and Zhejiang, do you think it will become a new model of marriage in the future?

Finally, young people nowadays are generally afraid of marriage and do not yearn for marriage, so two-headed marriage solves this problem well.

1. The inevitable trend of economic development

Nowadays, the society is developing rapidly and the economy is becoming more and more developed, so it is an inevitable marriage model to marry at both ends in developed cities.

Women's social status is getting higher and higher, and women are no longer dependent on men in marriage, so two-headed marriage is a win-win marriage model for both parties.

Three: The marriage form of two-headed marriage can solve the phenomenon of young people's fear of marriage

Nowadays, young people are generally afraid of marriage and do not yearn for marriage, so two-headed marriage solves this problem very well. After getting married, you can still live in your own home, and you don't have to have conflicts over the bride price and dowry.

I don't think this will be a new model for future marriages. Because "two-headed marriage" is not easy to enhance each other's feelings, there is no difference between being single and not sought after.

Not really, this model is unacceptable to most people, and our traditional concept is that couples should live with their children and visit their parents during the New Year's holidays.

I don't think this can be a new model for marriage in the future, because this model of marriage has some drawbacks, and it is very limited, which is not conducive to the development of society.

I think it will be a new model for marriage in the future. Such a marriage takes into account the feelings of both the man's parents and the woman's parents, balancing the feelings of both parents.

I don't think it will be a new model for marriage in the future, because it is unacceptable to many women.

It's possible. Because there are more only children nowadays, no one wants to leave their parents and live in each other's homes. And the strength of the two sides is equal. This kind of family is more likely to move towards this model.

In fact, I think as long as it is suitable, there is nothing wrong, both sides feel good, we are all developing in a good direction, if this approach is indeed feasible, then it is worth promoting.

In recent years, the rise of two-headed marriage in Jiangsu and Zhejiang is a new type of marriage, compared with the traditional marriage form of "man marrying a woman" or "the woman recruiting a son-in-law", the two-headed marriage advocates that the husband and wife are still closely connected with their original family after marriage, and the form of marriage is more free, no longer emphasizing that the man marries the daughter-in-law, nor emphasizing that the woman recruits the man, more like the freedom of marriage that has always been advocated by the husband. And in a two-headed marriage, the general couple will choose to have two children, one with the father's surname and the other with the mother's surname.

As a new form of marriage, the advantages of two-headed marriage cannot be ignored. First of all, it adapts to the marriage form of a one-child family, and many of the post-80s and post-90s generations are only children, so in the case that both parents have no more children, the two-headed marriage takes into account the feelings of both parents to the greatest extent from a certain point of view, especially the woman's parents. For parents, the two-headed marriage allows the child not to devote himself to the small family and the other party's family, on the contrary, more thoughts and energy are still in the original family, and there will be no sense of abandonment.

The second is that the two-headed marriage advocates the freedom of marriage to the greatest extent. It is not limited to who marries whom, who marries whom, both parties are relatively free individuals, especially in marriage where the two parties are two independent individuals, and who needs to join whose family, or who leaves whose family. And this form of marriage has virtually begun to eliminate bad habits such as bride price and dowry, and reduce the cost of marriage for young people.

Of course, a two-headed marriage is not harmless. It is precisely because of its greatest advantages that it also contributes to its disadvantages. The two-headed marriage preserves the stickiness between the young couple and the original family to the greatest extent, but it will also lead to the lack of stickiness of the small family formed, because both parties pay more attention to their own family, and put the small family without blood in a lower position.

As a result, a series of problems arise that affect the emotions of the two.

Two-headed marriage is an emerging form of marriage in which a husband and wife continue to live in their family of origin after marriage, with one child taking the mother's surname and one child taking the father's surname.

The two-headed marriage is neither a man marrying a woman, nor is it a woman's recruitment of a man. Both men and women are married at both ends, and the husband and wife go at both ends. A two-headed marriage family generally has two children, the first of which takes the father's surname and is mainly raised by the man, and the second is the mother's surname and is mainly raised by the woman.

In a two-headed married family, there is no concept of grandparents and grandparents, and children call their parents grandparents.

It is a new form of marriage, where husband and wife live in their original family after marriage, and the marriage is more free, but it will affect the relationship between the two to a certain extent.

If you want to escape marriage, two people get married and don't separate their families, and to a certain extent, they still live with their parents, and then the children born are raised by one of them, which I don't think is good.

This can't be said to be a "two-headed marriage", maybe many people don't know what it means after reading the title.

The meaning of "two-headed marriage" means that after two people get marriedThe man's house and the woman's house stand on both sides. Live in the man's house for a while, and then take his wife and children to the woman's house to live for another period of time. Unlike traditional marriage, after marrying a husband, you rarely go back to your parents' home.

This situation is more common for both of us and our husbands and wives to be only children.

For example, in Zhejiang, one of the men or women is an only child, and when the children get married, their parents will ask them to stand on both sides after marriage, but there is nothing special about it, let alone whether it is acceptable or not. Whether it's going to the man's house for a while or going to the woman's house for a while, it's good.

You can spend more time with the elderly at homeTaking the children back can also allow the elderly to enjoy more family fun. And this is actually beneficial, living in a place for a period of time can reduce friction with the elderly at home, and after a period of time, living together for a period of time will help maintain the relationship with the family.

I myself am an only child, and my wife has a younger sister on my side, and after we get married, in addition to going out to work, if we are at home, we stand on both sides, because the distance between our two families is not very far, so we both stay in the same place for a few days, I think this is good for family harmony.

Because whether it is with your own parents or the woman's parents, if you really live together often, there will always be so many things, there will always be friction and unhappiness, so that after being separated for a period of time and then being together for a period of time, the probability of friction and unhappiness is very small?

This so-called two-headed marriage is really the depravity of human nature, and the regression of human nature is that two people form a family, and he is not doing business. He is a union of feelings. Right, it's the union of the body, it's the fit of the mind.

He is two together, not two people together, but simply accomplishes this nominal thing.

This then led to this behavior nowIncluding many bride price, it is originally a kind of etiquette, a form of thing, has now become a bargaining chip in a marriage transaction! Anyway, I think this kind of thing is a depravity of human nature, a regression of human nature.

It is summed up that these two people can't tolerate each other, and then they can't really run a family, so this kind of behavior occurs. Some people say, ah, it's progress, and then there's a rise to feminism, some awakening or something, but is that really the case?

There is no sense of happiness for childrenThere is no sense of family, no sense of ceremony, no sense of belonging! Parents feel like doing business, that is, they have partnered, so what else is necessary to get married?

There are some people who can accept this form of marriage, which is a manifestation of the progress of equality between men and women.

I think there are a lot of people who can accept this kind of two-headed marriage now. Because the two-headed marriage is produced with the development of the times, it has certain benefits and is conducive to the harmony of the family.

Most people can accept it, and it also avoids the trouble of who to go back to for the New Year.

I think that two marriages can also be happy, whether two people are happy together has nothing to do with what kind of marriage, and it has to do with people's personalities and attitudes towards feelings.

I don't think this kind of marriage will be happy, it will only make two people more free when they get along, and it is easy to have conflicts and affect the feelings between each other.

Yes, even if you don't have to pay a bride price, I don't have to pay a dowry, and the families of both sides live separately for a period of time, which I think is very good, very equal.

I can't accept this kind of marriage, I feel that such a marriage loses the meaning of marriage itself, and if I do so, it will definitely cause problems in the relationship between two people.

I can't accept it, I think husband and wife should raise children together, and children also need parents, common care, feel father's love and mother's love, and feel a harmonious family atmosphere

I won't accept it, it's really irrational and untrue, and I don't think it's going to happen.

It's really no different from trading.

First of all, this marriage model, for both husband and wife, the burden of the two families is very small, and the pressure on life is also very small, there is no need to go to the man's house to live, and there is no need to pay the woman's family to make money, no need to give a bride price, and there is no need to give a dowry, and two children are born to accompany the two families, and the young couple does not have to leave home. On the negative side, there will be some contradictions, because of some influence of traditional customs, so it will bring trouble.

1. The favorable side of two-headed marriage is to reduce the pressure on both men and women, reduce the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the contradiction between the two heads of marriage in Zhejiang is basically in the countryside, many people think that this marriage method is very good, the daughter does not have to leave home when she gets married, and the man does not have to leave home when she gets married, and lives with their respective parents, because many people are only children, which alleviates a lot of contradictions. The bride price is saved, and the dowry is not used, which reduces the burden on both families, and at the same time both parties have two children, and each family is accompanied by small children, which is very beneficial to family harmony.

2. There are also disadvantages of two-headed marriage, the independence of children after marriage is poor, the integrity of the small family is affected, and it may affect the relationship between husband and wife. It is easy to deepen the awareness of the young couple, and at the same time will affect the integrity of the small family. Because the man and the woman do not leave home after getting married, but still live in their respective families, the young couple do not often live together, which may cause some conflicts, and it may affect the relationship between the husband and wife after a long time.

For example, in real life, some couples have conflicts because they participate in some common activities. The appearance of these things will bring some trouble to the relationship between husband and wife.

Some of the contradictions that arise in the two-headed marriage can be mediated, and some cannot be reconciled, so the favorable side of the two-headed marriage should continue to be carried forward, and those contradictory things should be settled together to coordinate and solve. Only in this way can the two-headed marriage become better and better.

Two-headed marriages arose in Jiangsu and Zhejiang, neither the man marrying a daughter-in-law, nor the woman marrying.

Although the wishes of both men and women are satisfied, the children will be very uncomfortable when they enter the society, and they will not be able to explain why there are two names, which will be very troublesome.

The advantage should be that it can make family life more harmonious, and the disadvantage is that it will make many men dissatisfied.

1. Profit; There is a better persuasion of the equality of men and women, and this matter equalizes the two families who are close to each other. 2. Disadvantages; The distribution of property can become complicated, and if there are more than two properties, there will be a lawsuit.