What if it s confessed? What to do if someone confesses

Confession doesn't need to say any flowery language, just say the true feelings in your heart, whether you can succeed depends on whether the other party is moved, if a confession is not successful, don't give up easily, although persistence may not necessarily have results, but giving up will never be hopeful. I have a good buddy, I treat him as a brother, he treats me as a sister, the kind that has a good relationship, don't look at my buddies are usually very righteous, and they are good to their sisters, but they will be shy in front of the girls they like. Buddies have liked a girl for a long time, and they want to confess, but they don't know what to do, and they want me to help him think of a way, so I will give him a return military advisor, as long as my military division is out, there is nothing that can't be done.

In fact, my military advisor is just a vain name, and the methods are all searched on the Internet, and finally I found a very earthy method. I asked him to go to the Internet to find a kind of blessing bag thing, the light is not ordinary, bring one on the body will bless people's wishes, I saw a lot of people on the Internet use this method, they all said it really works. It doesn't matter if he is useful or not, I can make a deal if the method is found, and it depends on him whether he can do it or not.

I didn't expect the buddies to really find a small shop to help you get rich, there are blessing bags sold in it, the shopkeeper Fan Fei and Yuan Ying said that many people come here to find blessing bags for confession, hoping that they can succeed. Dude is really stupid, I really believe in this stupid method, I'm really worried about him, what if it doesn't work, don't blame me. But it's really a fool who has a fool's luck, and he really succeeded, saying that my reputation as a military advisor is well deserved, I'm surprised.

I think it must have been a mistake, it wouldn't really be so magical, if it was really like this, everyone went to buy a wish bag, and there wouldn't be so many single lovelorn people in this world. In fact, whether the two can be together or not ultimately depends on fate, people with fate will naturally come together, if fate is not good to grasp, it is just fate. So if you like someone, you must confess, whether it's a smart way or a stupid way, you have to give it a try.

If you don't like the other person, you should politely refuse, and if you like the other person, accept it generously.

When someone confesses to themselves, they must not be too excited, even if their hearts are magnificent, they must be calm, especially women, they must be more reserved, and they must stabilize their emotions and stay calm.

If someone confesses to himself, if it is in person, pay attention to the confession occasion, if he doesn't like the other party, he can't directly refuse the other party, he needs to think about the other party's face; If you like it, say yes, and you can take a commemorative photo.

When you meet someone confessing to you, if you haven't thought about this aspect of the matter, you can directly explain to the other party that you need time to think about it, and during this time of consideration, you can ask friends and family for their opinions, and then give the other party a reply.

When someone confesses to you, if you don't have any feelings for the other party, or even a trace of disgust, you must reject the other party in time, let the other party know your feelings and thoughts, and you can't keep letting others misunderstand.

1. Accept it with grace, you can't be a lover or a friend.

It doesn't matter if the confession is rejected, how to maintain your demeanor after the confession is rejected is more important. The first rejection may be because the other party does not know himself well enough, or the other party has already answered to be a sweetheart, then it is best to ask the reason, the first time is inexperienced, and if it doesn't work once, you can do it again. If you really can't see hope, let go as soon as possible, accept the result with grace, and leave a good impression on the other party.

Stalking and angry people are the most annoying, and it is reasonable for such people to confess and be rejected. Whether Kiyosui is a man or a woman, he wants to like his object and will not be too bad. When the confession is rejected, it is certain that it is uncomfortable, and it is okay to cry and go crazy in private, but in front of the other party, you must talk about self-cultivation.

Second, make a humorous joke and quickly change the topic.

A joke is definitely a good way to relieve the awkwardness, and the atmosphere in which a confession is rejected is often awkward for both parties, so it's time to change the subject and talk about other things. But in this process, you must pay attention to the degree of joking, don't let the other party feel that you are playing with your feelings, and respect others is also respect for yourself.

When you are humorous, you can choose to laugh at yourself, but you must not say that the other person is bad. When changing the topic, try to say things that have nothing to do with the relationship, don't talk about the memories of two people, the other party can reject you, which means that the memories between you that you cherish may not be worth mentioning to the other party.

3. Leaving quietly is destined to have no ending, and you can say goodbye to each other.

If you can't get it, and it's very uncomfortable to be friends, then say goodbye to each other, and from then on, everyone will be okay and don't disturb each other. If you know that the other person will not like you, it is impossible for you to get better, and there is no hope at all. Then letting go is the best way, maybe it will be difficult at the time, but over time, it will always be able to pass.

There is no need to feel sorry for being rejected, all the missed and inappropriate in this world is to meet the right person. Can you explain the matter of fate? The twisted melon is not sweet, and the person who is forced will not be happy even if they can be together.

Cherish and cherish yourself, and one day you can meet someone who is happy with you. If it is determined that two people are impossible, then let go in a way that is as polite and personable as possible.

Circumstance. 1. Don't express your position, don't accept, don't refuse.

Look at the other person's sincerity and your own sincerity. People who really have a heart will not give up the pursuit of you because of your rejection, if they are just playing, this stage is the best test. And leaving yourself a buffer period to think about is also a rational choice;

Circumstance. 2. Refusal.

If this dislike is annoying, resolutely refuse it, and be sure not to leave any chance, because any kindness you have may make the other party feel that you are giving a chance. For the method of rejection, here are a few things to refer to:

1. Direct refusal.

Direct rejection is simple and crude, but often the most accurate way to express the meaning. And the long pain is not as good as the short pain, the entanglement is not as good as the quick knife to cut the mess, and direct refusal is a relief for both parties.

a, we are not suitable, I have someone I like;

b. You're not the type I like, and I believe you don't want to be with someone you don't like, right?;

c. If I don't like you, I don't like you, and there really isn't much reason for that.

2. Indirect refusal:

In an indirect euphemism, you must also pay attention to expressing your meaning clearly.

a. If you can, you must not reply, do not contact, do not make an appointment, do not accept gifts, and avoid misunderstandings in any sense;

b. Actually, I already knew that you thought so, thank you for your uplift;

c. The shorter the reply message, the better, avoid long speeches, and use it resolutely with um, oh, and hehe;

d. Be sure to avoid being alone.

If you don't have feelings for him, be sure to refuse any form of being alone with two people, because if you go to play with him alone, it's easy for him to think that you are a little interesting to him.

Circumstance. 3. Acceptance.

Of course, the premise is that you don't hate this person, and you've always been used to being good to you, and if you can't change it, you can try to take a look together. The environment will change, people will change, and you will also change, maybe in many moments in the future, you will slowly perceive the shining point and excellence of TA.

You don't have to do too much, just say no, tell him that you don't have any liking for him except that you hate him, and ask him to stay away from you.

Like each other? If you don't like it, you can refuse generously.

Although love is beautiful, the failure to confess is very sad and frustrating. At this time, you should take steps to ease the feeling of loss and regain yourself. Specifically, you can alleviate your sense of loss by letting go of the burden of your thoughts, facing reality rationally, burning a big source, and building self-confidence to start over.

First of all, you have to let go of the burden of your thoughts.

When the confession fails, the burden of one's mind will be heavier, and I feel that I can't get out. ......At this time, you must learn to let go of the burden of your thoughts and look forward. ......Only in this way can you come out of the failure of confession, completely eliminate the sense of loss, and cheer yourself up.

Second, you should face the reality rationally.

The reality is in front of you, and you can't change it, so you have to face it rationally. ......Although it is very uncomfortable to confess failure, the reality is that since you can't change the result, you should face it rationally.

When you are able to face the reality calmly, the sense of loss will be relieved and you will regain your calm.

Finally, you should build up your confidence and start over.

Although it is disappointing to confess failure, it is not a big deal, and you can start anew. ......You should build up enough self-confidence and show yourself with a better appearance, so as to strive for better opportunities for yourself, pursue a better love, and a better life. ......At this time, I will completely eliminate the sense of loss of confession failure, regain my strength, and start from scratch.

If you like it, say I like you too.

If you don't like it, say you're sorry, thank you for liking. I don't have a favorite yet.

If you like the other person's Changna, then you can promise him. I said that you are intolerant of liquid code and like to bury the other person, then you can reject him in this aspect and tell him that you don't want to fall in love yet.